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If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

They are both sincerely believed to be correct….

Most women naturally want men who would fuifill all their financial and materialistic fantasies without question. Even the ones in serious relationships want to keep friends who would take them out and spend heavily on them and their friends.

I remember one girl I was chatting with back then who told me she had a fiance. Yet she was telling me to take her on a boat cruise. A 10 seater boat (yacht) in Lagos for both of us to rent and cruise around is about 200k per hour. I told her to tell her fiance to take her on the cruise. Next thing was her telling me that I look like someone who would be stingy.

That's just how most women behave. Once you deny their request they'll try to emotionally blackmail you by paying the stingy card against you. Some guys do fall for it though but not me.

Societal issues

True

Senseless topic.

None of the above.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

You go gray hair walahi

Irony of life.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

No wonder your life is like this

What's the meaning of walahi?

Tradepunter2:
You go gray hair walahi

Is even better i will just add like 4 of your type enjoying my life give you plenty children then find my way in case your trouble is getting out of hands

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

please stay single, it will do you a whole lot of good.

Some men are becoming women, while women becoming men. That is, women are becoming more reserved than men these days, women no longer talk but act (as in the numerous cases of women, planning against their men with patience, until they leave the shores of Africa) while men are the new talkatives ! I sincerely wonder why most men these days are always "women this! Women that!" Comparison everywhere!!

We (men) despise women cum feminists, because of how they (feminists) constantly compare/equate both genders. But these days online, I wonder what most men argue about, if not same thing; COMPARISON!!!

A real man would not even ask.the best thing to do is walk away.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Them no dey tell person

Man is entitled to many women anyone that gives you are submission then stay with her

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

This girl and oloshoism, you no dey tire? SMH.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Hehehe. Hoocup dey this one eye nor be small!

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Enjoy it while it lasts, when you approach mid 30s and your financial source seek younger ladies your eyes will clear.

Our money

Women get called stingy too, mostly by other women. You hear things like buy new wigs, spend this money, don’t be stingy.

Regardless of your gender don’t let anybody pressure you into spending money on things you deem unnecessary.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

do you know how stupid you sound?

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Hmmmmmm😜

whyteteeth:
Senseless topic.

Over-senseless dey worry am. If these topics are from the heydays of Nairaland, then this forum was never serious to begin with.

robosky02:
What your take

As a man,if you have not been called Stingy or unromantic by women;then you are been used.Take these words as compliments and know you are on the right track.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Your types have been deceiving girls since 1900

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

I’m in the hope that you are not married 😇🧐.

Is this the best you could come up with ??

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

you can as well pay his groom price,pay rent for the house,provide him with medical coverage, buy his clothes,feed him, drive him around for shopping, and let him stay at home as a full time house husband,to be cooking at home and take care of the kids


Life no hard

It's interesting how society labels the same behavior differently based on gender. When a woman is careful with money, she dey responsible. But when a man does the same, na aka gum .

Abeg financial discipline is not gendered, it's a wisdom something. Men should be allowed to manage their money prudently without being shamed, just as women are. In this economy, we should applaud smart financial habits, not criticize them based on outdated expectations.

Abeg make we dey normalize responsibility over performance, and judge actions by principle, not by gender.