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Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Noblemanonpoint: 12:41am On May 17, 2025
She's an older lady, men will not go above and beyond for her at this stage when they're younger women.

They won't put so much effort to impress an older lady.

It's just normal phase of life, the younger ladies are the ones getting this treatment till they become older, the cycle continues.

It has absolutely nothing to do with economy, there's no shortage of simps in town. She's just past it.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Johnn74: 12:49am On May 17, 2025
God will see you throughgrin
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Ilekokonit: 12:52am On May 17, 2025
Jashub:
Men have finally understood the game women play and we have said " we ain't playing again ". So no more chivalry, no more flowers , no more Mr-nice . Henceforth, you'll be our competitors : if you punch us , we'll give you back a double dose ; if we take you out, we're splitting the bill 50/50.
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Me I dey even call police for woman wey do anyhow to me.

Today's women can not stand or handle a "real" man especially if he has a low tolerance for their bullshit.

Shebi na women want to dey drag power with men abi.

Me, I dey call UK police for women now o if they cross their boundary.

I have used the law and police against 2 Ex girlfriends in the UK in the past 7 years and am looking for more girlfriends to use it on so that they will tell their girlfriends that no be only woman fit call police for man for UK.

One ex girlfriend pushed me during an argument outside a restaurant at 12 midnight. I no talk. I just call London police and told them I had just been assaulted and they asked me where I was and I told them the name of the road and told them I was outside Barclays bank on that road. I then put the phone on speaker so that the tramp go know say no be joke.

Immediately she hear police voice see say na true, she just picked her rucksack (which she had dropped in order to push me) and begin pick race. (she no get papers and the fear of being deported to Muritala was the beginning of wisdom for her). Once I saw her running away I just told the police over the phone that she is running away but I am following her.

She ran back to her work place and I followed her and ensured she got a salary advance from her boss and paid me back the whole money that caused the argument. She was too willing to pay it back as she just wanted me to carry my police wahala away from her illegal immigrant self lest she gets deported.

The police kept calling me up till the next morning asking if I wanted to press charges for her assaulting me but I did not pick their calls as I just wanted to put the fear of God in her and ensure she never physically attacks another man again in her life (i.e repaying a woman in the same coin they use in dealing with men).

More men in the western world should call the cops on their wives and girlfriends who assault them even if its just a push or even verbal assault as women don't waste anytime to call the cops if the tables were turned.

E dey even hungry me to get a stubborn woman deported although I no get mind do that one as I no want make hunger kill her.

Another ex girlfriend started sending me multiple abusive texts and curses when I tell am say I no dey do again. I ensured she almost got charged with domestic malicious communication by UK police. I just carry my phone with the text messages from her go police station and told them to call her and tell her to stop contacting me although I told them I did not want her to lose her job.

The cantankerous greedy overworked fool later forgot that the police had asked her not to contact me again and she sent me another text a few days later asking that we continue the fight.

I just texted her the Met Police Reference No for her case and asked her if she wanted me to reopen the case again. That reset her overworked greedy brain and sent the message into her head as she has not called me for about 5 years now.

Enough of pandering to or treating these rascals called women with kid gloves when they will not bat an eyelid before sending a man to jail if the tables were turned.

Real men have tolerated enough s.hit from women for too long and its about time you let the law deal with them once they cross the line which they ALL will do sooner or later especially the ones who live in Western countries where too much latitude has meant they no longer know when they are crossing the line.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Double0h7(f):
nl 2025 😂
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Double0h7(f):
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by papyjaypaul: 3:08am On May 17, 2025
Ilekokonit:
Una never see anything. MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is the new mantra for men. A lot of men are now realizing that not having regular sex will not kill them and so the power of pussy over a man is slowly losing its grip. Women now need more than fine face, body and pussy to keep a man interested for long. They need good character and good morals and a FEMININE attitude to get men to take them serious.

Today's men lose interest at the slightest show of nonsense from a woman. life is too short to spend it on a rude woman.

The day a man realizes that women can hold him back from achieving his goal on time is the day the man begins his step to being delivered from dependency on a woman's so called affection and company. In fact a lot of successful men are bachelors. Examples - Dangote and Don Jazzy.
When you said a lot, I thought you would have given 10 names or more. Dangote's close friend, Otedola is married. Don Jazzy's before before partner is D'banj, another married man undecided
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by EmekaA125(m): 4:10am On May 17, 2025
Houseofglam7:
Mtchewwwwwwwww
You no go cry ke 🤣
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by EmekaA125(m): 4:10am On May 17, 2025
SwingersCorner:
Lady needed to give a massage.

Preferably married

The pay is very good.

Send PM if interested
Shiiiii. Nothing for you.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by EmekaA125(m): 4:12am On May 17, 2025
DIVINEEVIDENCE:
When you all started cheating on good men, taking nice guys for granted and feeling entitled to perks of chivalry, men adjusted.

When you all started going naked on reels and TikTok live, exposing the sacred grove of womanhood to all who cared to see, you lost your specialness.

Go to any gym today and see women in pants and bra in public.

