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Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by shinaola21(m): 7:00pm On Apr 26, 2025
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Op as imma single man I've no advice to give

-listening to nookie by limp bizkit-

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 26, 2025
grin
shinaola21:
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Op as imma single man I've no advice to give

-listening to nookie by limp bizkit-
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Solofresh2: 7:03pm On Apr 26, 2025
Yes, it’s okay to talk to her about it but how you approach it matters a lot.

Since you admit it was your fault, it’s important to be genuine, calm, and respectful when you reach out.
Don’t pressure her to come back. Instead, you can acknowledge your mistakes, apologize sincerely, and let her know how you feel without overwhelming her.
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 26, 2025
greenbrave:
I am not looking for a validation, but experience.

You don't just let people GO like that.
post the girl picture let see who you're stalking 😂
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 26, 2025
Solofresh2:
Yes, it’s okay to talk to her about it but how you approach it matters a lot.

Since you admit it was your fault, it’s important to be genuine, calm, and respectful when you reach out.
Don’t pressure her to come back. Instead, you can acknowledge your mistakes, apologize sincerely, and let her know how you feel without overwhelming her.
the girl no even fine at all 😂
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by shinaola21(m): 7:12pm On Apr 26, 2025
Firebox123:
As men we need to be ruthless and heartless like women. Never date or help a broke girl

These stoopid girls are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is "husbank"

I've made a promise to God that I'll never date a girl that can't do 50/50 in a relationship...
I know say something dey fishy behind that your smile,you know say na copyright infringement be this bah??

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 26, 2025
shinaola21:
I know say something dey fishy behind that your smile,you know say na copyright infringement be this bah??
which copyright Infringement 😂
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by shinaola21(m): 7:17pm On Apr 26, 2025
Firebox123:
which copyright Infringement 😂
For using my word nah

The one I said "these woman are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is husbank" 😂😂
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 26, 2025
shinaola21:
For using my word nah

The one I said "these woman are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is husbank" 😂😂
you just want to troll me unnecessarily

Goodnight ❤️
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by shinaola21(m): 7:22pm On Apr 26, 2025
Firebox123:
you just want to troll me unnecessarily

Goodnight ❤️
I'm kidding by the way,hahaha

Goodnight

Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by spiSeyi: 7:25pm On Apr 26, 2025
It's normal for you to feel like this and the best you can do is to move on for now even though it's difficult bcs going back to beg her is a big blow. FYI she don see better guy with bigger gbola and mula grin.
Delete her contact to stay focused on more productive stuff meanwhile if you want to level up become a certified cyber security personnel hint me
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Chiuzk: 7:26pm On Apr 26, 2025
Follow your heart, it will guide you better in as much as you don't forget to use your head. There is nothing wrong in seeking for reconciliation first if you were wrong. Sometimes my dear, many have lost valuable relationships because of ego. Partners compliment each other's weaknesses in relationships and believe me, this is the primary thing to look out for in any relationship. My humble opinion.
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Greydebz(f): 7:32pm On Apr 26, 2025
No you are not call her, since your heart still wants her go and fight for the relationship
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Fetula4u(m): 7:34pm On Apr 26, 2025
Greydebz:
No you are not call her, since your heart still wants her go and fight for the relationship
for person way no get front teeth 😂

Tell him to send the girl picture
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 7:37pm On Apr 26, 2025
Smithwilliams826:
Since it's okay to reach out, why are you reaching out to nairaland?

You don't want to accept other pple idea or opinion, why make it public?

Gerraaout of here. undecided
It was typo bro

I was tryna say, it is okay to reach out to her
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Greydebz(f): 7:38pm On Apr 26, 2025
Fetula4u:
for person way no get front teeth 😂

Tell him to send the girl picture
wait oo who no get front teeth me or the guy 😂😂.. make I know how to reply you first 😂
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by advanceDNA:
greenbrave:
I am not looking for a validation, but experience.

