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Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Joybeau: 3:03pm On May 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Forgive her, Sir.
It is you she loves.
After all she came back home to you.
That should tell you a lot.

Don't allow the devil break your home.
You are yarning dust. Always quick to say forgive. Is this all you can fathom to say?
What if she came back with a deadly disease?

Not only the disease, have you no ego as a man to welcome this nonsense?
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Bossjakande: 3:08pm On May 18, 2025
Twoclans:
Naso
u will born one day if is ur son will u say dat
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Talismann: 3:34pm On May 18, 2025
Krucifax:
Whats this i'm hearing about TIV women?? My cousin is planning to marry one soon abeg oo. Hope all i'm hearing is not true oo. Abeg!!!
my dear brother, better advice your cousin to withdraw his footsteps.

See I have lived with them it is engrained in their DNA. They no dey stay for man house. I feel like crying for your cousin already embarassed cry

But if you refuse to warn him, or he allows love to blind him and goes ahead. Abeg save this my post for the nearest future
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Talismann: 3:42pm On May 18, 2025
Sirkingsnado:
I am in this shoe also this lady do house chores like tomorrow no dey

Knack like never b4

Can cook delicious meal

Have respect

But am still calculating if I should go for introduction

Omo
abi na Tiv girl? shey you dey see advice you still dey contemplate.

Please go ahead and do introduction.
It can only end one way for you.
😭
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Sirkingsnado: 3:52pm On May 18, 2025
Talismann:
abi na Tiv girl? shey you dey see advice you still dey contemplate.

Please go ahead and do introduction.
It can only end one way for you.
😭
I don't know how I will break up with this girl now she has done alot for me God

Can u Suggest how I can break up with her

Cause I can see u have lived with them u know most things about them
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Zooposki(f): 4:12pm On May 18, 2025
TotoIsGud4boy:
If she’s REAL , why wouldn’t I partner ? Heck the word “Partner” feels like fitting a square into a peg… Men are supposed to lead (most modern women say they want partnership but then resent a man for not being a leader huh). I could take a calculated guess and say you’ve been burnt just like most of us in the past and grew a tough excuse of a reason by being feminist/anti-patriarchy and whatever labels that justifies hating on strong masculine identity. Independence must feel like a hit of crack cocaine (Atleast the idea of it).. can’t go back , can’t look back after the first hit aye? But what’s the lesson here? I can’t see the lesson. Feels to me like a bunch of women just constantly adding fire to the flame which is their ego in the guise of “ I don’t need a man “.

You deserve to be loved unconditionally. You deserve to feel… heck that man could be your brother, friend or father figure. Doesn’t have to be romantic. And hell yeah I do need a woman that will never come down…. that will never come down unless it’s straight from heaven wink
Actually women are supposed to be the leaders. The bible written by men for men just distorted everything. Women are supposed to make decisions for the home and her children, while the male is only supposed to protect and provide. Take the queen and her worker bees for example.

Also, nobody burnt me. I guess I was just too intelligent to follow the crowd from when i was little. The highest form of nirvana you can ever achieve is to be one with self, and not another.

Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Talismann: 4:12pm On May 18, 2025
Sirkingsnado:
I don't know how I will break up with this girl now she has done alot for me God

Can u Suggest how I can break up with her

Cause I can see u have lived with them u know most things about them
bro I am talking about Tiv girls here. So unless a prophet or God gave you vision to marry her, you best thread with caution.

I won't be the one to break your relationship but Tiv girls and Bini girls are a terrible choice of wife for me. Unless she's an outlier which is very unlikely
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Sirkingsnado: 4:14pm On May 18, 2025
Talismann:
bro I am talking about Tiv girls here. So unless a prophet or God gave you vision to marry her, you best thread with caution.

I won't be the one to break your relationship but Tiv girls and Bini girls are a terrible choice of wife for me. Unless she's an outlier which is very unlikely
Ok bro am even suspecting this girl might be former os

With the way she do her things

Let me start by telling her to give me chance
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Zooposki(f): 4:18pm On May 18, 2025
Talismann:
my dear brother, better advice your cousin to withdraw his footsteps.