Go to any club and see them disgracing their fathers and ancestors.

With all the rituals and kidnap stories flying around, you ladies are still doing whocup and sleepovers with random strangers.

The moment you became shameless with a touch of foolishness, men simply stopped worshipping a disgraced god.

Last but not the least, the redpill happened.

Deal with it babygyal
95% of Naija ladies from 20 – 50 are achawo 😁😁😁
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by EmekaA125(m): 4:13am On May 17, 2025
Jubrilv:
God will see you through
People wey offend God join.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by ceejay80s(m): 5:17am On May 17, 2025
U want to bill me yet u won't present ur self,
Who does that?
Nothing goes for nothing
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by erico2k2(m): 5:48am On May 17, 2025
Glimpsetv:
A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concerns about the changing attitudes of men in today’s society. According to her, there was a time when, if you went to a restaurant to buy food, a man would approach and offer to pay for everything.

She added that back then, even men who didn’t know you at all would walk up to you at a shopping mall, offer to shop for you, and even carry your basket around the store. But nowadays, she says, men no longer do such things — instead, they simply wait for you outside.

She also recalled how, in the past, men would often stop their cars to offer women a lift upon seeing them by the roadside. But today, she claims, such gestures of kindness have become rare.

She went on to lament how much things have changed in the country, reminiscing about 10 to 12 years ago when men were more willing to help women and showed genuine care.

Watch the full video to hear her heartfelt thoughts and personal experiences on this shift in male behavior.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdOcdskW8IQ?si=7Cj3UyZyp1UbgiiP
Blame the Internet, its easier to get a girl now than B4, so men do not stress themselves, gone are the days when a girl will just look good as a Job, to earn money, now you need to get a real job to be looked at.Also some guys do not even look at girls who do not own thier own car/s
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by musazulyadain: 6:36am On May 17, 2025
Go husul yourself
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by jasontrigga(m): 6:48am On May 17, 2025
I once told a lady
She will buy fuel for the car while I pay for the outing or vis-versa
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by pansophist(m):
She talked about how men were acting all chivalrous, but didn't talked about how women treated such men.

Women with their double-speak. If they say they want a good man, what they truly meant is that they want a rich man. You want a man to treat women like queens, but modern women act like peasants.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by pansophist(m):
The final stage is invincibility lol

Firstly women enjoy waves of attention from their late teens to like 24. At that age, she is celebrity, every man wants her number, and will be spoilt by rich men who will increase her taste, which she will confuse as standards.

Then from 25 above, men will still be coming, but she notice that the intensity men are coming with have reduced, and at this point, most men wont put pressure if you decline the first time.

From 30's, she realise that men actually have standards for the women they take serious. All her life, men ignore their standard just to fork, but now she wants to marry, she realise for the first time that she is broker than the men she calls broke, and men will hold it against her.

From 35 upwards, she will begin to feel the invincibility men generally feel. Men at 35 years of age will go for girl even 10 years younger. Just like she went for men over 10 years older than her.

If she enter 40, then if it is not over, it is a miracle to bag a quality man. Then the real pain, loneliness, and sadness becomes a norm. Whats more painful is that she has gotten used to la vida loca since her teens, then now will be like grace to grass.

Better use your time wisely as a woman. Men are not the problem, it is just nature and the laws of seasons. Most men suffers theirs from birth till even 40's, and women that are still single at that age will pass through it.

And the more beautiful and spoilt she is, the harder she falls.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by drstranged: 7:22am On May 17, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
grin
Very good for them
I date character first, then face, silm, dark complexion , pointed breast, , hips, waist then ass in that order

The character of most girls of this generation is gutter mode, entitlement and zero appreciation and no loyalty.

They think that bad girl means rude girl, what we have are just bunch of junkies moving around in cheap clothes and no man is ready to buy an insult no matter how hornnyy he is, except of course he is a drug and alcohol damaged byproduct.
Man you're really good with words grin grin
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by bukatyne(f): 7:29am On May 17, 2025
I read the topic and I thought she wanted to say something serious.

She couldn't complain of men's unwillingness to properly court a lady.... through words and actions; she is talking of Ebina attitude.

Anyways, it depends on upbringing and values.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Proudlyngwa(m): 7:48am On May 17, 2025
drstranged:
Man you're really good with words grin grin
Thanks
That's really rich, coming from my 2nd favourite enchanter.


Dr Strange
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by nwirinedu(m): 7:50am On May 17, 2025
That was because everything was free back then society respected men, now it's the reverse. Women are strong and independent. Men have left the scam.
Strong and independent women don't beg for meals from men.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by TempleHouse: 7:53am On May 17, 2025
Men have finally come to their senses !!
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Smithwilliams826: 7:58am On May 17, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
grin
Very good for them
I date character first, then face, silm, dark complexion , pointed breast, , hips, waist then ass in that order

The character of most girls of this generation is gutter mode, entitlement and zero appreciation and no loyalty.

