₦airaland Forum

BeeNG3:
😂😂😂

franchasng:
I am being realistic.


Only few fortunate Nigerian guys become financially stable before they clock 35yrs. If we are to assign percentage to it, maybe 1.5% of Nigerian male population do achieve legitimate financial stability before they reach 35yrs.



As for ladies, marrying a girl below 27yrs is setting yourself up for nagging and girlie issues. It's better for a girl to finish school, secure a job or start a business or establish a trade, learn how to earn money on her own and understand that it's not easy to earn money legitimately, by the time she has experienced all these couple with one or two heartbreaks or relationship failures, she will then realize that life is not a bed of roses where she gets whatever she wishes or fantasizes about and she will start yearning for marriage to settle down. At this stage, she will start to appreciate men and any man that offer her little favor will be appreciated and not looked down upon.



If you are single, run from girls below 28yrs if you want peace of mind in marriage because they are filled with girlie fantasies and still believing that they will marry Elon Musk with Pope John Paul's faithfulness and Drake's handsomeness and Davido's vibes

papyjaypaul:
If your grandparents got married at 16, 19 and we are waiting till 30-40, it tells you something you should know about society.

pocohantas:
There is no specific age once you are old enough. No one size fits all as our lives and paths are different. I recommend when you find someone who shares same marriage and family values with you. You two must be ready to fund these values, emotionally, physically and financially.

For a set of people who tend to despise their spouses, Nigerians are so obsessed with WHEN, rather than the quality of their marriages.

Marriage is not just something you tick from your bucket list.

MrPresident1:
Man- by 20years old
Woman- younger

Probz:
Are you insane?

Probz:
And what’s that?

papyjaypaul:
The more we think we've advanced, the less we have progressed as actual human beings.

Gerrard59:
The world economy and education system no wan understand. But tomorrow, they complain of low birth rates.

Probz:
Getting married early is not a flex.

franchasng:
With the reality of life now,


Men: 33 - 40yrs

Women: 27 - 35yrs


But you must never give birth to more than 2 kids.

JustinDuke:
Why not more than 2 kids ?

franchasng:
Why should any sensible human getting married today plan to born more than 2 kids; what for?

2 kids is enough


And when a man of 37yrs marries a lady of 30 - 35yrs, it's advisable for them to give birth to just 2 kids and plan to give them quality life plus education.

JustinDuke:
Valid point.
Then again, there are men that are rich enough to give 4 kids quality education.
Will you also say that is not sensible ?
Well, unless you have other reasons why you said 2 is enough.

franchasng:
I don't support any man or woman marrying now to give birth to more than two kids irrespective of their financial status.


If you are too rich, give birth to two and adopt available kids instead of birthing more

TheWebbers:
Guess you're under 30 and unemployed

Blizzy9ja:
When you have money

post=135195150:
We.would say 28-35.
We think your early to mid 20's should really be a time of self discovery and figuring out your own path in life.
It's also a good time to go on dates and get an idea of the type of person you would want as a long term spouse.
Also a good time to try out living with a partner before committing to marriage.

Getting married around 30 allows you to enter a partnership with maturity and stability, both emotionally and financially.
At this stage, you're more likely to make thoughtful decisions about your relationship, setting a strong foundation for long-term happiness. Q

franchasng:
I don't support any man or woman marrying now to give birth to more than two kids irrespective of their financial status.

If you are too rich, give birth to two and adopt available kids instead of birthing more

pocohantas:
There is no specific age once you are old enough. No one size fits all as our lives and paths are different. I recommend when you find someone who shares same marriage and family values with you. You two must be ready to fund these values, emotionally, physically and financially.

For a set of people who tend to despise their spouses, Nigerians are so obsessed with WHEN, rather than the quality of their marriages.

Marriage is not just something you tick from your bucket list.

YoshihideSuga:
But remember you said Nigerians especially Nigerian women don't like children who aren't biologically theirs. And please what's the difference between adopting two children and having two children biologically?

Blitzking:
When u have a steady job and have a side hustle, old enough to tolerate a person's excess and ability to share your space with someone else.