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1. Pace, Lead and Imply

Women love a bold man. I can’t stress that enough.
Actually… I can—and I will.

Here’s the truth:
Women don’t care if you’re right or wrong. What they care about is that you believe what you’re saying is the truth. They want to feel that you’re solid in your frame—unshakable. You’re not backing down, even if she tests you, even if things don’t go as planned. You stay grounded, take the lesson, and move forward like a man on a mission.

So when you say what I’m about to show you, know this:
Most of the time, she’ll be so turned on you’ll feel her undressing you with her eyes. Other times, she’ll challenge you. That’s not a bad thing—it’s a test. She wants to see if you’re congruent, if you truly mean what you say. And when you stay rooted in your frame, it turns her on even more.

Here’s an example of pacing her current sexual reality and subtly guiding her to what she truly wants:

You meet a girl. You’re laughing, teasing, and the chemistry is obvious.
You end up alone in a dim corner of a bar, hands intertwined, locked in eye contact.

You say:
“This feels really good—just being here with you.
I can tell you’re someone who enjoys good sex… someone who knows how to relax and let go.
But I also get the sense there’s a part of you that’s always wondered if there’s more—
Like there’s something deeper, something more freeing that you haven’t fully experienced yet.
You’re curious. You know it’s out there.
And part of you wants to completely open up… to fully surrender to that kind of experience—
To be filled up completely.

(pause)
And as a man, I feel like it’s my job to tell you…
It’s out there.
It might even be right in front of you…
If you’re lucky.”


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Let’s unpack that.
I’m not a hypnotist or certified in NLP, but I’ve studied enough to know how to make this stuff work.

What I’m doing here is called pacing—describing her current reality.
“This feels good… just being here.”
“I can tell you enjoy good sex… and letting go.”
These are cold reads, sure—but they hit home for most women. It shows her I get where she’s at emotionally and sexually.

That’s the key:
Women are drawn to men who are grounded in their masculine core and who understand their world better than they do.
By pacing her reality, I’m not telling her I get her. I’m showing her. That’s powerful.

But we don’t stop at pacing. Once you’ve done that, you can lead her.
Leadership is magnetic. Women are drawn to a man who knows where he’s going and can take her there with him.

Now that she feels seen and understood, her frame becomes soft, malleable—and she’s open to being guided.
But here’s the trick: you don’t just say, “You want to Bleep me.” That’s not seduction.

You imply it.
You speak in universal truths, vague generalities, and emotionally-charged language she can’t logically reject.

“I know there’s a part of you that’s curious…
A part that wants something more…
To be fully opened… completely filled up.”

You’re describing a feeling—painting a picture she can step into.
It becomes irresistible.

And then, you end it with a challenge—a playful jab that puts the ball in her court:
“It’s out there.
Might even be right in front of you.
If you’re lucky.”

That’s flirting.
That’s seductive.
That’s masculine energy in motion.

And honestly, if you internalize this—
You won’t need 77 lines. You’ll start coming up with your own.

That’s where the real fun begins.

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Leave paparazzi and go make money. All this stress you put up there won't be necessary. Na poor man dey do all these ones.

suckprick:
Leave paparazzi and go make money. All this stress you put up there won't be necessary. Na poor man dey do all these ones.

Na poor man dey pursue woman and will develop headaches and mental illness trying to satisfy a woman. When you are financially stable, women do the chasing and read all sorts of epistle to please you.

Helpout12345:
Na poor man dey pursue woman and will develop headaches and mental illness trying to satisfy a woman. When you are financially stable, women do the chasing and read all sorts of epistle to please you.

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A sad day it is when a young lad, copying and pasting from a book he hasn't fully read, not having better use of his time thinks anyone else is so jobless as to adapt to some rules so as to get laid. Something that hasn't even worked for him.

With time, if he matures enough, he'll probably realize that there's really no code to bedding a woman when you know that they really want to get down as much as you do so long as you make it seem to be their idea.