They think that bad girl means rude girl, what we have are just bunch of junkies moving around in cheap clothes and no man is ready to buy an insult no matter how hornnyy he is, except of course he is a drug and alcohol damaged byproduct.
Chai. C as u arrange am in d correct order.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by hartson: 8:24am On May 17, 2025
Glimpsetv:
A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concerns about the changing attitudes of men in today’s society. According to her, there was a time when, if you went to a restaurant to buy food, a man would approach and offer to pay for everything.

She added that back then, even men who didn’t know you at all would walk up to you at a shopping mall, offer to shop for you, and even carry your basket around the store. But nowadays, she says, men no longer do such things — instead, they simply wait for you outside.

She also recalled how, in the past, men would often stop their cars to offer women a lift upon seeing them by the roadside. But today, she claims, such gestures of kindness have become rare.

She went on to lament how much things have changed in the country, reminiscing about 10 to 12 years ago when men were more willing to help women and showed genuine care.

Watch the full video to hear her heartfelt thoughts and personal experiences on this shift in male behavior.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdOcdskW8IQ?si=7Cj3UyZyp1UbgiiP
of course things don spoil and the 10-15 years ago you referred to was during President Jonathan administration
So I suggest you send this your lamentation direct to the empty head in aso rock if he will listen to you
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 8:26am On May 17, 2025
EmekaA125:
95% of Naija ladies from 20 – 50 are achawo 😁😁😁
You are wise, elder.

Earth is hard.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Newgoodkk(m): 8:57am On May 17, 2025
Double0h7:
Let me get ban. Ned for saying you are chatting shhhit!
grin grin grin I can't Laugh oooo, Chai ! This One is Pained because she is one of them , Better no try Jam this Kain Man oooo orelse U go Cr. y.. oooo grin
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by IHate9jerianss(m): 9:14am On May 17, 2025
pansophist:
The final stage is invincibility lol

Firstly women enjoy waves of attention from their late teens to like 24. At that age, she is celebrity, every man wants her number, and will be spoilt by rich men who will increase her taste, which she will confuse as standards.

Then from 25 above, men will still be coming, but she notice that the intensity men are coming with have reduced, and at this point, most men wont put pressure if you decline the first time.

From 30's, she realise that men actually have standards for the women they take serious. All her life, men ignore their standard just to fork, but now she wants to marry, she realise for the first time that she is broker than the men she calls broke, and men will hold it against her.

From 35 upwards, she will begin to feel the invincibility men generally feel. Men at 35 years of age will go for girl even 10 years younger. Just like she went for men over 10 years older than her.

If she enter 40, then if it is not over, it is a miracle to bag a quality man. Then the real pain, loneliness, and sadness becomes a norm Whats more painful is that she has gotten used to la vida loca since her teens, then now will be like grace to grass.

Better use your time wisely as a woman. Men are not the problem, it is just nature and the laws of seasons. Most men suffers theirs from birth till even 40's, and women that are still single at that age will pass through it.

And the more beautiful and spoilt she is, the harder she falls.
They will then come online and whine about men from morning until night and try to convince younger women to join them in their miserydom
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Maurindo(m): 9:32am On May 17, 2025
Didn't the holy book of the Bible say that a day will come when 10 ladies will be begging 1 man to marry them? Guess everything starts somewhere?
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by 4KNGOAT: 9:45am On May 17, 2025
[quote author=Glimpsetv post=135394496][/quote]E no-go better for all of una
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by 0neal(m): 10:38am On May 17, 2025
pansophist:
The final stage is invincibility lol

Firstly women enjoy waves of attention from their late teens to like 24. At that age, she is celebrity, every man wants her number, and will be spoilt by rich men who will increase her taste, which she will confuse as standards.

Then from 25 above, men will still be coming, but she notice that the intensity men are coming with have reduced, and at this point, most men wont put pressure if you decline the first time.

From 30's, she realise that men actually have standards for the women they take serious. All her life, men ignore their standard just to fork, but now she wants to marry, she realise for the first time that she is broker than the men she calls broke, and men will hold it against her.

From 35 upwards, she will begin to feel the invincibility men generally feel. Men at 35 years of age will go for girl even 10 years younger. Just like she went for men over 10 years older than her.

If she enter 40, then if it is not over, it is a miracle to bag a quality man. Then the real pain, loneliness, and sadness becomes a norm. Whats more painful is that she has gotten used to la vida loca since her teens, then now will be like grace to grass.

Better use your time wisely as a woman.

Men are not the problem, it is just nature and the laws of seasons. Most men suffers theirs from birth till even 40's, and women that are still single at that age will pass through it.

And the more beautiful and spoilt she is, the harder she falls.
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by Father4all: 10:58am On May 17, 2025
She must dated lot of men to know this things
Re: Pretty Lady Laments The Attitude Of Modern Men Towards Women (Photos/Video) by 0neal(m): 11:01am On May 17, 2025
DIVINEEVIDENCE:


the redpill happened

Deal with it babygyal
More like the redpill went mainstream

The knowledge of redpill was default in most men raised and living in traditional societies, then HollyWood started the mass brainwashing of people with mushy romantic soul-mate love script...
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