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Sorry, it's NEVER too late for you dear 🤙

I sat for O.level third times at 24 yrs old.

Got a job later that year and enrolled for a part time Degree at 25.

Bought a car at 29

I got married at 32 with kids a year later.

Don't be scared your colleagues have gone far because everyone has a different lane once you're focused and believe in yourself.

So, you're not alone !!

A living dog is better than a dead lion,thank God for the breath of life. Let everything that has breath praise the lord.

I thought I was the only one that saw smoke trademarks oO,, she's a ganja farme.
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Jagermeister:
She no get job but she can smoke weed

Globad:
Rest

Rest from this indoctrination!

You guys exaggerate this salvation thing! Is it automatic that your life will be successful the moment you accept Jesus? Do you know how many people are suffering even when they believe in Jesus?

Rest!

Do you know how many people are living fulfilled lives even when they don't believe in Jesus?

Do you even know if this lady is born again? She mentioned God. That one never do una

The world has moved on from this dogma

It was almost 2,000 years after Jesus died that Africans heard about anyone like that

Rest

God bless u for this piece bro 👍

Angelfrost:
I see... So, the following don't smoke:

Elon Musk
Cubana Chief Priest
Phyno
Burna Boy
Odumodu Black
Portable
Naira Marley
Davido
Wizkid
Etc

They do but they are able to take proper care of the theirselves but she made hers glaring. judging by the lips , one might say she has a dark lips ,but her eyes tells it all.

OKOATA:
Bro rest from this talk, if you think when you die you are going to heaven. Wrong bro. Heaven is meant solely and only for angels. When you die you are reincarnated bro. Forget this talk and be serious with your life.

Give us five of your family members or great family members that had died and reincarnated to where you know now. You better stop deceiving yourself. Jesus is the only sinless one that came from heaven to earth as human being to reconcile us back to God after first man had fallen off grace and brought death upon every human race.

Jesus came to show us true God and hope of eternity after leaving this world. Jesus is the only one that died and rose again as many of old true prophets of God were sent thousands of years even before Jesus came. Everything happened that had been written concerning Jesus which further testified Jesus as being from God. If you accept Jesus Christ before you die from this world, you have hope of being raised to leaved forever with Christ in paradise and if you ignore this great salvation offer through Christ; you will still leave forever being commented in hellfire.

Heaven is real! Hell is real! Don't allow few littérature books or movies you have watched to deceive you into incarnation believe. Both Bible and Quran testified that Jesus was holy and pure, he never lied for once. So, his testimony and narrative about heaven is real. Be wise!

ExAngel007,

At 23, you have a smartphone, you have data and yet you have not figured out what to do with life?

The amazing thing about life is that your purpose is yours to dream and create.

Have you tried innovative ways to grow cucumber and some valuable weeds by the side?

There is market for those crops at any timed-space.

ExAngel007:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvtsYLCEOe0?si=H311kHu4hgCzDSZ9




https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJO-yH_t3AV/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading

The first thing She needs is clarity. On her identity, innate talent, and passion.

From there she can gain clarity on what she soule be doing and the need and demand for it.

She should register for the employment bootcamp. https://bootcamp.naomilucas.xyz/

Globad:
Rest

Rest from this indoctrination!

You guys exaggerate this salvation thing! Is it automatic that your life will be successful the moment you accept Jesus? Do you know how many people are suffering even when they believe in Jesus?

Rest!

Do you know how many people are living fulfilled lives even when they don't believe in Jesus?

Do you even know if this lady is born again? She mentioned God. That one never do una

The world has moved on from this dogma

It was almost 2,000 years after Jesus died before Africans heard about anyone like that

Rest

You write this long epistle to claim Jesus does not matter...

What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his life...

Elusive001:
She is not even bothered with the most important thing in this life, the salvation of her soul. If she us not bothered about this number 1 thing, then she is right to say that she has no purpose.

To be born again gives one the right purpose of life. It's only CHRIST JESUS can make her understand her purpose in life.

