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3Csbutterfly:
I'm honestly not pleased with the responses I’ve been getting. Maybe I didn’t explain myself clearly, or perhaps I didn’t choose the right words to ensure proper understanding.

Let me be direct: based on my experience, marrying a virgin hasn't turned out to be a good idea.

My wife was a virgin when we met. She asked that we wait until our wedding night, and I respected that. Within two months of marriage, she became pregnant. Please note, we hadn't been very intimate, and she’s still quite tight. And no, I’m not a man with a small manhood.

What I don't understand is how I'm expected to continue having intimacy with my wife only for the sake of making babies. That’s not acceptable to me. Why should I keep engaging in intimacy with my wife, half way in? I want to go all the way in fully! It’s frustrating and unfulfilling so far! Well, I'm taking her to the hospital this morning. They should do something to through the way, I'm not happy!

Bro, you should have sensed the type of gang that are about to be unleashed on you.

More of the other may arrive later, so brace up for their bile.

You should be mindful of boards you post topics. Since what you seek is almost entirely medical, you should have gone to where there are more chances of getting responses from medical practitioners.

These ones will simply trivialise your issues and ridicule you. In the end, instead of helpful suggestions and advice you seek, the thread will degenerate into a toxic banter over this gender and that gender.

CrownedPhoenix:
Bro, you should have sensed the type of gang that are about to be unleashed on you.

More of the other may arrive later, so brace up for their bile.

You should be mindful of boards you post topics. Since what you seek is almost entirely medical, you should have gone to where there are more chances of getting responses from medical practitioners.

These ones will simply trivialise your issues and ridicule you. In the end, instead of helpful suggestions and advice you seek, the thread will degenerate into a toxic banter over this gender and that gender.

Perhaps it was my mistake not posting it in the right section. I'm still new to Nairaland, but I won’t make the same mistake again. Thank you.

pocohantas:
Lol. Very funny post.
I believe the OP is trolling.
So me sef dey return the energy.😃

Ahaha I believe he is 😂

pocohantas:
Since you understood my message, you picked something.

You want me to tell you how to make your wife's vagina WIDER and DEEPER like your EX's own? That is the meaningful contribution a married man wants? Why didn't you marry your EX with wide and deep vagina?

As for the tear, how do I know if your hurt her or reopened her tear? Maybe you should add a picture of the site for online examination.

Regards...🙂

Poco, you drink pami?

Acidosis:
This is why virgins need to marry their fellow virgins. You can’t go and scatter your body like suya on a bad grill, then carry that rough, agbero-style experience and offload it on somebody's daughter. There are people out there that get maximum satisfaction from 10 minutes "daddy and mommy" style and that's perfectly perfect.

If you or your ex like legs hanging on the window or thr us ting non-stop like say na war against Gaza, better to find a partner with a similar speedometer.

Jesu!

You guys should not spoil my innocent mind


How u dey abeg make i talk better thing

How are the kids.

descarado:
Jesu!

You guys should not spoil my innocent mind


How u dey abeg make i talk better thing

How are the kids.

Abi o, make we talk better thing 😂😂😂


We are doing fine my sister, and holding it together. How have you been?

To those criticizing how I express intimacy with my wife, your hypocrisy is on another level. If you're stuck with the "mommy and daddy" style for 10 minutes, that’s your business. My wife is not your sister, and even if she were, she’s my wife now. What you call her “private part” belongs to me!

It’s time to shift your mindset. Intimacy isn’t just about making babies, it’s about connection, exploration, and sometimes even relief. After letting this off my chest, I have some good news: the gynecologist we saw today said there’s nothing wrong with our style. In fact, she encouraged us to keep going , and even suggested I try the rear position at times ( coming-in-From-behind ). Yes, there’s some discomfort, but it’s temporary and may actually ease future childbirth.

To those who truly understand where I’m coming from, thank you. Keep pushing boundaries, never settle for less, and remember, intimacy is more than just reproduction. It’s an experience worth exploring.

3Csbutterfly:
To those criticizing how I express intimacy with my wife, your hypocrisy is on another level. If you're stuck with the "mommy and daddy" style for 10 minutes, that’s your business. My wife is not your sister, and even if she were, she’s my wife now. What you call her “private part” belongs to me!

