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I am 40yrs old, financially stable, own my own house and of course well furnished, with RX350 2020 and I am single.

I get chased a lot by girls more than ever, Even girls in their early 20s, leading to confusion of whom to choose, and who doesn't have ulterior motives.

I am having challenges settling down, most girls I have been meeting just wanted someone to marry them not because they love me, but to satisfy their desperation.

I was molested by a lady I thought she could be the one, only for her to come to my house and loose character, this was a big turn off to me.

The one I want don't want me, the one I don't want are desperate to keep me.

Ayomide11111:
Life is easy for you bro, at 95.7% I'm happy for you. Unlike me. I wish I am financially stable before my 40s

tanigororo:
You won't understand, you won't know if it's your money they are after or they really love you. Couple with the level of desperation, just hope they don't go diabolical.

doctore212:
Well, I have two shirts and two pants with no boxers. I stay in face me I face you in Ketu

All the babes in my street no dey allow me sleep . I don't have much financially but am endowed.

I don't have much problem untill last two months when one retired olosho from Agbor came into my life.

Ever since then, have been confused and don't know what am doing.

I used my school fees to open a saloon and now she doesn't give me free kepkus. I wish was wiser then.

tanigororo:
You won't understand, you won't know if it's your money they are after or they really love you. Couple with the level of desperation, just hope they don't go diabolical.

Juliearth:
Adding to what you've penned down, love-swindling is not a factor of one's age or gender. It can come in any shape and form. The only place one cannot be love-swindled is in heaven/hell...

tanigororo:
Of course, but mostly it's easier for Men.

Juliearth:
I think there is a paradigm shift. Women are as badly hit as men. There are a lot of them here and everywhere, seeking for whom to leech on. The good thing is that the signs are always there so it's best not to overlook them.

Ayomide11111:
How do we face the depression of life and its frustrations at this our 30years+ Most especially In this country called Nigeria?

For those of us that don't have anyone to look up to
For those of us that only eat and drink and spend only from what comes out from our pockets.
For those of us that are still on the street looking for better future for ourselves.
For those of us that have no girlfriend not to talk of getting married because of our weak financial capacity
For those of us that have no friends, no companions, no neighbors, no visitors, even families.
For those of us that will look at our contact list and will never see a single body to run up to in time of help.
For those of us that if we eat; we eat. If we get hungry; we get hungry. O.Y.O
For those of us that people will be thinking that we have money because of our dressing but deep down they don't know we just don't want to look like our problems. We face a lots than they do.

At your 30+ you're facing challenges like this or more; share experience and let's encourage ourselves. This life is not easy

wumi2017:
It's not easy but I will never relent ..one day e go better 😥😥

Manculated:
Wunmi, So you sef never see one man catch

Ayomide11111:
How do we face the depression of life and its frustrations at this our 30years+ Most especially In this country called Nigeria?

For those of us that don't have anyone to look up to
For those of us that only eat and drink and spend only from what comes out from our pockets.
For those of us that are still on the street looking for better future for ourselves.
For those of us that have no girlfriend not to talk of getting married because of our weak financial capacity
For those of us that have no friends, no companions, no neighbors, no visitors, even families.
For those of us that will look at our contact list and will never see a single body to run up to in time of help.
For those of us that if we eat; we eat. If we get hungry; we get hungry. O.Y.O
For those of us that people will be thinking that we have money because of our dressing but deep down they don't know we just don't want to look like our problems. We face a lots than they do.

At your 30+ you're facing challenges like this or more; share experience and let's encourage ourselves. This life is not easy

Unfourtwonate:
I am not up to 30 but I am already experiencing all this
I can leave my phone for 10 yrs without receiving a single call
I can die of hunger without anyone noticing

VinnyBaba:
If you be 30+ Bros and you are still single and Broke, just find one lonely babe in Your area to dey Samankwe o.

Bcus Depression + Konji can kill a Bro, wallahi.

Ayomide11111:
Can you imagine brother
I thought I am the only one.
In this life that I come; I am all alone.
And I'm striving to make a good family out of myself
As I am speaking to you now I am hungry and my house rent need to be renewed this month. I dey gather the money

Unfourtwonate:
I don’t even have a home
I reside in a church stand they have even asked us to leave
Omo my life is the worst I have seen

Ayomide11111:
It's okay brother
We will not wait or relent till God 🙏 answer our prayers and crown our huzzle

Unfourtwonate:
I am not up to 30 but I am already experiencing all this
I can leave my phone for 10 yrs without receiving a single call
I can die of hunger without anyone noticing

DeeScan:
You're introverted ??

Unfourtwonate:
Kind of
I tried mingling with people but it is not always working out
Maybe because I am broke and dont fit in their league

DeeScan:
workplace..

It might not work out in the home environment..



But possibly would in a work environment..

Ayomide11111:
Life dey show everybody pepper not only wumi, even you. Everywhere no bam

Unfourtwonate:
I am not up to 30 but I am already experiencing all this
I can leave my phone for 10 yrs without receiving a single call
I can die of hunger without anyone noticing

VinnyBaba:
If you be 30+ Bros and you are still single and Broke, just find one lonely babe in Your area to dey Samankwe o.

Bcus Depression + Konji can kill a Bro, wallahi.