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JustAndy:
So na crime now to just be friends with a woman nowadays 🙄. Chidiokay na una make friendship hard ooo

what friendship lion dey follow buffalo dey play


dey play

Tempulated:
Rasing tomorrow Vagabonds😂

I'do rather "not marry and be childless" or better still opt for the best which Surrogacy than indulge in this baby daddy and baby mama shiiit.

Only if you know what Women usually tells their kids about you. Because in this kind of settings and normal settings, Women are the owner of Children.

Vagabonds in whose family? If you have vagabonds in your family is your own cup of tea, and they must have taken it after your dad. Am a mogul! Vagabonds for where? Before you talk, reason!

Adekot:
My bro it is well

But it is better you get a lady that can manage the little resources you have with you


Loneliness at old age is bad

I will BRo. For now, I dey enjoy my life abeg. When am 50 I will ned one Regina wey nor pass 22 years old..

AutomatedMoney:
As A Diversifier, I Trade Multiple Prop Firms. I Do BluFX And FTMO.

Maven is The Newest I'm Observing To Join Up On.

That's good.

Maven is good brother. I currently trade with them. I already passed their phase 1 and 2 evaluations.

They added me to their discord after passing, and I can tell you brother, traders that know what they are doing are cashing out.

Sometimes I will just login to view payouts. The good thing is that they are paying out.

These are the best prop firms only my list.

1. FTMO
2. FundedNext
3. Maventrading
4. The5ers

All 4 have good ratings with thousands of positive reviews of more than 4.5/5 on trustpilot. Are they paying out? Oh yes. They are.

The5ers is more like FTMO cuz they have been in existence for 9 years. That's one of the reasons I added it to my list of good prop firms. It shows that they have stood the test of time and they are also paying out like FTMO and the rest.

You will never go wrong with these ones.

FTMO and FundedNext are the Baba of all, cuz they are all paying out, and you can have a total allocation of up to 400k and 300k USD respectively.

Enjoy your life.nothing do you.who no like am like that make e hug transformer.

Brilliancepower:
I will BRo. For now, I dey enjoy my life abeg. When am 50 I will ned one Regina wey nor pass 22 years old..

HajiaNotu:
And after the woman suffers with the ambitious man and the guy becomes rich...what happened next?
The men start changing women like wrappers..
They forget easily how they suffered together.
The emotional and physical abuse from the men is nothing to write home about..

But come to think of it. That statement of "I suffered with you", don't you think ladies are taking it out of its actual context?

How does a lady suffer with a man when it's still the man doing all the providing at the time when he is still struggling to make ends meet?

You will agree with me that the man is still the sole provider all throughout.

To me, that state of I suffered with you that ladies usually use to manipulate men should be properly rephrased to I was there with you when you had nothing.

To me, the man is still the one that suffered alone. The lady might just be there at the time cuz she finds no better option at the time.

So, leaving that particular guy at that point will be to her own loss. Not truly that she suffered with the guy cuz she won't be contributing to the financial running of the house with the man.

To me, this is how I view the whole situation. You might have a different outlook about this though.

chidiokay:
We keep reminiscing Women want rich men, what about men of this modern time who wants liability ... suffering impedes love

Tbh, its becuming stale to blame women for desiring riches.
if you are a woman naa poor man go be your choice

It's not wrong in the actual sense to desire a rich man. But what is wrong is, it is an outright foolishness to desire a rich man without the lady adding value to herself and name.

My point is clear; no lady can successfully tie down a rich guy or win his absolute commitment, without her being a lady of value who is also doing successfully well for herself.

Rich guys are now seeking ladies with high values. No rich guy will harbour a woman who is not of value.

If they are desiring a rich man, they should also better work hard to add values to themselves and names. That's the only way a rich man will respect and value them.

But if they think simply sitting and dreaming of a rich man is all they have to do and offer, and the rich men will just pick them and put them in their homes, that will be like looking for a needle in the wide ocean. You and I know, that will be near to impossible.

My point is still clear: Desiring a rich man won't give any lady a rich man. Except such a lady has the grace. And even if any lady manages to see a rich man without her having value to her own name, the rich guy won't treat her with respect.

That's why you hear of all sorts of maltreatments in marriages on a daily basis. Because according to many, they rather cry in Lamborghini than smile in Keke Napep.

If you sit to think about this carefully, you will discover that the numerous domestic violences going on in relationships and marriages on a daily basis are mostly ladies who married or went into such affairs because of money without her having her own money and the rich man ends up maltreating her. We hear about these things every day.

Now, the point still remains that while seeking that rich man, they should also do everything to add tangible values to themselves. If not, they will end up being elements of maltreatments to the rich men they seek.

Celestialsword:
can you please mention one area of human existence that is stress free.

Life is filled with struggles and challenges, weather as single or married even as a child.

So when you cowardly shy away from responsibilities , you are equally restricting your growth.

So someone says he doesn't want to marry, because he doesn't think like you, or doesn't like the idea of marriage.... Then you tame him with the bolded.....

