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As simple as that, laced with facts.

Reverseng:
And virgin men should look for virgin women

Single Mother's should choose whatsoever comes their way not looking for a near perfect Man

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While I don't completely disagree with u but there are single mothers who are quite different in the sense that they are not just out looking for a provider but support emotionally and financially which isn't that bad. Again not all of them are bitter or ended things on bad note with their exes, although the numbers are very few, some are still on good terms just that things obviously didn't and won't work out, some made very poor decisions and have come to realize their errors, some lost their partners to the cold hands of death. All I'm saying is not all single moms are terrible but u still need to be careful. Find out why she's single and never believe her story but try to hear from someone neutral cos most of them lie. All the same I wouldn't advice any young man without kids of their own to start life with a single mom. That will be something else but then single moms need love and dicking too

UKEMY:
Single Mother's should choose whatsoever comes their way not looking for a near perfect Man

Abi

dkidd:
While I don't completely disagree with u but there are single mothers who are quite different in the sense that they are not just out looking for a provider but support emotionally and financially which isn't that bad. Again not all of them are bitter or ended things on bad note with their exes, although the numbers are very few, some are still on good terms just that things obviously didn't and won't work out, some made very poor decisions and have come to realize their errors, some lost their partners to the cold hands of death. All I'm saying is not all single moms are terrible but u still need to be careful. Find out why she's single and never believe her story but try to hear from someone neutral cos most of them lie. All the same I wouldn't advice any young man without kids of their own to start life with a single mom. That will be something else but then single moms need love and dicking too

Your post looks confusing to me. You started as it you want to argue with my points then yoh ended up agreeing with me.

Take a look at this single mom. See how her bad decisions will drive her to kid number 2 without a father.

When we say they make poor decisions someone will be thinking we are propagating hate.

Dpsychologist:
Your post looks confusing to me. You started as it you want to argue with my points then yoh ended up agreeing with me.

Lol I am not arguing with ur points bro and yeah I do agree. I'm just saying we all need love even single mothers too, but whomever wants to tow that line should do it with their eyes wide open

Dpsychologist:
Take a look at this single mom. See how her bad decisions will drive her to kid number 2 without a father.

When we say they make poor decisions someone will be thinking we are propagating hate.

That's a lose canon. A big careless hoe

dkidd:
Lol I am not arguing with ur points bro and yeah I do agree. I'm just saying we all need love even single mothers too, but whomever wants to tow that line should do it with their eyes wide open

Yes you are right. They should go entangle with a single dad. They are of same caliber.

This is how some women become single moms.

They get entangled with a man who has no future plans with them but just sex.

She is saying she doesn't want to abort the last one that she wants to keep it, the guy got angry and is telling her to leave. Clearly he will refuse to accept the baby and if she continues like that she ends up a single mom.

Society always try to portray it that they were innocent and the man got them pregnant and ran away refusing to take responsibility.

dkidd:
That's a lose canon. A big careless hoe

Women like her can end up with 3 to 4 kids from different dad and will post on dating sites that she wants a serious relationship that will lead to marriage with a responsible man.

Dpsychologist:
Women like her can end up with 3 to 4 kids from different dad and will post on dating sites that she wants a serious relationship that will lead to marriage with a responsible man.

Hahaha... As crazy as it sounds I have actually seen this exact situation 😂

Reverseng:
And virgin men should look for virgin women

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And broke girls should go for broke men

Nyascobar1414:
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And broke girls should go for broke men

Lol them nor go gree oo.. u wan kpai people daughters

Nyascobar1414:
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And broke girls should go for broke men

You nailed him. His logic is flawed.


But naija girls no go gree o. Relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme to them.

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Reverseng:
Girls are not suppose to work for money. Or rather perform masculine roles to get money
It's not their job too. What a man can do, a woman cannot and is not supposed to do!

Instead, A woman can do equally and Oppositely

Men climbing burj khalifa to hit a nail in a bid to exercise their masculinity doesn't mean women should follow suit. Women instead should look for the highest feminine role they can carry out in the society and do so

It's the failure of men that forces women' to be masculine.

Weak men don't create strong men. They create strong women

https://www.nairaland.com/8337993/error-schools-girl-education

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Then it's safe to say that despite the fact that men love varieties in women..They deserve virgins who ought to be loyal..
Same way vvomen are broke and will seek aan that can provide their needs...

Men will gain experience to marry inexperienced women.

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Reverseng:
Men provide (finances)

Women protect (virginity)

Men don't DESERVE VIRGIN women
only men who knows what it takes to keep their virginity can truly appreciate a woman's virginity.

