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Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by DyshApp(op): 11:35pm On May 26, 2025
UK-based Nigerian woman, Uloma Nwogu, has recounted a distressing experience involving the father of her children, whom she claims reappeared after years of absence and attempted to use her as a route into the United Kingdom.


Uloma revealed in a post on Facebook that she relocated to the UK two years ago with her children after raising them alone for six years. She described the journey as both physically and mentally draining, stating that the stress of single-handedly raising children in a foreign land led to her developing high blood pressure.

According to Uloma, the children’s father resurfaced in January this year through a Facebook message, expressing a sudden desire to reconnect with the children.

After a series of conversations, he proposed to be included in her visa application and, in return, offered to reimburse her for the children’s school fees from the past six years.

Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Nobody: 11:45pm On May 26, 2025
If people did you wrong the first time, NEVER give them a second chance to do you wrong.

You can always build mutual relationships from a distance.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Righteousness2(m): 12:29am On May 27, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
If people did you wrong the first time, NEVER give them a second chance to do you wrong.

You can always build mutual relationships from a distance.
But you have been Hurting and nailing JESUS CHRIST over and over again to the Cross with your wicked and Evil lifestyle.
Yet when you come to Him for Forgiveness, HE forgives you.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by delugadou(m): 12:34am On May 27, 2025
Righteousness2:
But you have been Hurting and nailing JESUS CHRIST over and over again to the Cross with your wicked and Evil lifestyle.
Yet when you come to Him for Forgiveness, HE forgives you.
Try to get some sleep
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Nobody: 12:36am On May 27, 2025
Righteousness2:
But you have been Hurting and nailing JESUS CHRIST over and over again to the Cross with your wicked and Evil lifestyle.
Yet when you come to Him for Forgiveness, HE forgives you.
What’s the relationship between me and Jesus?

Let’s even go there, where did Jesus end up? His trust still killed him. He could have lived longer if he was cautious about people.

I guess his death was also passing a message. You cannot be successful with a crowd behind you. You will be cut short in no time.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by advanceDNA: 12:58am On May 27, 2025
He must be a comedian....
She should collect the money and run him street.... nonsense and ingredients
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Celestialsword: 12:59am On May 27, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
If people did you wrong the first time, NEVER give them a second chance to do you wrong.

You can always build mutual relationships from a distance.
Human being is imperfect including you,we learn and unlearn in the process of living.

So he should be given a second chance as he is holding the olive branch
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Nobody: 1:03am On May 27, 2025
Celestialsword:
Human being is imperfect including you,we learn and unlearn in the process of living.

So he should be given a second chance as he is holding the olive branch
Maybe we share different experiences and why you have a different perception.

If you have forgiven people and restored full relationships, I have 99.9% assurance that your disappointment will be from one of those peeps.

A man had the guts to live his wife and kids, an adult we talking about. What’s makes you think he can’t repeat same at the slightest provocation? He already used to that life and about it.

In this instance, for the sake of the kids, forgiveness is welcomed, but it should be from a distance.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Nobody: 1:55am On May 27, 2025
But if na the other way round, no problem
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by otipoju(m):
Celestialsword:
Human being is imperfect including you,we learn and unlearn in the process of living.

So he should be given a second chance as he is holding the olive branch
If his intentions were pure, he would not claim he was scammed of "visa fees" and go and arrest the mother of his ex-wife..for refunding the school fees of his own children as he had clearly indicated when he was given her the money.

He deserves what he is getting. I hate irresponsible men. He is just a wicked fellow.

No matter what happens between you and a woman, you still owe it to your children to do what is right by them.

