₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
The man is no longer a provider in the marriage, but a mooch, and rightly, the dynamics in the marriage should change too.

That is the setback that is the traditional marriage system. The man is promised submission by the system if and only if he retains his role as provider in the marriage. The moment he ceases to be a provider, the woman is no longer under any obligations to submit to him. The best the man can and should do then is renegotiate the marriage agreement he had with his wife, choosing an ultimate contract that best suits his situation.

2. Are men not human beings?

3. That arrangement may have worked for your forefathers, but you shouldn't go around pretending it should work for everyone in this day and age. Let individuals decide what to do in their own marriage, abeg!

Just imagine! @ the bolded

Sounding intelligent, she continues to mislead.

CrownedPhoenix:
➜Just imagine! @ the bolded Sounding intelligent, she continues to mislead.

Your ignorance is what misleads you.

Kobojunkie:
1. That is actually not true. Go to other homes right there in Nigeria where the womenfolk have never been brainwashed into believing themselves inferior to any of the men around them including those older than then and you will find women talking back to their elder brothers, husbands, fathers, older men, bosses, etc. This idea you express regarding women is not of the whole, but of the select part you have chosen to expose yourself to. Reality does not work that way, so stop making these stewpid generalizations about an entire gender.

Even if you are stuck in a wheelchair and unable to move outside of your room, at least watch movies to see that these delusions you hold in your brain are not universal in any way or form for the entire gender or race of women.

2. Every woman has the right to talk back or down to whomever she wants to talk back to or down to. Doing so is not a crime or criminal offense, never has been, and never will be. If you don't know this at this point in your human development, I suggest you begin the process of curbing this inane ignorance at this point. It is 2025 already!

So then don't complain when men disrespect and talk down on women as well...since u think its right... see u mentioning " movies" ...u women get easily influenced negatively...reason tge devil easily used Eve

cr7lomo:
➜So then don't complain when men disrespect and talk down on women as well...since u think its right...
➜ see u mentioning " movies" ...u women get easily influenced negatively
➜ ...reason tge devil easily used Eve

Moments ago, you claimed women could not talk back because in your mind they were inferior to their bosses, elder brothers, etc., implying that those could talk down to and disrespect women without consequence. However, now that you realize that women always had the authority to equally talk down and disrespect males of all ages and statures, suddenly you are on about right and wrong? Are you OK in the head? What has that to do with anything?

2. Whether women choose to be influenced negatively or not, it's their prerogative...their freedom... so what's it to you?

3. See this clown bringing up mentions of a devil after realizing his stewpidity! Even those who sold you those silly brain-dead tales of an Eve that was used by a devil never met or mattered to either. 🙄🙄🙄🙄