See mouth like silva

ExAngel007:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvtsYLCEOe0?si=H311kHu4hgCzDSZ9




https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJO-yH_t3AV/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading

but you are already smoking weed see ur mouth.

Atleast, no be Tinubu be your father!

MikeofKd:
When I see people say things like this I just laugh. At 23 you barely have a life , you've not even started life lol , na you go plan ur life at the end of the day nobody go do that for you.

But seriously at 23 , you should be investing in yourself , education isn't just about degrees or certifications , self investment should be priority , read good books , live healthy , invest in talents ,strive to learn in demand skills and improve your networking with others then use it as leverage to get monetary value, I know people that didn't finish secondary school and they are sitting on billions today, well nourished and fulfilled , school isn't everything your mindset is. My 2 cents.

You are actually contradicting yourself. At 23, you should not even be at the planning stage. You should have started having results to show for your teen years effort and investment. She's right to be questioning her life and choices. That's where the repair must first come from. She's identified one of her greatest assets; her mother.
She's not alone and she's got someone to at least use as a reason to fight till she wins.

Ur own better cos na zero worries

sreamsense:
Give us five of your family members or great family members that had died and reincarnated to where you know now. You better stop deceiving yourself. Jesus is the only sinless one that came from heaven to earth as human being to reconcile us back to God after first man had fallen off grace and brought death upon every human race.

Jesus came to show us true God and hope of eternity after leaving this world. Jesus is the only one that died and rose again as many of old true prophets of God were sent thousands of years even before Jesus came. Everything happened that had been written concerning Jesus which further testified Jesus as being from God. If you accept Jesus Christ before you die from this world, you have hope of being raised to leaved forever with Christ in paradise and if you ignore this great salvation offer through Christ; you will still leave forever being commented in hellfire.

Heaven is real! Hell is real! Don't allow few littérature books or movies you have watched to deceive you into incarnation believe. Both Bible and Quran testified that Jesus was holy and pure, he never lied for once. So, his testimony and narrative about heaven is real. Be wise!

Give me Five of your family members that died and went to Hell or Heaven. For the fact that you don't know means you can never know what happens after death. Heaven, Hell bla bla bla. Do you dream and not forget about it instantly? Do people not go into coma and not forget about their lives. What makes you think when you are reincarnated you can remember anything when even in this world we have so many mysteries. Oga when you die you will be reincarnated nothing more. There's even a thread here about it. You don't know .0001 percent of your modern world and you know in spirituality that hell truly exist for humans. A loving God isn't a crazy and demon God that will throw you in hell for a few years you used on earth. God is love and not evil and since you serve an evil God hold him dearly while I hold my loving and compassionate God.

MikeofKd:
When I see people say things like this I just laugh. At 23 you barely have a life , you've not even started life lol , na you go plan ur life at the end of the day nobody go do that for you.

But seriously at 23 , you should be investing in yourself , education isn't just about degrees or certifications , self investment should be priority , read good books , live healthy , invest in talents ,strive to learn in demand skills and improve your networking with others then use it as leverage to get monetary value, I know people that didn't finish secondary school and they are sitting on billions today, well nourished and fulfilled , school isn't everything your mindset is. My 2 cents.

Bro, I'm really surprised at the way these Gen Zs view life. A lot of them believe you must achieve everything in your 20s and if you don't, it means you've failed... but I don't blame them, it's
the influence of social media and the fact that
they didn't face the challenges faced by the previous generation.

I hope most of them don't fall into depression and commit suicide in their 30s & 40s cos they've not even started life.

Kobojunkie:
She tell you say na late start be her problem? Her mother came to pray instead of waking her up to ask her what she intends to do, implying the parents are unable to afford much. Yet, you think a late start is the issue?

I read again and i see no mention of her parents situation.How did you come about this notion the parents are struggling?

You're still young ...
Just Focus on what you have it would expand

She should first stop smoking 🚬

Elusive001:
She is not even bothered with the most important thing in this life, the salvation of her soul. If she us not bothered about this number 1 thing, then she is right to say that she has no purpose.

To be born again gives one the right purpose of life. It's only CHRIST JESUS can make her understand her purpose in life.

