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Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by NaijaCover(m): 4:07am On Apr 21, 2025
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Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by yemmit90: 4:46am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
You don't get the logic behind the message this thread is trying to send across.

The writer only use the guys who regretted after spending so much as example, it is not always about the money but guilty or regrets associate with having sex with wrong people.

This strong sexual desires in humans if not tarm by being rational can make you sleep with wrong people, e.g, another person's wife/husband, Friends wives/husbands, cousins, nephews, inlaws, daughters or sons in rare cases.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Doctordan: 4:56am On Apr 21, 2025
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Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by ruffhandu: 5:08am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
You failed to understand the crux of the post.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Mirasteel: 5:27am On Apr 21, 2025
Lil Wayne's word. 😂😂😂😂
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Mansa6: 6:22am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
You kids sometimes amaze me with your level.of intellect...

Once anything is said,the answer is "money"...small thing,"money"...money,money, money..

It's only the poor minded folks that reason like this...

EVERYTHING isnt money ..and I say so because I have seen money...I have made millions of dollars in my very early 40s and even lost it .

I hope you get some money and understand..
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by SmartyPants(m): 6:46am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Foolishness is reducing the contents of the message to STDs.

Bigger foolishness is not knowing that there is a window of undetectability with many STDs.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Barcalee: 7:42am On Apr 21, 2025
That process can be annoying sometimes
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Dpsychologist(op): 8:09am On Apr 21, 2025
Amsickindahead:
He is bro
Without any evidence?
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by femi4: 8:29am On Apr 21, 2025
SugarRay001:
some of ona no go ever get sense no matter the things people talk,,,ona just dey so dense and wallowing in it grin grin grin
ki lomode e mo
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by greypencils: 8:51am On Apr 21, 2025
5-15 minutes of pleasure can mar you for life. Be wise!
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by MrJames007: 8:52am On Apr 21, 2025
"You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth"

grin
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by toffyz(m): 9:00am On Apr 21, 2025
Jman06:
You missed the point!

The point is about how intense sexual fantasies or desire (aka konji) can drive a guy into taking irrational decisions with regards to sex and then the regret that follows post-nut clarity.
Don't mind him, he thinks the rich doesn't feel regrets sometimes, they're human too, a time will come they will feel they shouldn't have done what they did. Regrets can come from Anyone either poor or rich pertaining to sexual relationship. The OP is 💯💯 right
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by kesmiraAutos: 9:58am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and ;Dother grin diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Smart guy you are carried grin
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by ItisWell22(f): 9:59am On Apr 21, 2025
DuBLINGreenb:
In 2025 people still earn 30k huh

How will such a person get married, pay medical bills, send his kids to school, buy food for himself and the kids and buy a car and a house?
How?

So who are the people those $2,000,000,000 houses and lands in Lagos, Abuja and everywhere else in Nigeria are for?

Who are the target audience of those car sales men, the designer losree estates and clothes who are they for?

Soon reality will set in when nobody even prices thise houses, lands, cars etc for 12 years straight not even on potential customer asks of price you either close shop or reduce price.

Ordinarily cost of land per plot in Nigeria should not be more than 300,000 naira to 850,000 naira depending on the location going by the salaries and incomes of the average Nigerian


This 30,000 brother should be able to save half his salary 15,000 for 20 months to afford one plot of land in a rural area of his choice so at least he can engage in small scale farming to feed himself and maybe put up one small structure for himself.

But instead we are pricing houses and lands in multi millions, billions and even trillions, I blame the land speculators and “agents” who are also poor hungry people calculating 10% of billions and trillions praying and hoping they will get that from the sale of a property or land that isn’t even worth that amount.

Meanwhile O.P come, stand here, kneel down, raise up your hands and close your eyes. Seun get me belt from my wardrobe.
❤️
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by okerekingsley90: 10:01am On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…



About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Please preach
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Morizo(m): 1:11pm On Apr 21, 2025
Dpsychologist:

Let’s talk about something every man (and even many women) can relate to—but few truly understand.

There’s a reason why, after orgasm, especially during casual or risky sex, you suddenly feel a wave of clarity, guilt, or even regret. That feeling isn't just emotional—it's biological.

What just happened?

When you're turned on, your body floods with dopamine—the same pleasure chemical you get from cocaine, gambling, or winning a jackpot. Your brain becomes singularly focused on one goal: release. Rational thinking takes a back seat. You ignore red flags. You override morals. You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth.

