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Samantha125:
Well, he'd have started it...

Even so U should be the more reasonable one if he's not as two hot heads can't navigate properly. One has to be able to control things and not go tit for tat. I know Ur just saying all that for cruise. You're not that kind of person... I can feel it 😀

dkidd:
Shake fire...
Nothing dey surprise men again. We hope for the best and expect the worst.

How U been though

Iffa hear.

I've been great, thanks.
How your side?

Some topics and issues for deliberation is just meant to create an argument or back and forth cycle. Na comment readers go enjoy pass

Samantha125:
Why should I stay single?

you don't think like a lady who's going to be committed to a man in a relationship. My innocent advice is for you to stay single and be happy in your singlehood

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Women generally hate accountability, and you re no different.

If he stops being in charge as the head of the house, then things will go out of hand.

I can't be looking unkept while I'm supposed to be having a well established husband to look after me... But if he can't do it for whatever reason, that's fine, it's his money and his choice, I obviously have no say in it... But I'll also make my own choice that's suitable for me.

dkidd:
Even so U should be the more reasonable one if he's not as two hot heads can't navigate properly. One has to be able to control things and not go tit for tat. I know Ur just saying all that for cruise. You're not that kind of person... I can feel it 😀

What accountability are you talking about?

almarthins:
Women generally hate accountability, and you re no different.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

What actually do you want?

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

All you mentioned is possible if we had being sharing everything equally.50/50
Marriage expenses 50/50
Accommodation 50/50
Utility bills 50/50
Feeling 50/50
Children school fee 50/50

You will be solely responsible for making time table for tatata.

Samantha125:
What accountability are you talking about?

Do you spend own money recklessly?

You want me to spend my own money on you recklessly without me accounting for a needless waste of cash?

YoungLionken:
Some men are becoming women, while women becoming men. That is, women are becoming more reserved than men these days, women no longer talk but act (as in the numerous cases of women, planning against their men with patience, until they leave the shores of Africa) while men are the new talkatives ! I sincerely wonder why most men these days are always "women this! Women that!" Comparison everywhere!!

We (men) despise women cum feminists, because of how they (feminists) constantly compare/equate both genders. But these days online, I wonder what most men argue about, if not same thing; COMPARISON!!!

Abeg , make we hear word

brain54:
Better stingy than broke...

On God!!!

IPDGP:
I guess u still single and if u married I bet u it wont last

its glaring asf ..


This one wey eye dey naija man body..

But no one said anything about spending money recklessly...🤷🤷🤷

almarthins:
Do you spend own money recklessly?

You want me to spend my own money on you recklessly without me accounting for a needless waste of cash?

I have no issues with sharing everything equally, but just know that we'll then both be the heads of the house.

Change4dbeta:
All you mentioned is possible if we had being sharing everything equally.50/50
Marriage expenses 50/50
Accommodation 50/50
Utility bills 50/50
Feeling 50/50
Children school fee 50/50

You will be solely responsible for making time table for tatata.

Last time I checked, you expressed your hate for black South Africans, making me wonder why do you then keep wanting to hold conversations with someone you consider an enemy.

JASONjnr:
What actually do you want?

Samantha125:
A husband is supposed to be the provider, immediately you fail to meet up to your responsibilities as a husband, don't expect me to do the same as a wife, especially of you're doing it on purpose.

Already I'd have respected your decision to be financially responsible, and I'd expect you to do the same with mine... Respect is earned.

What u are saying in a nutshell is that if I fail to meet up with my responsibilities because of the " temporary" situation I found myself u will not not give me that respect as wife.

Note that every responsible man always want the best for his family and a good wife should be supportive at that moment the man is down not to inflect more pains to the existing one.

Which "temporary" situation would that be?

AMI3:
What u are saying in a nutshell is that if I fail to meet up with my responsibilities because of the " temporary" situation I found myself u will not not give me that respect as wife.

Note that every responsible man always want the best for his family and a good wife should be supportive at that moment the man is down not to inflect more pains to the existing one.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

you don't have business living with a man,

Had I complained and demanded for his money, you'd have also said the same thing... What do you men want?

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you don't have business living with a man,

Samantha125:
If he stops being in charge as the head of the house, then things will go out of hand.

I can't be looking unkept while I'm supposed to be having a well established husband to look after me... But if he can't do it for whatever reason, that's fine, it's his money and his choice, I obviously have no say in it... But I'll also make my own choice that's suitable for me.

And they include him not bothering U with questions on how's and why's

Mariangeles:
Iffa hear.

I've been great, thanks.
How your side?

For real though...
Good to know. I'm doing alright here 😊

Yes, he should not ask me anything regarding my finances and I'll do the same.

dkidd:
And they include him not bothering U with questions on how's and why's

Samantha125:
Yes, he should not ask me anything regarding my finances and I'll do the same.

Lol how's that even possible? So I won't ask U anything about all of that I'm seeing and U will be comfortable with it? Worse is we will now be sleeping on same bed, talk about other stuffs but put restrictions on certain issues? It can't work. But let me ask, will it affect knacking in any way

I'll make it work by giving you a silent treatment each time you ask about it... We should respect each other with regard to our finances, you do you and I do me... Don't worry, it wouldn't affect our shaboinky sessions as long as you wouldn't make a big deal out of our new arrangements...

dkidd:
Lol how's that even possible? So I won't ask U anything about all of that I'm seeing and U will be comfortable with it? Worse is we will now be sleeping on same bed, talk about other stuffs but put restrictions on certain issues? It can't work. But let me ask, will it affect knacking in any way

Samantha125:
I'll make it work by giving you a silent treatment each time you ask about it... We should respect each other with regard to our finances, you do you and I do me... Don't worry, it wouldn't affect our shaboinky sessions as long as you wouldn't make a big deal out of our new arrangements...

Shaboi whaaa 😂😂😂 well so long as it doesn't get in the way when in need then U can even put me on steady silent treatment just be available and ready when it's time for shaboinky 😀

Samantha125:
What's wrong with it?

I pray you don't find out, if and when you get married.

Samantha125:
But no one said anything about spending money recklessly...🤷🤷🤷

You can't run, but you can’t hide.

Samantha125:
I have no issues with sharing everything equally, but just know that we'll then both be the heads of the house.

We are co head of the house,no stress.
90% of wo men can't cope with this.

dkidd:
For real though...
Good to know. I'm doing alright here 😊

Then, why were practically all the guys triggered, hmm? 🙂

dkidd:
Shaboi whaaa 😂😂😂 well so long as it doesn't get in the way when in need then U can even put me on steady silent treatment just be available and ready when it's time for shaboinky 😀

You guys will do anything for a shaboinky, that is why y'all are easy to be manipulated and used. Hahahaha
Of course, most men don't believe they get used when it comes to sex.

I mean, why would there be no communication/connection with your partner, and you will want to get down with them?

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

accepted, with the condition that you do this in your father's house or where you are paying rent and utility bills.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

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