Emacipate your self from mental slavery and free your mind from the religion of the colonisers.

MikeofKd:
When I see people say things like this I just laugh. At 23 you barely have a life , you've not even started life lol , na you go plan ur life at the end of the day nobody go do that for you.

But seriously at 23 , you should be investing in yourself , education isn't just about degrees or certifications , self investment should be priority , read good books , live healthy , invest in talents ,strive to learn in demand skills and improve your networking with others then use it as leverage to get monetary value, I know people that didn't finish secondary school and they are sitting on billions today, well nourished and fulfilled , school isn't everything your mindset is. My 2 cents.

Can you please throw more light on this? Kindly name one of such examples?

tommy589:
Some are late starters in life, it is not too late to give your life a new direction

check her well, she dey smoke Igbo, she dey take drugs

tommy589:
Some are late starters in life, it is not too late to give your life a new direction

Don't mind her. She should go and ask American billionaires who have set unimaginable records for life, both male and female. Oprah's story is so touching, Ford's too. I married my wife a virgin at 28, whiie I was 29. At that age, this one crying would have stopped giving birth, if all her desires were met. She won't mind jumping at anyone saying they'd like to marry her , the way she is.

Girls of nowadays are so funny. Nobody will build your life for you but yourself. Know God and believe. Don't give up.

I read a lady's story here yesterday or so. I didn't even know it was someone i knew, until I took a clearer look at her picture. She played lottery and moved all her family members to America. Then she used to parade distinct cafe at abule egba to browse. People only heard her lottery story part. She was always browsing foreign schools too. I saw her on one occasion when I went to same cafe to send an e-fax to US. My office used to be somewhere around. I guessed she saw the DV lottery advert at the cafe and took advantage and won.

There are so much she could do. I remember a girl in Ibadan who saw a university scholarship link and shared with her friends. They all made it to America to study nursing. This was around 2003. Leave her and let her keep crying she's not ready yet. I don't want to share my story cos we're not same gender. She'll stop crying for life and embrace courage if she reads it. Life is for the tough,brave and courageous

FreeStuffsNG:
You are actually contradicting yourself. At 23, you should not even be at the planning stage. You should have started having results to show for your teen years effort and investment. She's right to be questioning her life and choices. That's where the repair must first come from. She's identified one of her greatest assets; her mother.
She's not alone and she's got someone to at least use as a reason to fight till she wins.

Lol like I said at 23 you barely have a life.
All these achievements this achievements that ,it just fills you up with emptiness at the end of the day.

iswallker:
You write this long epistle to claim Jesus does not matter...

What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his life...

Here comes another one

Continue to roll in your indoctrination

Better go and work.

By the way, Jesus simply told people to keep the commandments in order to enter the kingdom of God. Not so?

tommy589:
➜I read again and i see no mention of her parents situation.How did you come about this notion the parents are struggling?

At 23, with no school, means she was not given it by her parents before she turned 23. Yes, parents are responsible for giving schooling to their wards before they become adults. That is a given!

Elusive001:
She is not even bothered with the most important thing in this life, the salvation of her soul. If she us not bothered about this number 1 thing, then she is right to say that she has no purpose.

To be born again gives one the right purpose of life. It's only CHRIST JESUS can make her understand her purpose in life.

Use salvation chop kpormor

Jagermeister:
She no get job but she can smoke weed

How do you know she smokes weed.

Osanoghodua1:
She needs a Councilor and a mentor. I understand her, but it's not enough to be sorry for herself, she can learn a skill and be prayerful about her life too. By the grace of God and with his mercies with all the many internal battles I faced while growing up, I graduated at 24. God is my helper

She has a very bright future but she's allowing the devil to minister to her, let her learn coding or how to fix computer and phones this thought of emptiness will be gone.

Many of you Nigerians can be so unrealistic though.

ExAngel007:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvtsYLCEOe0?si=H311kHu4hgCzDSZ9




https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJO-yH_t3AV/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading

If you check am well, na man e dey follow up and down after WAEC hoping to tie one down. You go get sense by force no worries.