See I have lived with them it is engrained in their DNA. They no dey stay for man house. I feel like crying for your cousin already embarassed cry

But if you refuse to warn him, or he allows love to blind him and goes ahead. Abeg save this my post for the nearest future
Watch this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kO3ZClqxwbY?si=o0zImnxYwPrtkSPn
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Talismann: 4:30pm On May 18, 2025
Zooposki:
Watch this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kO3ZClqxwbY?si=o0zImnxYwPrtkSPn
you and the man in the video, make una carry una sme!!y mouth go one side.
Just so you know, I am not even of igbo extraction.

I say things the way they are. I don't care whose ox is gored.

And never you quote me in your life again. Ever!
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Zooposki(f): 4:35pm On May 18, 2025
Talismann:
you and the man in the video, make una carry una sme!!y mouth go one side.
Just so you know, I am not even of igbo extraction.

I say things the way they are. I don't care whose ox is gored.

Never you quote me in your life again. Ever!
A hit dog will always holler. You know you lied when you said you lived amongst them. Just imagine the audacity to castigate a whole ethnic group of women. There are special places for people like you.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by maasoap(m): 5:57pm On May 18, 2025
Coolsat:
Women are now taking the lead in this cheating contest and they are becoming so bold and brutal about it.
Who cares? May be Simpsons do anyway
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 18, 2025
Sirkingsnado:
Ok bro am even suspecting this girl might be former os

With the way she do her things

Let me start by telling her to give me chance
U no dey hear word abi? Don't do anything stupid just because she's a Tiv girl. OBS her with a clear mind and if U see any thing sus and eventually it becomes obvious U can do the fadeaway. If not allow the relationship run it's course naturally.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by papyjaypaul: 6:24pm On May 18, 2025
Ebubu:
I don't know about foreign countries or other Nigerian traditions, but in Igbo land if you haven't returned her bride price you can keep the children.

She is free to remarry.

This can vary in other countries, reason why I'm skeptical about being a married man in the abroad, no matter how much I trust my wife, she may change when I take her there.
This is why we should find out how she thinks, first from her family and herself. Some people don't go to the law because of religion or tradition. If the family will take you to court, it means they cannot influence her and the elders cannot settle any matter. I was just saying what I said because when I watch justice court and read court judgments on marital cases, child custody almost everywhere in the world is the problem. And some of these countries, they have customs and traditions but children are emotional ties to the parents so each case may be different depending on how the couples treated themselves.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by FuckYeyeMods: 6:46pm On May 18, 2025
Sirkingsnado:
I am in this shoe also this lady do house chores like tomorrow no dey

Knack like never b4

Can cook delicious meal

Have respect

But am still calculating if I should go for introduction

Omo
Is like they have special school that teach Chores, Knacking and How to respect.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by NothingDoMe: 7:30pm On May 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Forgive her, Sir.
It is you she loves.
After all she came back home to you.
That should tell you a lot.

Don't allow the devil break your home.
Lol why you dey talk like this? 🤣.

The girl don enter street already. She looks quite young and never had a taste of life before marriage.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by purples25(f): 11:32pm On May 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Forgive her, Sir.
It is you she loves.
After all she came back home to you.
That should tell you a lot.

Don't allow the devil break your home.
😂

I love your cutting sarcasm. Like flipping the script. The thing they tell women to do when it’s them that got cheated on. And this went right over many dudes heads.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Sirkingsnado: 11:56pm On May 18, 2025
dkidd:
U no dey hear word abi? Don't do anything stupid just because she's a Tiv girl. OBS her with a clear mind and if U see any thing sus and eventually it becomes obvious U can do the fadeaway. If not allow the relationship run it's course naturally.
Ok bro
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Sirkingsnado: 11:57pm On May 18, 2025
FuckYeyeMods:
Is like they have special school that teach Chores, Knacking and How to respect.
I swear bro
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Twoclans(f): 3:16am On May 19, 2025
Bossjakande:
u will born one day if is ur son will u say dat
Yes I will

After all that is what women are told to do.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by outstandingsyll(f): 11:08am On May 19, 2025
Coolsat:
Women are now taking the lead in this cheating contest and they are becoming so bold and brutal about it.
We learnt from the best grin
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by Bossjakande: 4:22pm On May 19, 2025
outstandingsyll:
We learnt from the best grin
ibo beauty u luk so beautiful
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by chidiokay: 7:39am On May 21, 2025
purples25:
😂

