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baralatie:
and the small surplus made Micheal rich

True, but she can remind Michael that she picked him out of the gutter

Remmedy:
Best answer here ….

You might not be the first person that Zara helped
and you will definitely not be the last

You will not enter the wrath of a woman being scorned o🤷🤷

Halastershang:
True, but she can remind Michael that she picked him out of the gutter

Is that statement a lie?

…OP I know both are not Nigerian ladies
Because no Nigerian girl is doing any of the above for you ….

But personally I will go for Ama

Even if zara didn’t help you out you will still find another person who will help you .. maybe a man this time …You just need to have that passion and fire

But a good woman like Ama in this generation is scarce ….

jaxxy:
Both of them added value to me it doesn't matter the amount of the value so I will look at who has more wifey qualities and less baggage. I won't marry anyone just for making me rich or standing by me in poverty alone. I will go deeper to who they are and what they stand for as individuals... How they also fit into my future perhaps.

I can honestly choose any of them. It depends on the deeper qualities of these ladies. I don't owe any of the marriage by force.

However the one who made me wealth if she has all the right attributes stands a better chance.

Assuming both girls have sane good character and no red flags.

Let me pull ya leg
The one that stood by you was named ini edo
The one that made you rich is called dj cuppy 😏😏😏
All in their early twenties

baralatie:
Is that statement a lie?

No, but any man who has self respect and dignity wouldn't want to be with a woman who can always remind him of that fact

Go for the jugular, marry both

Halastershang:
No, but any man who has self respect and dignity wouldn't want to be with a woman who can always remind him of that fact

Any man with self respect and self worth would not stoop low to even collect money,funding from a woman to get promoted in life,abi🤷🤷

Nothing stops him from marrying both. Why the need choose since he's now wealthy?

baralatie:
Let me pull ya leg
The one that stood by you was named ini edo
The one that made you rich is called dj cuppy 😏😏😏

Simplest question. Dj cuppy any day.

who is ini edo? I don't even know her sorry. she's not my type.

baralatie:
Let me pull ya leg
The one that stood by you was named ini edo
The one that made you rich is called dj cuppy 😏😏😏

The two you mentioned are rich

I’d go for Edo because she built herself from scratch
Not cuppy who will refuse to take my family name because of her parents wealth …

jaxxy:
Simplest question. Dj cuppy any day.

who is ini edo? I don't even know her sorry. she's not my type.

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Remmedy:
The two you mentioned are rich

I’d go for Edo because she built herself from scratch
Not cuppy who will refuse to take my family name because of her parents wealth …

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Okay oooooo

gabbytabby:
Make me no see you shout when karma use you wipe floor.

Karma because I refused to go against my natural inclination?

Tell me something else, please...

To be honest.
It will never be an easy decision to make
From my experience.it is a crisis point for guys who find themselves in such a situation that it becomes a point of prayer and fasting.
Remember in the south south higher colleges.
Dude was jam packed with all kinds of single women that is no short of precious beauties.
Boys were begging him free fine babes for some us na
There was one that stood (nna babe to fine die oyinbonfresh pawpaw) but here comes the person that literally lifted him to levels he only dreamed off
Dude was having thoughts and thinking and whatever
Not funny until God intervened 👃👃

Hmmm Ama will feel so deeply hurts.. not easy at all... I will marry both..

yudee233:
Marry Zara and empower Ama

God bless you.... For remembering me this...

Angelfrost:
Makes me remember the Tyler Perry's blockbuster:

Acrimony

Without Ama, Zara would not have invested on him.
God stood by you but someone makes you rich.

Polygamy will do it. First to get tired or give me wahala with that decision, I will send away
How come we can share love of God with others, but we can't share love of man

rickleye:
Zara hands down.
See what faith without works is doing in Nigeria.
Church Sunday School 8-10am
Main service 10-12pm
Evening Service 6-8pm
Wednesday Evening 7-9pm
Saturday Cell Group Meeting
Friday Night Virgil.
Don’t get me wrong everything has its place and even your friends have their role. AMA was to keep him alive till he meet his Zara . It’s Zara turn to take him to the promise land.

Funny thing is you'd feel terrible too if you were at the receiving end...

Ah, life's choices must hurt someone... Smh

Dear Opportunist,

The way you said, “always go for a woman that brings something tangible to the table” is truly funny. On what authority do you advise people on what to always go for?

Tomorrow when the lady you tell guys to go for tells him, I picked you from the gutters and made you who you are, hope you will be their shoulders?