Pearls shouldn't be cast to pigs in the name of selfish and foolish love.

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Women don't deserve what they haven't worked for..
They should also meet their broke/lazy version in the opposite gender.

https://medium.com/the-knowledge-of-freedom/single-father-households-do-vastly-better-than-single-mother-heres-the-real-reason-why-8a7fd7c5611d

It’s extraordinarily well-documented how much of a disadvantage children from single-mother households have over children whose parents remain together, but less well-documented is how much of a disadvantage they have over single-father households.

For example, studies have found that children that from single-mother households are 5 times more likely to commit suicide than children from both unbroken households and single-father households, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances, 14 times more likely to commit rape, 20 times more likely to end up in prison and 32 times more likely to run away from home.

The list does not stop there, single-mother households also account for 70% of all teen pregnancies, 70% of all child murders, and they account for the majority of filicide cases, which means yes, a child living in a single-mother household is the most likely to be murdered by their parent.

Most at this point will probably think that the stepfather is the main killer and reason; however, studies have found this to be false and that stepparents are no more likely to kill children than their biological counterparts.

This means inevitably, that single mothers are on average the biggest killers of children, some studies even show that mothers are the biggest killers of children overall. Though, it should be noted that others show it to be fathers, while others show that men and women are equally as likely to kill their children.
Regardless of the dynamics of this complex point, all of this seems crazy considering the consensus is mothers make better parents on average than fathers, yet the data seemingly says otherwise.

In fact, the only disadvantage to living with just your father rather than both of your parents appears to be that you are more likely to be promiscuous in adulthood, which isn’t even a problem…

When Accountability is Avoided and the Victim Card is Pulled by single moms

A woman recently made a post painting herself as a "strong single mom who was betrayed". She left out key details and tried to draw sympathy, but many in the comment section weren’t buying it. Let’s break it down.

Her Story (in summary):

“I became a single mom at 25 with 3 beautiful kids. I loved a man deeply. We hustled together, but once he succeeded, he became promiscuous. I left when he made it clear he was no longer interested. I chose myself and found love again. My story should inspire other single moms to stay strong.”




Red Pill Translation:

She had 3 kids by a man who never married her.

She ignored the fact that loyalty without commitment is a losing game.

She’s glorifying “struggle love” and masking poor choices as strength.

She’s trying to make “walking away” look empowering—after tolerating red flags until he left.

Her final “I found love again” is just PR to save face.


The Cold Truth (that she’ll never admit):

1. She had unprotected sex multiple times with a man who didn't commit.


2. She had not one, but THREE kids with him.


3. She believed being “loyal” would secure the relationship.


4. She overestimated her influence and underestimated his options.


5. She expected wifely rewards without becoming a wife.



Brutal but Honest Reactions from others :

“You played a role—unprotected sex, wrong partner, kept having kids. Own it.”

“No single mother ever starts her story with ‘I messed up’—always the man’s fault.”

“If that guy was your brother, would you advise him to stay with a woman like you?”

“You’re not strong for choosing yourself AFTER you let a man disrespect you repeatedly.”

“You didn’t find love again—you found a man willing to tolerate your baggage. Big difference.”


Let’s Be Real:

Most single mothers don’t tell the full story.
It’s always:

“He changed after he made it.”

Never:

“I kept having kids for a man who never planned to marry me.”


The Red Pill Lesson:

Women control access to sex. Men control access to commitment.

If you give your body cheaply, don’t expect premium treatment.

Love isn’t blind—it’s logical. Men walk away when the math no longer adds up.

Playing the victim after three unwed pregnancies is not empowerment—it’s evasion.

To the Men:

Vet carefully.
Single mother stories are rarely what they seem.
When she says “He left me,” ask:

“Why did he feel comfortable leaving?”

“What kind of woman lets herself have 3 kids with no ring?”


To the Women (if you're reading):

This isn’t hate—it’s accountability.
You’re free to choose—but not free from consequences.


Final Thoughts:

The next time you hear:

“He betrayed me…”


Ask yourself:

“What’s the full story she’s NOT telling?”


Because there’s always more than she reveals in her victim narrative.

dkidd:
Hahaha... As crazy as it sounds I have actually seen this exact situation 😂

Not only you, I've seen one in Ondo State. With four grown-up kids and want to have an elaborate wedding. It's not funny at all

Some people think we are playing here. This is what a single mom will do to you esp when the baby daddy is alive.