We all know that nothing is easy, the world is cursed with suffering by a fictitious God which I don't know whether he exist or not, don't care.... My point is marriage should be a personal decision, not a mandatory decision....

Fab21:
Wow!!


You don't have a Girlfriend?

There are other options....
Tell me one thing a woman offers a man aside sex, which I can get with sex gadgets, so sex is aside the picture....

chidiokay:
if God bless you your mentality go change ... if you have money nd you love a gurl to spend on her go dey hungry you

i heard it from rich men, its true

Am already blessed not by God, but by my efforts.... I strongly believe in Luck not God....

I naturally hate women, (Not a gay please) not them... But there character.... They entirely irritate me....

Let's say I earn 500k for an assumption, and a foolish woman comes to me, claiming we are in a relationship and demands 250k for wig, that moment am kicking you out of my life, even 200 I won't give you.... But this time, am a full-time bachelor, so my money is solemnly for me and me alone....

No stupid wife(liability), no child.... Just me and me alone.... Life has never been better....

Advocate of....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

Hayaoga1:
while finance is key in marriage. I honestly know that even with the whole money in the world, a marriage will never last if the woman is disrespectful. I have been married for over 4yrs now but I feel like divorcing my wife because of disrespect.

is she good in bed

Emdebby2:
Lagos is full of ladies. Infact ladies are everywhere. My advice...pray before you embark on the journey.

do u toast gals on the street

descarado:
You listen to them?
They want maid, slave, worshipper and mama in their wives. Once you don't meet that qualification, you are toast.

The only thing I usually tell ladies is if you set boundaries from the beginning, don't bend. After the initial lovey lovey, (it will pass) marriage should be seen and treated as business contract. That way, everybody should sit up and perform what the contract stipulates they should do.

If it's your duty to mawn the lawn and you don't do it,not to worry,I will call somebody to do it, pay the person and collect back my money immediately. I will even put consultation fee join
Did lots of that last year. The one that would have fetched me more profit, he quickly did it.
Even the kids have learnt to tax me too

You talk like a jobless housewife. Are you one?

pocohantas:
They claim money is not the problem. They have money, but Naija women are the problem. So tell your brothers to use surrogacy.

5 to 7m and they will get the child they want.

- Employ a nanny to look after the kids.
- Employ another call girl for regular sex.

This is cheaper and more beneficial to them than a wife that would reduce their life span.

They are the ones not marrying, they are still the ones threatening women with menopause and wailing online everyday. Tufia!

i hear you are a babymama masquerading as a single lady

LoneSoldier:
This is the reason I tell men to focus on there self, marriage is a cage and a bondage, only one gender suffer it all, which is the male gender.....

Mind you am old enough to marry, but I choose not to marry, I don't know the hype they attach to this marriage of a thing, which favours a particular gender over the other....

I have choosen the bachelor's life, with my job nature... I always have time for myself so no pressure whatsoever....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

how do you fork

Marc3500:
biko gimme oo I'm not a womanizer

so u like yashless gals

Parizz:
how do you fork

Sex gadgets are available, sometimes I also masturbate....

3kay945:
I might have a good lady for you.
She is a Muslim and not endowed front and back. hope you get?

I hope you're not womaniser like some peeps here too

i need the one with yash. You get?

LoneSoldier:
Sex gadgets are available, sometimes I also masturbate....

people will talk

LoneSoldier:
There are other options....
Tell me one thing a woman offers a man aside sex, which I can get with sex gadgets, so sex is aside the picture....

Hmmm!


Your perspective

Parizz:
You talk like a jobless housewife. Are you one?

Care to give me job?
I don't mind.
Give me your details so I will send forward my everything to you.
Anù

Parizz:
i need the one with yash. You get?

Try Tittok bro

Gerrard59:
Men experience theirs EVERYDAY. That's the difference. Additionally, women are largely demisexual.

Speak for yourself coz honestly speaking, I don't.

ednut1:
did i tell you those men want the child? They will simply wait till the child has grown and try to sneak into their lives. You know a lot of Nigerian men believe “ the child will look for me”. 😩

You will do well to advise those men because the younger generation of women were single motherhood with pride .infact even if the man want to bring money,they will refuse.

If a whole davido baby mama will reject to live in the family estate(which will give him and his family access to the child). How much more an average or broke man?
Single moms aren't pursuing the men anymore
Alot of those cases are in immigration now. Women using their own surnames on the child and fleeing abroad with the baby and one dry scrubby man will start complaining they carry the pikin run.

Before the man's family will deceive the woman and convince her to use their surname on his birth certificate and documents. But gen z single moms have wise up.

Except you are a rich man,if you don't marry a woman,it's not your occasional 5k you send that will make the child yours.

And to those still hoping a child will look for them...gen z kids are not smiling. People are renouncing and disassociating from their parents frequently of late. Even when they were married legally and involved in their lives talk more of a dead beats.

tanigororo:
It's about rational thinking, whats the gain in Marriage most especially to most of this retired-oloshos, why buy what you can take for free? Everything you can enjoy in marriage can be enjoyed without marriage if not more.