It’s time to shift your mindset. Intimacy isn’t just about making babies, it’s about connection, exploration, and sometimes even relief. After letting this off my chest, I have some good news: the gynecologist we saw today said there’s nothing wrong with our style. In fact, she encouraged us to keep going , and even suggested I try the rear position at times ( coming-in-From-behind ). Yes, there’s some discomfort, but it’s temporary and may actually ease future childbirth.

To those who truly understand where I’m coming from, thank you. Keep pushing boundaries, never settle for less, and remember, intimacy is more than just reproduction. It’s an experience worth exploring.

You are yet to say why didn't marry your ex that you were exploring and pushing boundaries with.😁😂

doggedfighter:
You are yet to say why didn't marry your ex that you were exploring and pushing boundaries with.😁😂

Na you carry me come this thread now. This is so funny though.

These men like to eat their cake and have it. Nawa..

3Csbutterfly:
To those criticizing how I express intimacy with my wife, your hypocrisy is on another level. If you're stuck with the "mommy and daddy" style for 10 minutes, that’s your business. My wife is not your sister, and even if she were, she’s my wife now. What you call her “private part” belongs to me!

It’s time to shift your mindset. Intimacy isn’t just about making babies, it’s about connection, exploration, and sometimes even relief. After letting this off my chest, I have some good news: the gynecologist we saw today said there’s nothing wrong with our style. In fact, she encouraged us to keep going , and even suggested I try the rear position at times ( coming-in-From-behind ). Yes, there’s some discomfort, but it’s temporary and may actually ease future childbirth.

To those who truly understand where I’m coming from, thank you. Keep pushing boundaries, never settle for less, and remember, intimacy is more than just reproduction. It’s an experience worth exploring.

Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further.


Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.


Happy digging!

folake4u:
Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further. Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.
Happy digging!

The positions actually look good, especially 1 and 3. These positions na for people wey dey fit, not those who consume fufu every two seconds.

Go to the gym first




both you and your wife are so fat





trim down that belly and fatty laps

3Csbutterfly:
I'm honestly not pleased with the responses I’ve been getting. Maybe I didn’t explain myself clearly, or perhaps I didn’t choose the right words to ensure proper understanding.

Let me be direct: based on my experience, marrying a virgin hasn't turned out to be a good idea. My wife was a virgin when we met. She asked that we wait until our wedding night, and I respected that. Within two months of marriage, she became pregnant. Please note, we hadn't been very intimate, and she’s still quite tight. And no, I’m not a man with a small manhood. What I don't understand is how I'm expected to continue having intimacy with my wife only for the sake of making babies. That’s not acceptable to me. Why should I keep engaging in intimacy with my wife, half way in? I want to go all the way in fully! It’s frustrating and unfulfilling so far! Well, I'm taking her to the hospital this morning. They should do something to through the way, I'm not happy!

Pretty certain you were one of those championing the need to marry a virgin. Now, you don dey complain.

E no go tey you go begin carry side chics and spend heavily on them so you perform your acrobatic styles on them. If yu so much loved acrobatics, why you no marry your ex or a much more experienced lady?

las las, the "bad girls" are winning. the "good wives" go turn to museum relic for house.

folake4u:
Na you carry me come this thread now. This is so funny though.

These men like to eat their cake and have it. Nawa..

No mind him. He had a woman with experience who's sexually compatible with him. Left her for a virgin. Now wants to break the poor girl's legs with exploration even with episiotomy. While he keeps looking for depth.



Ehennn, Folake4u Lag too good for your body !

Those pictures too gbaski !

doggedfighter:
You are yet to say why didn't marry your ex that you were exploring and pushing boundaries with.😁😂

Well, her parents refused me because I'm a Christian. After that, we agreed to stay intimate until I got married. She knows my wife and the promise I made to her that I wouldn't sleep with her until our wedding night. Are you satisfied now? I don’t want to talk about my ex anymore because thinking about her still gets me a hard on! So, better get it off my mind. Thank you.

Gerrard59:
The positions actually look good, especially 1 and 3. These positions na for people wey dey fit, not those who consume fufu every two seconds.

Yeah I know right.

Na for physically fit people only.

doggedfighter:
No mind him. He had a woman with experience who's sexually compatible with him. Left her for a virgin. Now wants to break the poor girl's legs with exploration even with episiotomy. While he keeps looking for depth.



Ehennn, Folake4u Lag too good for your body !