It isn’t the role of a woman to see your potential and open doors for you. If she does it, often times, it will come at a price— your headship as a husband.

Stop looking for already-made ladies. Have a little dignity in yourself. You advise people to throw a lady that has invested her time and resource into the relationship calling it mere motivational talk.

You need to check your integrity and loyalty.

Clearly, it is in short supply.

femi4:
Zara

Reason: She saw potential in Michael and had the keys to open doors he hadn’t even knocked on yet. With her connections and resources, his career soared. In just two years,

Always go for woman that brings something tangible to the table. She can support you when you're falling . Motivational talk isn't enough

Zara wouldn't have experience a Michael if Ama wasn't there in his dark days!

BOGOF all the way.......Buy One Get One Free.....two of them must be must be married o.....I go marry the two of them fiam like that........ 😂 😂 😂 😂


They are both sweet ladies in their own level and both had faith in me that I could be prosperous with their trust and faith at various stages of my life. The best I could do to show my appreciation and love is to marry them both and show the first one what prosperity is while showing the last babe also what dedication and trust in me has turned out to be. Will love them wella and be dedicated to the two of them.....

otherway:
I will marry the two.

If I don't marry Zara i may go back to square one and if I leave Ama, I may never see her type again.

I would consider the depth of Ama's loyalty and support during Michael's challenging times. Her unwavering faith and sacrifices might be a compelling reason to choose her. Ultimately, the decision would depend one's personal values and priorities.

People are just dumb. Money is a Spirit. The one that made U reach is not in Love with U but in Love with the Man U have become. God used Her to help You. The one that stayed by You throw thick and thin is a ride or die and if She was with You when broke She should be with U when ok plus Challenges in Life will still come and having money is never a certainty I need a ride or die in this Life. God doesn't come down to help someone, He uses people to open doors for us. So if another bigger person opens a bigger door for U that's how U will follow that one again? Zero principles in this Generation..

Toks2008:
There was a time when Michael had nothing but dreams. No money, no status but just raw ambition and a heart full of fire. In that season of his life, there was Ama.

Ama wasn’t flashy. She didn’t have wealth or powerful networks. But she had something far rarer...faith.
Faith in Michael, even when he doubted himself. She stayed through the silent nights when failure felt loudest. She lent him her last when he couldn’t pay his rent, and even more often, she lent him her strength. She was home when life felt like war.

Years passed, and things changed, not overnight, but steadily. Michael got a chance meeting with Zara.

Zara was light years ahead. A woman of influence, class, and undeniable charm. She saw potential in Michael and had the keys to open doors he hadn’t even knocked on yet. With her connections and resources, his career soared. In just two years, Michael became the man he once only dreamed of becoming.

But with success came a dilemma: he could only choose one to walk with him through the rest of his life.

Ama still loves him but no pressure, no demands. She had only ever wanted his happiness and Zara also loves him.

One woman built him slowly, brick by brick. The other elevated him swiftly, like a jet taking flight.

So the question is...If you are in Michael's situation, who will you go for? Ama who stood by you when you had nothing or Zara who made you wealthy?

Just say Acrimony 😊😁

janeedema:
Dear Opportunist,

The way you said, “always go for a woman that brings something tangible to the table” is truly funny. On what authority do you advise people on what to always go for?

Tomorrow when the lady you tell guys to go for tells him, I picked you from the gutters and made you who you are, hope you will be their shoulders?

It isn’t the role of a woman to see your potential and open doors for you. If she does it, often times, it will come at a price— your headship as a husband.

Stop looking for already-made ladies. Have a little dignity in yourself. You advise people to throw a lady that has invested her time and resource into the relationship calling it mere motivational talk.

You need to check your integrity and loyalty.

Clearly, it is in short supply.

A bitter pill is hard to swallow. Gone are those days where your gender think front n back is enough.

If you are not bringing something tangible to the table, don't come near the table.

Mutual support n growth are essential in a relationship.

Angelfrost:
Makes me remember the Tyler Perry's blockbuster:

Acrimony

this movie was a masterpiece

Oga, it's a simple matter. Just go for the two and live a balance life.

Tbh im marrying the 2 of them
But if I'm to choose I'll pick Ama

If it was the other way round ,how will Lazy Michael feel?
If you think right ,also think left .
Banza kawai

So, what stopped you from keeping the two?

And if you can't, just pick the one you love and prepare for fight or distance from the second one.

Life goes on.