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Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Badhguy(m): 7:23pm On Mar 14, 2025
Bro eat more fruits and enough eggs, exercise more too and watch yourself last long. Most importantly exercise more
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:05pm On Mar 14, 2025
Gabrielshow24:
"Eunuch from God" 😊
I'm up and going now cool
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:07pm On Mar 14, 2025
But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men.[/quote]Always open to learn new things
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by SuperOnyi: 10:28pm On Mar 14, 2025
Columbine:
But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men.

Always open to learn new things
shocked



Any improvement?
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 7:44pm On Mar 20, 2025
SuperOnyi:
shocked



Any improvement?
Yeah! Slow and steady. Been pushing it.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 7:44pm On Mar 20, 2025
Wimkeh:
Your BC and IC muscle is very weak, that’s why you can’t hold erection. It has nothing to do with anxiety. That’s why even when you achieve penetration and your anxiety goes down, you’re still soft. It’s cause your penis muscle is very weak.


Most people here don’t even know they have very strong BC and IC muscle. Everyone gets anxious before sex, but that shouldn’t make you soft.

There is a penis muscle and you have to train it very well and condition it so it’s not tense from over training (by doing stretches that affect the perinium). Or else you will have very strong erection but will be cumming fast (another problem)

Now, there are exercises that can reduce cortisol (stress) in your blood, which makes your heart to pound really fast before the act and puts you in a fight or flight mode ( which is not a good mode for sex. You need to turn that off to be able to have sex easily)

I’m not going to dive into that until I know you’re interested.

I had all your symptoms before, from A to Z. In fact I had to check if it was me that wrote it cause it’s carbon copy.

But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men.
Whatsup bro. I think I need some dose of your knowledge
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by SuperOnyi: 9:09pm On Mar 20, 2025
Columbine:
Yeah! Slow and steady. Been pushing it.
shocked


Great!
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 11:23pm On Mar 20, 2025
Columbine:
Whatsup bro. I think I need some dose of your knowledge
I want to post an image on this thread with a question. But it’ll be when you and I are online.

That will determine if we move forward
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Smilleydr(m): 10:33am On Mar 21, 2025
2special:
I believe with time you will be fine....you just have to stop masturbating.
that thing call masturbation really dealt with me, my babe go come like this befoer you know sharp sharp my prick don rise


And immediately I penetrate like this I don cum wey the babe no go even feel anything and shame go come dey catch me, make prick come rise again na problem e no go gree rise again ooooo,


Pls stop masturbating, it doesn't help atall.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 12:44pm On Mar 23, 2025
Wimkeh:
I want to post an image on this thread with a question. But it’ll be when you and I are online.

That will determine if we move forward
You can, will see it ASAP
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 3:13pm On Mar 23, 2025
Columbine:
You can, will see it ASAP
Dude it took you three days to come online. Anyways, I’ll wait to see if you’re still here. Reply to this post
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 6:02pm On Mar 24, 2025
Wimkeh:
Dude it took you three days to come online. Anyways, I’ll wait to see if you’re still here. Reply to this post
I dey active for night bro. Say 9pm.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Ibkay32(m): 6:32pm On Mar 24, 2025
Columbine:
I dey active for night bro. Say 9pm.
Let me set my timer, I will be here too lpl grin
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 8:34pm On Mar 24, 2025
Ibkay32:
Let me set my timer, I will be here too lpl grin
Lol... cheesy
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m):
Columbine:
I dey active for night bro. Say 9pm.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 9:51pm On Mar 24, 2025
Wimkeh:
Okay. I can’t post picture. I need you to do a physical exam on yourself. I need you to check that space between your balls and your anus. Check it and let me know if it’s flat or not
Flat bro
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 10:05pm On Mar 24, 2025
Columbine:
Flat bro
Okay. We've identified your problem. Your problem is more muscular than anxiety. So it's easy to fix. Although you always catch me at a wrong time. I'll update you tomorrow, I'm kinda handling a job right now.

Just know that your problem is not psychological, it's not porn, it's not masturbation. It's none of that. Although none of that is good, but there's a reason people watch and do those stuff and still perform flawlessly in bed. I'll show you with pictorial explanation tomorrow.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:14pm On Mar 24, 2025
Wimkeh:
Okay. We've identified your problem. Your problem is more muscular than anxiety. So it's easy to fix. Although you always catch me at a wrong time. I'll update you tomorrow, I'm kinda handling a job right now.

Just know that your problem is not psychological, it's not porn, it's not masturbation. It's none of that. Although none of that is good, but there's a reason people watch and do those stuff and still perform flawlessly in bed. I'll show you with pictorial explanation tomorrow.
Okay. Btw, what if it's flat?
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 10:40pm On Mar 24, 2025
Columbine:
Okay. Btw, what if it's flat?
It means your love muscle is weak. From your original post, you don’t have problem with blood flow cause you can actually get it up or a bit erect. But it’s the job of those muscles to trap the blood in your penis. It’s weak so it can’t do its job.

Drop your email. I want to communicate via email. I’ll have to drop some videos and pictures to explain a lot of things.
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Odebayo4010(m): 11:02pm On Mar 24, 2025
Columbine:
Actually I do. But it's been a while now.
You have to stop masturbation totally,try to seek for medical check up, you cause this by your self,go to hospital and explain your self to them, coming here can't solve your problem,
Try to chewing miracle leaves it works to reduce heatbeat
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:03pm On Mar 25, 2025
Odebayo4010:
You have to stop masturbation totally,try to seek for medical check up, you cause this by your self,go to hospital and explain your self to them, coming here can't solve your problem,
Try to chewing miracle leaves it works to reduce heatbeat
Which one is miracle leave?
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:04pm On Mar 25, 2025
Wimkeh:
It means your love muscle is weak. From your original post, you don’t have problem with blood flow cause you can actually get it up or a bit erect. But it’s the job of those muscles to trap the blood in your penis. It’s weak so it can’t do its job.

Drop your email. I want to communicate via email. I’ll have to drop some videos and pictures to explain a lot of things.
I Emailed you
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 4:19pm On Mar 25, 2025
Columbine:
I Emailed you
Sorry I can’t access the email I used here. It’s a fake email I used to register. Email only last for 10 minutes. Unless you drop your email here and I’ll email you. I’ll let you know when I’ve got the email so you can delete it
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:43pm On Mar 25, 2025
[quote author=Wimkeh post=134703600]Sorry I can’t access the email I used here. It’s a fake email I used to register. Email only last for 10 minutes. Unless you drop your email here and I’ll email you. I’ll let you know when I’ve got the email so you can delete it
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 4:45pm On Mar 25, 2025
Columbine:
@gmail.com
Okay you can delete
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:48pm On Mar 25, 2025
Wimkeh:
Okay you can delete
👍
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by lovediehatelive(m): 5:48pm On Mar 25, 2025
Wimkeh:
I want to post an image on this thread with a question. But it’ll be when you and I are online.

That will determine if we move forward
Bro please can you share more for all to learn?

If possible create thread in sexuality section.



A bit off, what do you say about eating bitter kola and consuming enough lean protein like chicken?

Which way would it help
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 7:44pm On Mar 25, 2025
Columbine:
👍
So we’ll communicate via mail. I just sent you a mail
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Odebayo4010(m): 8:54pm On Mar 25, 2025
Columbine:
Which one is miracle leave?
Search for it on Google
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Emeka511(m): 11:18pm On Mar 25, 2025
Stop Xvideo and stop wanking
Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Wimkeh(m): 4:49pm On Mar 26, 2025
Columbine:
I Emailed you
You’ve got mail
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