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| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by maasoap(m): 11:15pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
AGManuel:Sex will eventually decline in any marriage no matter how great it is in the beginning. Good girls are scarce, don't gamble away your luck |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by chris51(f): 11:18pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
When the time comes you will know that there are more important things in marriage than sex. It's people like you that make girls bleach. Go and sort out your mental issues and leave the girl for who will appreciate her. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by chris51(f): 11:19pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
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| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by maasoap(m): 11:19pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Funny and real at the same time. I will always thank God for the one He pushed my way when I was ready, much better than I had hope for |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by lenghtinny(m): 11:19pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
AGManuel:I would advice you do away with her now for your own good. If you don’t feel fulfilled with her now, then you never will…… Never ever be with someone out of pity… If you kpai today, she no go follow you waka….. Better a bad relationship than a bad marriage…. But you see that your spec, when you finally find her, she go too show you shege….. Mark my words |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by salem1996: 11:21pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
AGManuel:The real proplem here is not advice you are looking for, you are just looking for how many people will support your view because you already have your preferred decision. How can you house a girl for 2 years, slept with her for 2 year and suddenly you are not attracted to her?, I guarantee you, even if you marry the kind of lady you desire, you'll still get tired of her and suddenly look elsewhere, it's not a "lost interest in sexual attraction" thing, it is a habit. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by maasoap(m): 11:23pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
idahme:You are right, absolutely. They wouldn't give a fvck even if you had sacrificed your entire life for them, they would walk if and when they were ready to walk away |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by maasoap(m): 11:28pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
koladata:He should come ask us. We're experiencing many things, bed issues that we can't even explain or tell people so that they won't be judging us simply because they don't understand what we're dealing with |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
fitinwell:Exactly and it's funny how everyone else is not seeing it 😹 |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by maasoap(m): 11:31pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
dkidd:Because Op himself didn't make it the center of discussion. He has got over that, there is no point emphasising on it |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Nobody: 11:31pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
chris51:Yes he should leave her for the ex she's still holding on to. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
maasoap:Lol... Where did he tell U he's gotten over that? A woman holding on to her ex is the biggest error to any relationship. Make Una dey mumu there |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by ceejay80s(m): 11:41pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
AGManuel:Sex is not love oga |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by GenFunction: 12:09am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:truth is two of una either no dey contented with what u have or na ashawo dey una eye |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by kpolli(m): 12:10am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:Only advice I will you as a married parent, when it's time to raise your children; hope light skin with big behind will be what you're craving |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by omolasho: 12:36am On Apr 05, 2025 |
[quote author=AGManuel post=134844153]Hello House, please help I need advice. I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef. Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house. I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage. She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes. Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem? I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex. She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem. She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck. Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused. I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up. Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging. I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low. I'm just confused. [/THIS ONE HAS BEEN PROGRAMMED TO SUFFER SHAA! YOU ARE ALMOST BEYOND REDEMPTION. ANYWAY, AM LOOKING FORWARD TO YOU JOINING MY AGONY] |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Killermamba: 2:01am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:Na your flesh dey confuse you guy, if you wan live long marry woman wey go give you rest of mind, I am a married man, my wife is very pretty, but no yansh or oversized breast but the rest of mind, advice and prayers from her as kept me going, sometime it's not about sex ,what you want or how you feel, it's about your unborn children and mostly rest of mind. And if these features are so important to you wait let her have kids for you first, then pay for her to tone her skin up and also do but lifting (BBL) after all food wey sweet na money kill am. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by smasher1(m): 2:07am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:When you get married and have kids, having sex once in a month may be difficult for you the man. That's the reality on ground. Everything is not sex. When you have bills to be paid, clothes to buy for the kids, shoes, house rent, building a house etc, I want to know how a responsible man with many targets would have time for sex. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by smasher1(m): 2:14am On Apr 05, 2025 |
MosesBlack:After a few months of marriage, a married man sees his wife for what she is, a true companion and not a sex mate. And that companion is more important than a sex mate. A woman that gives you sex non stop may not be a companion and that marriage may not work. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by olaremint(m): 2:36am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel: |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Bobbynobobby: 3:50am On Apr 05, 2025 |
Biqsahm:No mind am. Na light skin and big ass he wan dey focus on 24/7. He will learn and it won't be fun |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Bobbynobobby: 3:56am On Apr 05, 2025 |
YoungBTCxchange:The Bible says God has made us all according to the desires of his heart. You are not abnormal. The man that desires light skin and big behind is also not abnormal. You just have to find your rib that shares your interests and values, that's all. And have it in your mind she's out there. Remember whatever you think about, you bring about |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by jerryeminem: 4:49am On Apr 05, 2025 |
God go give you wife una go Dy find OS. Any woman that gives you peace,love and respect hold am tight.. No go carry the one wey go give you wahala AGManuel: |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by chazon(m): 4:50am On Apr 05, 2025 |
[as long as she beautiful, faithful and hardworking. Marry her you love her don’t you? The s#xual attraction is the least of your worry right now. No woman can have it all You may end up with the wrong one |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by opius: 5:28am On Apr 05, 2025 |
With all these good things you said about her, to me she is a lovely woman to settle down with. You are the problem here Oga. If you're not careful na oloso you go marry laslas S*x is not everything in marriage. Think about your old age when sex don't really matter anymore. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by luminouz(m): 5:52am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Tolu2024(m): 5:54am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:Don’t marry out of self pity 😎 , you will regret it in the rest of your life . If you don’t feel anything for her anymore or not your spec and you can’t grow to love her to be your spec leave her now before it’s too late ⏰. Again don’t marry out of self pity . For me I can’t do anything with any girl that keep in touch with her ex . Old fire wood 🪵 no dey quench . |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Charly68: 5:58am On Apr 05, 2025 |
Are you suppose to be sleeping with somebody you have not paid her bride price ? In any case your problem is closeness. Let her travel for two weeks you will appreciate her the more. Married couples do feel like that atimes. This is why they need to spice up their love life. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by mirrael68(m): 6:26am On Apr 05, 2025 |
YoungBTCxchange:Sex before marriage is a trap. Same as porn. Be wise, do as the Bible instructed. Sex is only bw married couples.You will eventually pay for sexual sins when you get married. |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by Munzy14(m): 6:46am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:The real truth is that she is your wife. If you miss her, you will cry. And if another man finds her, your own don be. Another thing I need to remind you of is, If your finance is doing well in the last two years, Is another good sign. Do that thing wey dey your mind, and regret it..😂😂😂😂 Dem no dey tell person |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by dettolgel: 6:49am On Apr 05, 2025*. Modified: 11:52am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:Were you sexually attracted to her at any point? No matter how much you are attracted to someone sexually, it will wane after a while. Know that and know peace. In this case if you have never been sexually attracted to her from the very beginning then that is a different story |
| Re: Can I Still Marry Her? Please Help. by tochez240: 7:12am On Apr 05, 2025 |
AGManuel:Whatever you're in doing in this world as a man, make sure you marry a woman that loves you⚠️ Your future and generations to come depends on just this singular fact!!!!! |
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