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Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by ammamat(f): 1:03pm On Oct 02, 2008
Ever wonder why men can act so “hot and cold” and lose interest so quickly?
You meet a great guy and share an amazing “connection”… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

Why is this so common?
Even with guys who seem great at first?
The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start “feeling it” for you again- when you know what to do.
So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.
If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.
In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.
Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not
Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be “needy” for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your “friends” closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and “smothered” by you. “Why didn’t you call yesterday?” can be the very definition of “needy” to a man.

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women
Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life, and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.


Tip #3: Creating A Level Of “Unpredictability” With Him Never Fails
If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re “just a fling” to him, or his “true love.”
Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:
• How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)
• The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been “serious” for a while
• How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you , keep it up and he'll love you forever )
• The differences in how men think about dating, and why your man won’t think or talk “commitment” unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him
• How to "cheat-proof" your relationship, and why he might be tempted
• The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available", how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one
• And lots more,
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by ThoniaSlim(f): 1:05pm On Oct 02, 2008
nice tips you got there, but note this isn't generally applicable to ALL MEN. I believe, different strokes for different folks.
My own solution is too study your guy, know what are his likes and dislikes.

Do what he likes and avoid what he dislikes and you'll keep him attracted.




Note: This doesn't necessarily mean you should compromise your own personal values or beliefs, It's all about the compromise.
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by ammamat(f): 1:28pm On Oct 02, 2008
Do what he likes and avoid what he dislikes and you'll keep him attracted[
Yeah i agree, but there are guys that dose not even know thier likes and dislikes, So sometimes is very difficult seeing urself there.
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by ThoniaSlim(f): 1:33pm On Oct 02, 2008
first of all, why would i wanna be stuck with a zombie? undecided


cus a guy who can't differentiate his left from his right is = a loser.
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 03, 2008
Talk about being desperate lipsrsealed
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by Nobody: 11:06am On Oct 03, 2008
Ladies will not seize to suprise me
You still came up with this thread
When did ladies start making men attracted
or is it that the old prophesy is coming to pass.
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by untainted: 11:35am On Oct 03, 2008
ammamat:

Ever wonder why men can act so “hot and cold” and lose interest so quickly?
You meet a great guy and share an amazing “connection”… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

Why is this so common?
Even with guys who seem great at first?
The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start “feeling it” for you again- when you know what to do.
So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.
If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.
In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.
Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not
Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be “needy” for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your “friends” closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and “smothered” by you. “Why didn’t you call yesterday?” can be the very definition of “needy” to a man.

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women
Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life, and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.


Tip #3: Creating A Level Of “Unpredictability” With Him Never Fails
If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re “just a fling” to him, or his “true love.”
Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:
• How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)
• The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been “serious” for a while
• How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you , keep it up and he'll love you forever )
• The differences in how men think about dating, and why your man won’t think or talk “commitment” unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him
• How to "cheat-proof" your relationship, and why he might be tempted
• The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available", how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one
• And lots more,

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Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by sesman(m): 11:39am On Oct 03, 2008
ammamat:

 

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women
Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life, and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.


Talking about "everyday" stuff, is not a bad thing, at least it shows you are normal, and real, if a woman ask me about my job,it shows she has an interest in what i do and her telling me about what she does means she wants me to get to know her, there is nothing boring about that, communicating love and enjoyment is all well and good, but its not the only thing that keeps a man attracted or interested, "everyday stuff is good too, it shows you are connected to reality, there is no point of being something you are not,
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by Abygul(f): 10:42am On Apr 08, 2010
nice 1 but i really dnt understand some of ur writings .kep it up doe
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by johnterry4: 12:53pm On Apr 08, 2010
Abygul:

nice 1 but i really dnt understand some of your writings .kep it up doe

see arse.
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by Abygul(f): 1:01pm On Apr 08, 2010
am sure u dnt av a prob wit dat cool
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by johnterry4: 1:15pm On Apr 08, 2010
Abygul:

am sure u dnt av a prob wit dat cool

[size=16pt]u actually got my rod up.that ur arse looks amazing[/size]
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by johnterry4: 2:50pm On Apr 08, 2010
Abygul:

keep watchin till u come ok but pls dnt spill it on d table .am sure u can find your way to d toilet wen u are done cool

OHH.THATS U AND I.ME THRASHING UR PUNANIE.DID U CUM TOO?
Re: Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted” by chinedumo(m): 10:44am On Jun 14, 2010
knowledge is power. i hope this information from the poster works for her cos i will love to hear her success stories cos what u know about relationship and in relationship gives u power in that realationship.

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