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There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

Stop doing detective in ur own home... Call her to order .... Women are like that once a while they get carried away, they are like babies.. u keep keeping them on track...

You cant trust your wife

I personally don’t subscribe to the idea of married men or women maintaining casual or unnecessary communication with the opposite sex, especially through frequent chats or calls. Marriage, to me, is a sacred bond that demands emotional discipline and clear boundaries. So, when a married woman regularly chats or calls another man with whom she has no essential or professional dealings, it raises serious concerns.

Such behavior, in my view, reflects a lack of respect for the marital covenant. It often hints at emotional unfaithfulness and can be a doorway to deeper issues. I see it as a red flag, sign of a woman who may be relapsing into habits or tendencies she once had before the marriage, ones she might have concealed or downplayed. It’s not just about the act itself but what it says about loyalty, transparency, and the kind of values one brings into a relationship.

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

cheat on your wife back that's the solution

Firebox123:
cheat on your wife back that's the solution

Does that mean she has cheated?

Firebox123:
cheat on your wife back that's the solution

Is there a sign that she can cheat

bigpicture001:
Stop doing detective in ur own home... Call her to order .... Women are like that once a while they get carried away, they are like babies.. u keep keeping them on track...

if the so called man infect hiv to his wife

Nigerian no dey ever think

Will he be safe

NEWBIN:
Does that mean she has cheated?

she's cheating on you

She might be sending her nudes pic and video to him

Women can't be trusted

NEWBIN:
Is there a sign that she can cheat

why does you get married in the first place sef

Person way you suppose use do baby mama

Firebox123:
if the so called man infect hiv to his wife

Nigerian no dey ever think

Will he be safe

I dnt get the direction of ur comment..?

NEWBIN:
Is there a sign that she can cheat

A woman’s heart is fragile, sensitive and easily swayed, especially when not properly guarded. Even if she hasn’t cheated before, constant chatting and calls with another man can gradually open the door to emotional attachment and, eventually, infidelity.

Firebox123:
she's cheating on you

She might be sending her nudes pic and video to him

Women can't be trusted

Why then did she rebuke the man when he sent her the heart emoji

NEWBIN:
There is a man my wife has been talking to
The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice

The way most men take certain things likely in marriages today is scary....

bigpicture001:
Stop doing detective in ur own home... Call her to order .... Women are like that once a while they get carried away, they are like babies.. u keep keeping them on track...

Justifying infidelity/indiscipline with irrational excuses .......... I don't know where y'all get these nonsénse from.....

Being faithful to your partner is not a gift or talent

It requires personal discipline.....u want to talk discipline into an adult that wants to fvck and enjoy herself.... Good luck with that....

Mr keep them on track

NEWBIN:
Why then did she rebuke the man when he sent her the heart emoji

She's just playing hard to get cos she's enjoying the chase.....


You are in denial.... Give it time... Ur eyes go soon clear...

advanceDNA:
Justifying infidelity/indiscipline with irrational excuses .......... I don't know where y'all get these nonsénse from.....

Being faithful to your partner is not a gift or talent

It requires personal discipline.....u want to talk discipline into an adult that wants to fvck and enjoy herself.... Good luck with that....

Mr keep them on track

U will learn the hard way.. the wife is not u, ND have her own life... U guyz need to blend.. there will b ups and downs

advanceDNA:
She's just playing hard to get cos she's enjoying the chase.....


You are in denial.... Give it time... Ur eyes go soon clear...

Enjoying the chase? Really

Tit4Tat1:
The way most men take certain things likely in marriages today is scary....

from 18yrs old boy

NEWBIN:
Enjoying the chase? Really

once you found out

Let us know please 🙏

NEWBIN:
Why then did she rebuke the man when he sent her the heart emoji

She's playing with your head mr man
You better wake up and don't be a vegetable

bigpicture001:
U will learn the hard way.. the wife is not u, ND have her own life... U guyz need to blend.. there will b ups and downs

This is funny......u are just contradicting yourself...

So u know she has her own life and therefore needs to take personal responsibility to be disciplined/faith in marriage .......So why do u think it's the man's responsibility to make another adult sexually disciplined/faithful??

....Mr keep them on track.....U are the one that will learn the hard way....

NEWBIN:
Does that mean she has cheated?

Yes..Cheating doesn’t necessarily mean sex but having conversations with another person while in a relationship is cheating..

Firebox123:
from 18yrs old boy

grandpa

advanceDNA:
This is funny......u are just contradicting yourself...

So u know she has her own life and therefore needs to take personal responsibility to be disciplined/faith in marriage .......So why do u think it's the man's responsibility to make another adult sexually disciplined/faithful??

....Mr keep them on track.....U are the one that will learn the hard way....

marriage is a process... like me, no grew up where we easily swear to prove a point that we are not lying... When I met my girl, sh finds dat absurd... I told her it's mere words, but sh wouldn't understand and is always scared these swears will come to hurt us a s family...

I have to start to adjust my lifestyle to b able to wean me off the swearing stuffs...

Sometimes, we need the other patner to nudge us into reality, we are not always on track... No one is always right

bigpicture001:
marriage is a process... like me, no grew up where we easily swear to prove a point that we are not lying... When I met my girl, sh finds dat absurd... I told her it's mere words, but sh wouldn't understand and is always scared these swears will come to hurt us a s family...

I have to start to adjust my lifestyle to b able to wean me off the swearing stuffs...

Sometimes, we need the other patner to nudge us into reality, we are not always on track... No one is always right

Seems you never understand life
Sorry to ask, how old are you?

Ibkay32:
Seems you never understand life
Sorry to ask, how old are you?

ignore that moniker

According to you she had been chatting with him" which means it is cordial and consistence. Bro, I won't tell u what to do o.

bigpicture001:
marriage is a process... like me, no grew up where we easily swear to prove a point that we are not lying... When I met my girl, sh finds dat absurd... I told her it's mere words, but sh wouldn't understand and is always scared these swears will come to hurt us a s family...

I have to start to adjust my lifestyle to b able to wean me off the swearing stuffs...

Sometimes, we need the other patner to nudge us into reality, we are not always on track... No one is always right

Lol ...u are are comparing swearing and being unfaithful to your partner?? Niggá...u funny...

Infidelity isn't something someone nudges you you away from.....because sexual pleasure is an innate desire...infidelity is something u have to consciously build discipline and firmly maintain boundaries to stay away from it...

...... If you don't ....there's no amount of nudging that will prevent you from cheating

Two people must suffer in this life

Feminists and Simps

advanceDNA:
Lol ...u are are comparing swearing and being unfaithful to your partner?? Niggá...u funny...

Infidelity isn't something someone nudges you you away from.....because sexual pleasure is an innate desire...infidelity is something u have to consciously build discipline and firmly maintain boundaries to stay away from it...

...... If you don't ....there's no amount of nudging that will prevent you from cheating

Dat lady is gas not cheated yet... Sh is being worked on by a man... Dt is why I told oo, to stop the Mickey mouse game ND confront your wife...

Sh is. Not ur gf, tell her straight what's up ND how it will end for the two of u.. sh will quickly realize ND fall in line....

See, I have seen very very well behaved men who fall for ladies that are very charming ND good .. it will take the intervention of his wife to bring him back to his senses......

In marriage even one help the other, both work on the marriage not one person... I know what u wanted was a Nigerian way action..

Conclude in her

Beat her shege

Send her packing

Drag the children

Bar her from ever seeing the children... Etc

Omoh, life no b like that..