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Generally, in those days when guys may have to endure hard-to-get before a lady says yes or maybe no. Many ladies were like a trophy to win those days. They were special in the chase. Those days, a lady may give a guy 4 months of hard-to-get before she says yes or maybe no. A guy may have to prepare himself on how to speak to her. A lady may even "torture" a guy in the hard-to-get process before saying Yes, and the guy may not count the pain of the "torture" but may see himself as a hero for holding on to win her.

Today it is not the case. Relationship is partly like business. Hard-to-get is partly out of fashion to a great degree. If a lady tries it today, she may never receive feedback or communication from her toaster. Some guys may end it all with the chase immediately a lady does hard-to-get once. Some guys may not wait more than two weeks for a chase.

As a good lady, you are still very important and special. If you have built yourself in capacity, character, decency, good qualities e.t.c., you deserve someone who should look for you specially.

Finally, keep your virginity. Virginity is a trophy. Virginity might make a man hurry a wedding process to marry you. It might make a man put more energy in marrying you without delay. It might make your husband so proud of you.

If you are not a virgin, you are still special. You can work on your character more and more, avoid pre-marital sex and wait till marriage.

Ehh...
I no fit wait for the coming of Jesus Christ and wait for the girl at the same time

Why chase a lady who has gone down with a thousand men before you, when you can chase money and thousand women prettier than her will follow you.


Thank you Ubunja!


May your days be long

"If you are not a virgin, you are still special. You can work on your character more and more, avoid pre-marital sex and wait till marriage"


OP are you ok? After being a cheerful giver to other guys you want the husband to wait till after marriage before collecting shebi?


You're not really serious!

jetguy:
Ehh...
I no fit wait for the coming of Jesus Christ and wait for the girl at the same time

😂 😂

I owe Ubunja a lot. He single handedly saved me from manipulation in the hands of a snake I called girlfriend then. Stumbling upon his thread changed the game.

NoahHadNoArk:
Why chase a lady who has gone down with a thousand men before you, when you can chase money and thousand women prettier than her will follow you.


Thank you Ubunja!


May your days be long

Yeah

ebubeson:
Generally, in those days when guys may have to endure hard-to-get before a lady says yes or maybe no.

never oh

NoahHadNoArk:
Why chase a lady who has gone down with a thousand men before you, when you can chase money and thousand women prettier than her will follow you.


Thank you Ubunja!


May your days be long

and they will follow to chop your money ,,,they will love money not you

AllBlack:
never oh

Never?

ebubeson:
Never?

i swear on everything.
I have never done that crappy and creepy ASKING OUT. it is the weakest thing ever.

Not to talk of waiting for a YES or NO

NoahHadNoArk:
Why chase a lady who has gone down with a thousand men before you, when you can chase money and thousand women prettier than her will follow you.


Thank you Ubunja!


May your days be long

We have good women.

ebubeson:
We have good women.

Dey play 🤣