Those pictures too gbaski !

That my dear, is the hypocrisy of a Nigerian man. Let him enjoy his virgin wife in peace and explore her body too.

Thank you DG. ☺

Gerrard59:
Pretty certain you were one of those championing the need to marry a virgin. Now, you don dey complain.

E no go tey you go begin carry side chics and spend heavily on them so you perform your acrobatic styles on them. If yu so much loved acrobatics, why you no marry your ex or a much more experienced lady?

las las, the "bad girls" are winning. the "good wives" go turn to museum relic for house.

You're wrong. Never wish for a virgin. I say this based on my experience with one of my exes. She claimed to be a virgin, but I didn’t take it seriously because I was distracted by her big yansh. Well, she was telling the truth, and what followed was a disturbing experience I never want to relive ( gory scene ). Since then, I made up my mind to avoid virgins. My wife was 27, with an even bigger yansh, but now I feel disappointed that I wasn’t able to explore more intimately with her but we are working on it!

folake4u:
Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further.


Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.


Happy digging!

Mo fé do obo yi

folake4u:
Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further.


Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.


Happy digging!

We've never tried the first one. We're experienced with the second one, but the third one happened when she was about five months pregnant. We haven’t tried it since she gave birth. Do you think throttling would make easy with the first one?

Kaczynski:
Go to the gym first




both you and your wife are so fat





trim down that belly and fatty laps

No, we’re not. We exercise regularly, running on Saturdays, cycling on Sundays, and we skip 200 rope jumps before dinner. But I must say, she has a big yansh.

3Csbutterfly:
We've never tried the first one. We're experienced with the second one, but the third one happened when she was about five months pregnant. We haven’t tried it since she gave birth. Do you think throttling would make easy with the first one?

It depends on if your wife is comfortable with that. Maybe you have the sex talk with her?

folake4u:
It depends on if your wife is comfortable with that. Maybe you have the sex talk with her?

She doesn’t like talking about sex (hence why she was able to remind me about the tear during childbirth), but we’ll discuss it when she returns home. Honestly, I’m getting tired already, but I believe we can still work on these imbalances.

3Csbutterfly:
She doesn’t like talking about sex (hence why she was able to remind me about the tear during childbirth), but we’ll discuss it when she returns home. Honestly, I’m getting tired already, but I believe we can still work on these imbalances.

Have you tried prayers? There's nothing Jesus cannot do.

folake4u:
Have you tried prayers? There's nothing Jesus cannot do.

This isn't spiritual, so no prayer is needed.

folake4u:
Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further.


Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.


[b]Happy diggin[/b]g!

These cracked me up 🤣😂😂😂

3Csbutterfly:
This isn't spiritual, so no prayer is needed.

Lol I know. Just kidding.

In all honesty, you should have married someone whom you had sexual compatibility with, but hey! It's too late to cry over spilled milk.

Best of luck to you and yours.

doggedfighter:
These cracked me up 🤣😂😂😂

Lol what to do.😉

folake4u:
Tor! @ the bolded. Since her púnnani now belongs to you, these are styles that you can use to dig further.


Research says the Prison style position gives a feeling like bungee diving. Blood rushes to the brain plus the feeling of being helpless. With every thrust, you'd feel like you will fall but you don't. #Adrenaline rush.


Happy digging!

Lol, you had me laughing out of control! It really does sound like intimacy is turning into an extreme sport. I just hope he remembers to wear a helmet for that bungee diving experience. Safety first.

Omofaye99:
Lol, you had me laughing out of control! It really does sound like intimacy is turning into an extreme sport. I just hope he remembers to wear a helmet for that bungee diving experience. Safety first.

Awww. I'm glad I made you laugh.

Lol, what do you want me to say again. He's not getting enough digging with his wife, so he needed recommendation and yes, I hope he observes safety measures in the activity.

3Csbutterfly:
She doesn’t like talking about sex (hence why she was able to remind me about the tear during childbirth), but we’ll discuss it when she returns home. Honestly, I’m getting tired already, but I believe we can still work on these imbalances.

No vex o, una no date before una marry? You did not get to know this before proposing to her?

When a woman I am talking to tells me she does not like sex, I write her off regarding anything romantic.

Your case be like who bought and shipped a clean titled Belgium car to Nigeria, you got the best car but the road here is rough, just keep using till it get used to Nigeria road…