I love your cutting sarcasm. Like flipping the script. The thing they tell women to do when it’s them that got cheated on. And this went right over many dudes heads.
does it matter what you love, flip it like pancake or turn it like amala does it change our reality .. m/f are not judge from the same lens and as such we dont suffer the same consequences

how long did it take churchhill to get another sweet celeb wife.

its a man's world, hate it buh behave yle you are squatting
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by purples25(f): 9:17am On May 21, 2025
chidiokay:
does it matter what you love, flip it like pancake or turn it like amala does it change our reality .. m/f are not judge from the same lens and as such we dont suffer the same consequences

how long did it take churchhill to get another sweet celeb wife.

its a man's world, hate it buh behave yle you are squatting
Okay ‘massa’. We be good an’ docile. Juss don beat us with the whip, massa.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by chidiokay: 9:34am On May 21, 2025
purples25:
Okay ‘massa’. We be good an’ docile. Juss don beat us with the whip, massa.
trust me i am not close to white not to talk of " master" .. staying on your lane on the road does not mean your car cant move at speed smiley

do whips still exist undecided i can use slippers wink
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by purples25(f): 11:54am On May 21, 2025
chidiokay:
trust me i am not close to white not to talk of " master" .. staying on your lane on the road does not mean your car cant move at speed smiley

do whips still exist undecided i can use slippers wink
Slavery exists from white to black

From black to black

From light skin to dark skin and vice versa

From men to women

And from women to men

So don’t give me no talk about not being white.

Especially with how you want to claim it’s a mens world like women were born to be slaves to them.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by jattopeter(m): 12:21pm On May 21, 2025
I pity People , I dated alot of their ladies but I can never go to marry their.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by chidiokay: 4:22pm On May 21, 2025
purples25:
Slavery exists from white to black

From black to black

From light skin to dark skin and vice versa

From men to women

And from women to men

So don’t give me no talk about not being white.

Especially with how you want to claim it’s a mens world like women were born to be slaves to them.
I missed primary 6 tho, but i dont know of any africa country that colonize the other in history

Asking you to be a woman stay a woman is not a call for slavery

Adam was lonely, naa why God remember to bring woman into the picture.

what if Adam was not lonely, just imagine
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by purples25(f): 6:15pm On May 21, 2025
chidiokay:
I missed primary 6 tho, but i dont know of any africa country that colonize the other in history

Asking you to be a woman stay a woman is not a call for slavery

Adam was lonely, naa why God remember to bring woman into the picture.

what if Adam was not lonely, just imagine
What were your examples of how to be a woman and stay a woman, again?

You mentioned that we should not misbehave where we are squatting. Made references to Churchill getting another woman so fast (to me that seems like I’m being reminded that I’m easily replaceable, not valuable and should behave, having that in mind.

And now - Adam was lonely. Hinting that we women are only here because of men.

I think making someone’s existence worthless, and only to be worthy when they completely live for someone else’s pleasure alone, is slavery.

Btw I don’t know about your primary six. There are other ways blacks have enslaved other blacks, which don’t include colonialism.
Re: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by chidiokay: 6:45pm On May 21, 2025
purples25:
What were your examples of how to be a woman and stay a woman, again?

You mentioned that we should not misbehave where we are squatting. Made references to Churchill getting another woman so fast (to me that seems like I’m being reminded that I’m easily replaceable, not valuable and should behave, having that in mind.

And now - Adam was lonely. Hinting that we women are only here because of men.

I think making someone’s existence worthless, and only to be worthy when they completely live for someone else’s pleasure alone, is slavery.

Btw I don’t know about your primary six. There are other ways blacks have enslaved other blacks, which don’t include colonialism.
i think, 1st be yourself as a woman/person let nobody change you, if you are not a cheat why change because of your man

Well i sorry buh not sorry, if the truth bring bruises, my focus is not women are easily replaceable, humans are replaceable however women are more stigmatize..

Truth can be bitter cheesy, i only said imagine if Adams wasnt lonely, the bible called woman "helpmate" if not for Boss weytin go be PA

the context you keep using is why you see "slavery" ... do you know slavery as no form "freewill" but you as a woman do you not decide whose propose you say " Yes" to
Do we not have millions of wife that refuse their husband sex at night or not cook cos the man never send her parent monthly allowee .. maybe your " slavery" is just a delusion

i cum dey wish i did primary 6, weytin dem teach you black do black, any instances smiley
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