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Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by KobomatPhones(op): 6:26pm On Apr 10, 2025
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by AllBlack:
One of you is the driver and the other is the conductor.
The MECHANIC is there too.
CAR WASHER is in the mix too.

I hope she has shown you your position sha so you will not spend time in another person's rank. By the way, kudos to you all.
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Nobody: 6:36pm On Apr 10, 2025
Leave marriage and relationship

Find one woman to give belle that's all

Check the rate of baby mama to married woman in Nigeria
KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by KobomatPhones(op): 6:39pm On Apr 10, 2025
Firebox123:
Leave marriage and relationship

Find one woman to give belle that's all

Check the rate of baby mama to married woman in Nigeria
Which guarantee dey say the girl go keep the belle?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Ibkay32(m): 6:42pm On Apr 10, 2025
I read your post over and over again, but I can’t seem to find anything meaningful or clear to take away from it. Is there anyone here who understands what you wrote and can summarize it for those of us who don’t?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by motymop: 6:46pm On Apr 10, 2025
All I see is ex.

She call ex and another guy.

My guy, can't you see the red flag.

Her ex still have control, he is the pastor of your own relationship
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by KobomatPhones(op): 6:54pm On Apr 10, 2025
Ibkay32:
I read your post over and over again, but I can’t seem to find anything meaningful or clear to take away from it. Is there anyone here who understands what you wrote and can summarize it for those of us who don’t?
You seem to be the only one in this thread who doesn’t understand the topic, how we go do am now?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Ibkay32(m): 6:56pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
You seem to be the only one in this thread who doesn’t understand the topic, how we go do am now?
All what I can see there is EX, EX 😂
EX Boku for the matter wey dey ground 😂
Please summarize for me
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Nobody: 7:00pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
Which guarantee dey say the girl go keep the belle?
in the next few weeks

You'll make another post on nairaland that your gf is pregnant again

Who's responsible for it 😁😂
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Nobody: 7:01pm On Apr 10, 2025
Ibkay32:
All what I can see there is EX, EX 😂
EX Boku for the matter wey dey ground 😂
Please summarize for me
the guy no wise jor 😁😂
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Ibkay32(m): 7:03pm On Apr 10, 2025
Firebox123:
the guy no wise jor 😁😂
😂 😂
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by BrosG007: 7:15pm On Apr 10, 2025
Abeg, if Una don find the value of X, make una tell me, lol 😂

I don't know why women are too emotional. If your woman ex live close to her, many possibilities are possible.

My guy, no give yourself heart attack. Better think well. Na her ex con be her emotional support 😔
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 10, 2025
Maybe X factor 😁😂
BrosG007:
Abeg, if Una don find the value of X, make una tell me, lol 😂

I don't know why women are too emotional. If your woman ex live close to her, many possibilities are possible.

My guy, no give yourself heart attack. Better think well. Na her ex con be her emotional support 😔
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by November24(f): 8:12pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
Ozuor
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by gerizzim: 8:29pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
You titled your woes as issues between my gfrnd and I.
What exactly do you want us to say or do with this your complain?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Helpout12345: 9:31pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.
I will just tell you the truth. That her ex is richer than you. This is why she is pursuing the guy with a torchlight and ready to be a backup girlfriend to him

Don't take the girl serious. You are just a back up plan.
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Dexy4yah(m): 9:56pm On Apr 10, 2025
I can't date a girl that stil chat with her ex.

Nah nah....I don't do that shiiit.

She will eventually link up with her ex...and Dem go knack better knackin.

Make your mind dey am.

Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by BlackyOne: 9:58pm On Apr 10, 2025
Firebox123:
Leave marriage and relationship

Find one woman to give belle that's all

Check the rate of baby mama to married woman in Nigeria
Best advice
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by almarthins(m): 10:21pm On Apr 10, 2025
KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
I go advice if u want am. That girl no be ur girl and the girl be person wey no really know wetin she want. Hope say evening don dey near her?

She dey play here, play there. And she also be like person wey get alot of baggages, no trust any word wey woman talk. Dem dey always hide the real fact.

No let one girl trickery make u lose guard. You ow it to urzelf to stand guard. I repeat that girl, no be ur woman.
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by dabonny(m): 1:36am On Apr 11, 2025
Guy! Why Ex come full your body like this?

Omoh, you need to find Ex too ooo
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:04am On Apr 11, 2025
The guy na idiot, common leave that girl. Stupid SIMP
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by shogotermies(m): 8:34am On Apr 11, 2025
Anything relationship, make Nairaland ban am for 6months fess.

Una just dey weak person
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by tanigororo: 9:51am On Apr 11, 2025
KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?
Did I read that part where you claimed you have a girlfriend?
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by koladata(m): 9:58am On Apr 11, 2025
She's just managing you
Re: Issues Between My Girlfriend And I by Tolu2024(m): 10:44am On Apr 11, 2025
How do you guys cope with girls with so many ex’s?

Old firewood 🪵 no dey quench oh
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