Bros abeg clear us on this topic,

Tightpussy2024:
You will do well to advise those men because the younger generation of women were single motherhood with pride .infact even if the man want to bring money,they will refuse.

If a whole davido baby mama will reject to live in the family estate(which will give him and his family access to the child). How much more an average or broke man?
Single moms aren't pursuing the men anymore
Alot of those cases are in immigration now. Women using their own surnames on the child and fleeing abroad with the baby and one dry scrubby man will start complaining they carry the pikin run.

Before the man's family will deceive the woman and convince her to use their surname on his birth certificate and documents. But gen z single moms have wise up.

Except you are a rich man,if you don't marry a woman,it's not your occasional 5k you send that will make the child yours.

And to those still hoping a child will look for them...gen z kids are not smiling. People are renouncing and disassociating from their parents frequently of late. Even when they were married legally and involved in their lives talk more of a dead beats.

i no dey advice anyone o. If they no wan get sense na dem sabi

LoneSoldier:
Am already blessed not by God, but by my efforts.... I strongly believe in Luck not God....

I naturally hate women, (Not a gay please) not them... But there character.... They entirely irritate me....

Let's say I earn 500k for an assumption, and a foolish woman comes to me, claiming we are in a relationship and demands 250k for wig, that moment am kicking you out of my life, even 200 I won't give you.... But this time, am a full-time bachelor, so my money is solemnly for me and me alone....

No stupid wife(liability), no child.... Just me and me alone.... Life has never been better....

Advocate of....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

when i see Men that talk like you, i just laugh at una foolishness

So you think its by your might and doings you are successful, go to kirikiri prison and after yaba left you will see men far better than you in looks, IQ and physical

if you earn 500k monthly overtime you would have amasse wealth, if woman wey you wan marry bill you 200k your worth carry am ... Maybe not for wig or nonsensical things

Naa jew man dey reason my Money naa for myself alone .... only you go work But your people go follow share as you dey cash out. thats norm

Nothing rocks about Bachelor life, weytin you dey enjoy wey you think say married men no dey enjoy ... nothing like seein your wife and children reflect how responsible you are, You earn real respect in your society

Parizz:
people will talk

If they talk, it is known of my business....

Huh, honestly is not only men who fear marriage, even as a lady I have a phobia of marriage because of the thought of spending the rest of my life with a man, and then someone has to be very careful in choosing such a life partner forever is too long not to be happy.
As a lady, I advise you to take your time and find something to do so you won't have to settle for less or you won't have to settle to escape poverty.

Fab21:
Hmmm!


Your perspective

My perspective are this, women aren't important in any man's life period....

Aduke00001:
Huh, honestly is not only men who fear marriage, even as a lady I have a phobia of marriage because of the thought of spending the rest of my life with a man, and then someone has to be very careful in choosing such a life partner forever is too long not to be happy.
As a lady, I advise you to take your time and find something to do so you won't have to settle for less or you won't have to settle to escape poverty.

In other words hustle by yourself, so you won't bring a demand your father couldn't afford, on your man you call a husband...

Mcslize:
It's not wrong in the actual sense to desire a rich man. But what is wrong is, it is an outright foolishness to desire a rich man without the lady adding value to herself and name.

My point is clear; no lady can successfully tie down a rich guy or win his absolute commitment, without her being a lady of value who is also doing successfully well for herself.

Rich guys are now seeking ladies with high values. No rich guy will harbour a woman who is not of value.

If they are desiring a rich man, they should also better work hard to add values to themselves and names. That's the only way a rich man will respect and value them.

But if they think simply sitting and dreaming of a rich man is all they have to do and offer, and the rich men will just pick them and put them in their homes, that will be like looking for a needle in the wide ocean. You and I know, that will be near to impossible.

My point is still clear: Desiring a rich man won't give any lady a rich man. Except such a lady has the grace. And even if any lady manages to see a rich man without her having value to her own name, the rich guy won't treat her with respect.

That's why you hear of all sorts of maltreatments in marriages on a daily basis. Because according to many, they rather cry in Lamborghini than smile in Keke Napep.

If you sit to think about this carefully, you will discover that the numerous domestic violences going on in relationships and marriages on a daily basis are mostly ladies who married or went into such affairs because of money without her having her own money and the rich man ends up maltreating her. We hear about these things every day.

Now, the point still remains that while seeking that rich man, they should also do everything to add tangible values to themselves. If not, they will end up being elements of maltreatments to the rich men they seek.

Oga you must be living in your head, Men wey truly rich no dey carry am for head i must marry a rich woman

i have so many examples of big men i know that took there wife from nothing, establish this women big time shop loaded we broke men go just dey agrue base on poverty

Everything naa grace, there are gurlz out there with good job, fat account, eloquent and everything but naa broke ass dey chase and dupe them

There is no sure formular to anything what works for A might not work for B- Z sef. naa from school one baba olowo collect my babe that year carry camry put for her yansh ... weytin undergraduate gurl get to offer that year

wo ! naa grace nd God know as e dey share am