But as soon as you cum, your dopamine levels crash, and a hormone called prolactin spikes. Prolactin is associated with sexual satisfaction—but also kills sexual desire. Suddenly, the fog lifts. And now…

📌That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.

📌You start thinking about consequences—pregnancy, STDs, emotional attachment.

📌You begin to feel shame, disgust, regret or confusion.

You ask yourself: “What was I thinking?”

Congratulations. You’ve come to your senses. Literally.

This isn’t spiritual hype—it’s backed by neuroscience. The post-nut clarity is real. And it can be powerful.

But here’s the deeper question:

Why do we need to “nut” to see clearly? Why not pause and think before the act?

That’s where emotional intelligence, discipline, and long-term thinking come in.

Many lives, relationships, and reputations have been destroyed by a few minutes of unfiltered pleasure. People cheat, betray, and even ruin their futures over something they don’t even want once they “come.”

Next time you’re in that heat-of-the-moment tension… pause.

Ask yourself: Is it worth it?
If you’re unsure, wait. Because if you wouldn’t feel good about it after, you probably shouldn’t do it before.

As can be seen from the image. The guy was regretting after wasting his money on what he thought was worth it but as soon as he cum, he came to his senses.

Moral of the story: Don’t let your dick decide what your brain will regret.
In your analysis, you did not address the place of extreme sexual urges (konji) in a human lives and how to tackle it given the proven scientific theory that one of the causes of prostate is undue lack of frequent semen release (I believe 21x monthly was mentioned) Also for women it's is proven that lack of sexual activity aids fibrosis and increases agitated moods.
Unless you are recommending mastubation which itself has medical consequences which includes vision related issues..
Make it practical to everyday life
These postulations are not mine, Google can testify
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Dpsychologist(op): 1:50pm On Apr 21, 2025
Morizo:
In your analysis, you did not address the place of extreme sexual urges (konji) in a human lives and how to tackle it given the proven scientific theory that one of the causes of prostate is undue lack of frequent semen release (I believe 21x monthly was mentioned) Also for women it's is proven that lack of sexual activity aids fibrosis and increases agitated moods.
Unless you are recommending mastubation which itself has medical consequences which includes vision related issues..
Make it practical to everyday life
These postulations are not mine, Google can testify
Don’t you think you are going completely off topic, that was never the goal of the thread.

May be we will talk about it on another different post.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by ReacherSaidNoth: 2:06pm On Apr 21, 2025
Morizo:
In your analysis, you did not address the place of extreme sexual urges (konji) in a human lives and how to tackle it given the proven scientific theory that one of the causes of prostate is undue lack of frequent semen release (I believe 21x monthly was mentioned) Also for women it's is proven that lack of sexual activity aids fibrosis and increases agitated moods.
Unless you are recommending mastubation which itself has medical consequences which includes vision related issues..
Make it practical to everyday life
These postulations are not mine, Google can testify
Can you show us the study that showed masturbation causes vision related issues, because that makes zero sense.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by NairalandGossip: 2:28pm On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Funny
If everything you posted up there makes sense, then why do people feel guilty after masturbation?
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by abeldachung2(m): 2:51pm On Apr 21, 2025
Oloun
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Olaolar(m): 3:49pm On Apr 21, 2025
geoworldedu:
Masturbate if you will regret sex with a partner. Simple.
Hmmm! Is it good to masturbate instead of sex??
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by aswani(m): 4:47pm On Apr 21, 2025
akwesenana:
Why is everyone being banned unnecessarilyhuh?
The owner of the site implemented a new anti spam bot which is giving everybody wotowoto.

Me sef dey careful as I dey comment now.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Psoul(m): 6:00pm On Apr 21, 2025
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Dream on.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by geoworldedu: 6:19pm On Apr 21, 2025
Olaolar:
Hmmm! Is it good to masturbate instead of sex??
It's safe you can do your research.
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by Olaolar(m): 6:35pm On Apr 21, 2025
But they said masturbation is affect in the future
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by PantShifter(m): 6:56pm On Apr 21, 2025
Ringstonermasks:
Lil Wayne rap, "as soon as i cum, i come to my sentences..."

give credit to the original owner of the saying
That you heard it first from Lil Wayne does not mean he was the first person to utter the sentence
Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by PantShifter(m): 6:59pm On Apr 21, 2025
Olaolar:
Hmmm! Is it good to masturbate instead of sex??
Sex is the best grin
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