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| How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 2:02pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
OK I know you people will come out to attack me acting all holy and complete but I will take the few advice that I find informative.. OK the problem here is I find that at first when am with a lady it is all fun and interesting but when I get to know who you are and maybe feel like am developing feelings for you it become scaring...the thought of solving her problems become intense and then I break... I run away and it kind of scary not now but in the future because I feel like nothing will change if I don't try to change it now So how can I balance this, so that in the future I will be ready... Because last last man need woman to trust and love 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Shalommy(f): 2:56pm On Mar 22, 2025*. Modified: 3:16pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Op, you're just a stingy guy.  You don't wanna spend on someone. Chaiiii.. 😄😄 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Exceed15: 3:02pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Or how can a woman be with you? |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Proserpina: 3:07pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Avoid women for now when you don't wet your pants at the thought of being responsible for a woman then come back. T for Thanks. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Dzzzz: 3:30pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Shalommy:…Ole!! 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by AllBlack: 3:32pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
ucheagu:you are doing the right thing. RUN AWAY abeg. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by AllBlack: 3:33pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Shalommy:is it forbidden for SOMEONE to spend on him? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by OlaOfLagos(m): 4:30pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
Anything wey make she accept to date you, bro you have automatically adopt an orphan. My advice for you is to date a working class lady at Least you won’t have to shoulder all her responsibilities. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by MrCork: 4:38pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
ucheagu:  |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by MrCork: 4:42pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
ucheagu:So you gay...corrrrect?.....why are u gay? |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Helpout12345: 11:31pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
ucheagu:You are still a young man and you're just getting to know women. None of them will ever be with you if they have nothing materials to gain from you. So, don't build your happiness on being with a woman. Women cannot give a man happiness. I bet you when you finally see one that is even ready to be with you, you will miss this your single years with her troubles. AND REMOVE that thoughts called "Love" from your head. It only exists in fiction in women dictionary. Women are always in business while men are in love in a relationship. How can a person that cannot be with you if you can't provide material things for her truly love you ever  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Kobojunkie: 11:48pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
ucheagu:Solving her proving? What do you think you are.... some sort of savior to women? This delusion of sorts seems to be the cause of your relationship anxiety. First, you will need to work on yourself. Make an appointment with a professional mental health therapist as soon as you can, and stick to prescribed treatment to ensure you can either get over the problem or learn how to better cope with your core issues.  |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 22, 2025 |
OlaOfLagos:Hahahaha... Working class lady? Na them worse pass cos their billing na high tension this op when be like say him still dey struggle na U say make him put body for working class 😹. Girl when get sense get sense not by working class or not oo... Some working class bills no be here then if she come dey drive on top just know say Ur own done finish.. U fit confuse wether she dey mistake U for her mechanic sometimes with the complaints  1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Kobojunkie: 12:01am On Mar 23, 2025 |
OlaOfLagos:Is the lady the problem here or is OP's savior complex which seems to trigger serious panic attacks in him at this point? Op is clearly not in need of a woman, but some serious mental health therapy to help him realize that he is not meant to be a savior for any woman. Once that is resolved, he will be better able to go about choosing the right woman, and yes, a woman with work of her own who would not need to depend on him sounds like a better option. |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Nobody: 8:05am On Mar 23, 2025 |
OP, you're not alone in this. The truth is many well meaning young men out there are no longer doing the traditional boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because of the fear of having the responsibilities of a family man and hence the reason hookup/prostitution is on the rise. If you're 28+, what you need to do is to package and invest in yourself and you'll be having more of 33+ ladies who'll desperately come to you for marriage (but no use your mouth promise any lady marriage o it's bad) just allow them fool theirselves with their imagination. |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Starboytwo(m): 11:55am On Mar 23, 2025 |
I've never tried to solve any girl problem before... My motto goes thus ma ko ba mi ma ko ba mi handle ur business sho gbo mi If 3k can't fix it. Call uncle or daddy. |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Mopeola(f): 12:34pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
The only problem you have right now is that you have not been heartbroken but if that can happen to you once an sure you will not think about those foolish genders 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by WantsandMore: 1:21pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
ucheagu:Just try to be a responsible person without being selfish or overbearing. For e.g she ask for financial support, check your budget and ask yourself can I afford it? Remember A yes and A no are completely good answers, just be honest about it and be patient, then communicate your thoughts and feelings in a way that’s both constructive and positive, then assure them you’ll come through whenever your finances improve and be truthful to yourself. Whenever you find yourself some extra change do not wait until they ask just randomly surprise them, what if they don’t demand financial support but something else entirely? Well hardly, but still communicate that tiny voice in your head exactly how it says it but be reassuring that’s how to stay with basically anyone (male or female) honesty, compassion and kindness will always get you through the day but be wary of people trying to manipulate you, like Jesus, do not let them push you off the cliff. Your mission is just getting started… hope this helps, all the best. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by JOACHINpedro: 1:22pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
You've been taken advantage by who you love in your past relationship. Hence, you develop a defence mechansim that you can't control. My advise: Since sapa no dey close to you, try discover what you want from a partner and look out for that. Never settle for less and don't foolishly fall in love with everyone you meet. Take care |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Bendeco02: 1:43pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
How long will you continue running away? You have to continue searching for less demanding ones. If you are out from school just go for fellow graduates, the ones that has gotten job. Women follows men with the hand they give them. Don't be stingy for some things you can provide and also don't show her you're rich. If she ask for 5k you can tell her you have 2k or 3k. Don't always provide what she ask for All mature men need woman in their life and vice versa. But if you're below 26years or yet to gradudate from school then face your school or hustle and leave women for now. |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by MrCork: 2:39pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
ucheagu:Good news brother Adexgentle005 is ready to dress like a woman if u pay him 10k...cash (N10,000 naira)......HE nigerian & he said he not really gay thou..but he wot we call transgendered in london sir..someyimes we call them trannny... yor call ..THANK ME LATER SIR... |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Adexgentle005(m): 4:10pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
MrCork:That’s what you are. A transgender and also an escort for politicians |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by MrCork: 5:19pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
Adexgentle005:Brother relax ...i have 2 albanian guys here ready to pay u a cool N14,000 Naira each for 3some but they aint really gay.....they said they juss want a fruty guy .u intarestted sir? |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 8:40pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
MrCork:Well Mr cork I have choose to avoid you but it seems you need to hear this not everyone is you.... |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 8:41pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
Bendeco02:Thanks |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 8:41pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
Bendeco02:Thank you |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 8:43pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
ediko5:Thank you |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by ucheagu(op): 8:44pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
Helpout12345:Thanks |
| Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by MrCork: 8:50pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
ucheagu:WOW..So u sayin u dont like women...corrrrect?....you are gay . Hopefuly u will not get areeested sir Why are u gay sir?((no oofencsecce)) |
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