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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by AMI3(m): 4:01pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Who is the husband

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 4:02pm On May 14, 2025

Things like what?

Penguin2:
Your mentality….Omo!

And how do you hope to fund the things your man is not giving you?

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 4:04pm On May 14, 2025

Who died and made me obligated to you if you're not obligated to me?

Respect is earned.

DMerciful:
How will I have a woman that does not respect me? I'm not obligated to spend money on you unless I have married you but you're obligated to be faithful even at courtship because thats the process to marriage

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 4:05pm On May 14, 2025

What's wrong with it?

DaddyGoo:
Your mindset as displayed in the comment I responded to

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 4:07pm On May 14, 2025

The man I got married to... grin

AMI3:
Who is the husband

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by AfDapone: 4:13pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

miketayo:
@miketayo Enjoy it while it lasts, when you approach mid 30s and your financial source seek younger ladies your eyes will clear.

You are an oralist. You can see the future very well.

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by DMerciful(m): 4:19pm On May 14, 2025

Thats why I said you'll have to go to your father's house grin

, nor be fight

Samantha125:
Who died and made me obligated to you if you're not obligated to me?

Respect is earned.

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 4:23pm On May 14, 2025

Don't worry, I'll buy my own house and go to it... grin

DMerciful:
Thats why I said you'll have to go to your father's house , nor be fight

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by NYABINGHIofWuTa: 4:26pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Reminds me of one great DMX's jam, "Do You". Track is dope, and it relatable cool

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by iykololo(m): 4:31pm On May 14, 2025

robosky02:
What your take

One of the few discriminatory female privileges that exist

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by richmond500: 4:33pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

In as much as people will attack you.
I strongly believe you are right, I think both the man and woman should pay the bills

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by LIKER18: 4:34pm On May 14, 2025

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by LIKER17: 4:35pm On May 14, 2025

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by DMerciful(m): 4:44pm On May 14, 2025

You can see that you're just not ready. You have money to buy a house but insists you'll look outside if i don't give you money?

Samantha125:
Don't worry, I'll buy my own house and go to it...

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by bentenny(m): 4:48pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

If you can do all these to him,why not quit the relationship or marriage and hook up with your generous provider!

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 5:01pm On May 14, 2025

He'd have done it to me first by deciding that he was no longer going to financially support me.

bentenny:
If you can do all these to him,why not quit the relationship or marriage and hook up with your generous provider!

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by femi4: 5:03pm On May 14, 2025

robosky02:
What your take

b is wrong

When you refused to be a SIMP ...they labelled you 'stingy'

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 5:06pm On May 14, 2025

Why worry about my finances when I wouldn't be worrying about yours? grin

How I get the money to buy a house wouldn't be any of your business.

DMerciful:
You can see that you're just not ready. You have money to buy a house but insists you'll look outside if i don't give you money?

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by DMerciful(m): 5:09pm On May 14, 2025

Next, you'll tell me you're pregnant and I'm the father then after 10yrs, i find out its another man's child that gave you money for sex 10yrs before, because you want to pepper me undecided

Samantha125:
Why worry about my finances when I wouldn't be worrying about yours?

How I get the money to buy a house wouldn't be any of your business.

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Nobody: 5:10pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

So U can be this mean cheesy

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by robosky02(op): 5:10pm On May 14, 2025

Chief2410:
As a man,if you have not been called Stingy or unromantic by women;then you are been used.Take these words as compliments and know you are on the right track.

If you. Decide to be generous

They Wii. Still call you sIMp

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Bimpe29(m): 5:11pm On May 14, 2025

There's no how a man will be careful with his money without spending it on his wife. So, the wife's carefulness is correct 💯

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by AMI3(m): 5:11pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
The man I got married to...

Then is decision should always be respectfed.
That means he has every right to ask u whatever question he feels like asking and ur responsibility as a good wife to respond accordingly

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Zackattack: 5:13pm On May 14, 2025*

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

But she’s right.
Some men are just too stupid to be hung up on someone who wants freedom.
Any man who cannot sense a chantage is a fool and deserves these type of girls.
Very foolish men falling for blackmailing cards.
If I decide to be stingy with my money, you can go on a boat cruise if you want. I will even do the rinse and repeat for you.

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Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 5:26pm On May 14, 2025

A husband is supposed to be the provider, immediately you fail to meet up to your responsibilities as a husband, don't expect me to do the same as a wife, especially of you're doing it on purpose.

Already I'd have respected your decision to be financially responsible, and I'd expect you to do the same with mine... Respect is earned.

AMI3:
Then is decision should always be respectfed.
That means he has every right to ask u whatever question he feels like asking and ur responsibility as a good wife to respond accordingly

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 5:27pm On May 14, 2025

I'm just being reasonable... grin

dkidd:
So U can be this mean

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Bahamas95(m): 5:36pm On May 14, 2025

As a man if you've never been called a stingy man by Nigerian girls at some point just know you're a simp/maga.

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 14, 2025

Samantha125:
I'm just being reasonable...

No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Samantha125(f): 5:40pm On May 14, 2025

Well, he'd have started it... grin

dkidd:
No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Mariangeles(f): 5:41pm On May 14, 2025

dkidd:
No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

Samantha don shake all of una body today. cheesy

Re: Which One Is Correct And Which Is Wrong by Nobody: 5:44pm On May 14, 2025

Mariangeles:
Samantha don shake all of una body today.

Shake fire... Nothing dey surprise men again. We hope for the best and expect the worst. How U been though

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