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[quote author=Kobojunkie post=135301474]Not to be insensitive, but why is the father of the child not involved in the raising of his child? Is he a deadbeat dad? Or you never thought to file a case in the courts to mandate

We are coparenting very well. He's 100% involved.

Floramie:
We are coparenting very well. He's 100% involved.

Phew! That is good to hear!😉

Kobojunkie:
. Did anyone force you into dating a single mother or something? What sort of inane questions are these?🙄🙄🙄

You are responsible for your choice of who you date. If you choose to date a single mother, then it is on you that you made that decision for yourself, not the other way around. So, grow up and start making more mature decisions for your life so you don't have to ask these ridiculous questions of anyone. 🙄🙄🙄

Single mom.. 😮 I sight you

Exceed15:
And do u know what is going on in those marriages

Is there any marriage that is perfect?

lanre80:
➜Single mom.. 😮 I sight you

You must be terribly blind! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
You must be terrible blind! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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If you are single mum on the island pls dm me

TechBaron:
I recently had an episode with one.

Single mum of one. Her marriage lasted less than 6 months and the ex husband blocked her everywhere and has even abandoned their 5 year old kid.

She tried enticing me with gifts and some dramaric nollywood style of love.. But deep inside, I knew there was something wrong with the lady, I sha wanted to see what made baba to run within a span of 6 months, and even abandoned his kid

Everything was going well, till she started showing me her true character.

Omoh. I need not go into details...

See ehn.. Run from anything single mother. Even the one that you made, just run.

I repeat, RUN..

Me I sha dey here to observe😂

Mistersolar:
hate ke..calm down naaa

you no go understand until you dare one wey useless

Rexnegro:
Since I was born, this is the first double standard that favours menn....

ask that one if the single dad expects the woman he's dating to take care of his bills

Jman06:
If you prefer a single mother, double mother or whatever, go ahead and have such. But don't try to blackmail those of us who are averse to single mothers into accepting such baggages just because you wanna be seen as WOKE,

you dey mind these ones

Originalsly:
It is never a good thing to paint with a broad brush. No doubt ... it takes extra to date a single mother because you're dealing with a package ...mother and child for sure ...and maybe the child father. There are single mothers out there who are better in character and would make better wives than a whole lot of single women out there. If interested ....I believe the first step a guy should take is to find out the circumstances that lead to her being a single mother.... was she raped? ... in a relationship and the guy got her pregnant and vanished? ... then if alive...are they in communication?..is he in his child's life? etc. If one dives into a relationship without doing a background check then it is most likely he will get burn. Is it then fair to say one should stay clear of single moms because they are nad news? The same happens when one dives into relationships with childless women ... I guess that's when loser guys be shouting stay clear of women.

nai go make you go date one