You don't just let people GO like that.
Yes ..you can let pple go like that ...especially pple that clearly told you that they don't want to be with you.....let them realize they need you on their own or get fvck off

You are in the breakup phase called denial..it's a bad place to be ....u keep blaming yourself over and over thinking it's totally your fault and you can fix it.....the truth is women never thinks it's their fault...they will even say u made them spread legs for another man

Have some self esteem man..... When they serve you breakfast, give space so the person don't start feeling too important like they are the air in ur lungs .....that's how u loose leverage and relationships and they start treating you like tràsh because u want to go and beg woman for relationship..

No let me vex for you ooo ....
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Fetula4u(m): 7:40pm On Apr 26, 2025
Greydebz:
wait oo who no get front teeth me or the guy 😂😂.. make I know how to reply you first 😂
his gf
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Joshchi19(m): 7:40pm On Apr 26, 2025
Yes
Big one..
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 26, 2025
Since she left you because she doesn't like your personality then it will be a very bad idea to call her back because she will regard you as a simp.

Are you trying to force-change your personality because of her ? How long can you fake a lifestyle that is not originally yours?

This kind of act has caused many marriages to be toxic because either spouse isn't happy about his/her partner. Your girl should be happy to be with you and not seeing you as someone she's just managing
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 7:52pm On Apr 26, 2025
advanceDNA:
Yes ..you can let pple go like that ...especially pple that clearly told you that they don't want to be with you.....let them realize they need you on their own or get fvck off

You are in the breakup phase called denial..it's a bad place to be ....u keep blaming yourself over and over thinking it's totally your fault and you can fix it.....the truth is women never thinks it's their fault...they will even say u made them spread legs for another man

Have some self esteem man..... When they serve you breakfast, give space so the person don't start feeling too important like their are the air in ur lungs .....that's how u loose leverage and relationships and they start treating you like tràsh because u want to go and beg woman for relationship..

No let me vex for you ooo ....
I got the point Chief
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 8:07pm On Apr 26, 2025
AngelicBeing:
Lol 😂, at Unlove her, hehehe
Shapperly cheesy
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Johnsown1(m): 8:10pm On Apr 26, 2025
What do you do for a living, how much is in your account and how wealthy are you. How rich is your family
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Greydebz(f): 8:14pm On Apr 26, 2025
Fetula4u:
his gf
ohhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by bigcasava1(m): 8:31pm On Apr 26, 2025
greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.


I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.
I thought you are asking if you are a simp? Yes, in case you want to know.
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Dzzzz: 8:33pm On Apr 26, 2025
The matter na SIMPle thing..
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by bixton(m): 8:37pm On Apr 26, 2025
greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.


I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.
Everybody has their version of what romantic is and means......

My question to you is that....
What do you mean by you don't listen to her and how old is this relationship?
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by femi4: 8:48pm On Apr 26, 2025
greenbrave:
Hello fam.

I was dating this girl, I really love her so much. She has my quality and all.

But recently, she BROKE up with me. Due to my own fault, yes it's me. I wasn't romantic and don't listen to her.

Now, this is just 3 day back. I can't seem to. hold myself.


I just want to know if it's okay to talk to. her about it.
You are a SIMP. A girl that will want you will want you for who you are...romantic or not

Don't force a girl on yourself . Lose her n let her go!
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by austynbch(m): 9:03pm On Apr 26, 2025
Op, most of them advising u are simps o. Do what u have in mind. If u feel its ur fault bros apologize and mend ur ways. Some of dem are worst than u. Go to their homes, you'll clap for yourself
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by YemyTemmy: 9:07pm On Apr 26, 2025
[/b]children are not supposed to be in love.... Fucking simp , leave love affairs for adults [b]
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by greenbrave(op): 9:22pm On Apr 26, 2025
YemyTemmy:
[/b]children are not supposed to be in love.... Fucking simp , leave love affairs for adults [b]
Lol, I am 26.

I don't have so much date
Re: I'm I A Simp? Or by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 26, 2025
Johnsown1:
What do you do for a living, how much is in your account and how wealthy are you. How rich is your family
ask yourself the question brr ❓
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