Deliberately withholding money for their upkeep is wickedness and by his actions he shows that he has not changed at all.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Kobojunkie:
Celestialsword:
➜ Human being is imperfect including you, we learn and unlearn in the process of living. ➜So he should be given a second chance as he is holding the olive branch
Nonsense! Imagine thinking your learning should be at the expense of the emotional and social growth of others. 🙄🙄🙄

2. Well, the next time a woman abandons you and your children, and then comes back years later, you should make certain to take an olive branch from her, while others can choose never to look back, no matter what. sad
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by LordIsaac(m): 2:48am On May 27, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
If people did you wrong the first time, NEVER give them a second chance to do you wrong.

You can always build mutual relationships from a distance.
I used to think like this many years ago, but I was lonely. With humans, offenses must surely come. Raise the bar, but give people a second chance. No one is perfect.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Nobody: 2:49am On May 27, 2025
LordIsaac:
I used to think like this many years ago, but I was lonely. With humans, offenses must surely come. Raise the bar, but give people a second chance. No one is perfect.
Life has a way of teaching us all lessons.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by CJStarz: 4:20am On May 27, 2025
Woman, forgive him.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Houseofglam7(f): 6:23am On May 27, 2025
🤭
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by advanceDNA:
Celestialsword:
Human being is imperfect including you,we learn and unlearn in the process of living.

So he should be given a second chance as he is holding the olive branch
That's not an olive branch ...that's a smoke screen to get him into the UK....He ddnt come back since all these years to reconcile......he even had millions that he could send for his kid's welfare, yet he ddnt...

..he now saw UK opportunity and wants to use the woman to travel...you are now here talking about imperfection and second chance.... second chances are for pple that have truly repented...this one is a thief..
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by EarthKing(m): 7:36am On May 27, 2025
"Uluoma I the on my ten toes, I dorn teh you tire make we the like extra cool."



Great Jams
#YoungJohn
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:36am On May 27, 2025
I support the lady
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Righteousness2(m): 8:36am On May 27, 2025
When you cross over Without JESUS CHRIST or the Trumpet Blast and you remain here on Earth, you will know the RELATIONSHIP between you and JESUS CHRIST.

You will be the one Calling , Screaming and Begging for JESUS. Unfortunately, it will be too Late.

Now is the ACCEPTED time. The next Moment is not Guaranteed.

CoronaVirusPro:
What’s the relationship between me and Jesus?

Let’s even go there, where did Jesus end up? His trust still killed him. He could have lived longer if he was cautious about people.

I guess his death was also passing a message. You cannot be successful with a crowd behind you. You will be cut short in no time.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by ruggedtimi(m): 9:32am On May 27, 2025
Na visa the mxmu man want.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by MMempire(m): 1:41pm On May 27, 2025
Brother cum father wey mumu.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by ghettochild(m): 2:04pm On May 27, 2025
Smart move, the idiot wan take advantage of her
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Klington: 4:59pm On May 27, 2025
huh
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by sofeo(m): 5:00pm On May 27, 2025
Alright
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Sibrah: 5:01pm On May 27, 2025
He miscalculated.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Gbadugbakun(m): 5:02pm On May 27, 2025
Which one is 7.9m, he should have just made it 8m. The woman should reject it because people like that are usually cunning.
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by femi4: 5:03pm On May 27, 2025
DyshApp:
UK-based Nigerian woman, Uloma Nwogu, has recounted a distressing experience involving the father of her children, whom she claims reappeared after years of absence and attempted to use her as a route into the United Kingdom.


Uloma revealed in a post on Facebook that she relocated to the UK two years ago with her children after raising them alone for six years. She described the journey as both physically and mentally draining, stating that the stress of single-handedly raising children in a foreign land led to her developing high blood pressure.

According to Uloma, the children’s father resurfaced in January this year through a Facebook message, expressing a sudden desire to reconnect with the children.

After a series of conversations, he proposed to be included in her visa application and, in return, offered to reimburse her for the children’s school fees from the past six years.
Nigerians in the UK n wahala
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by Mopolchi: 5:04pm On May 27, 2025
Story is not clear undecided
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by floss(m): 5:04pm On May 27, 2025
Just as some people are brought to your life to be part of the process that lead to your breakthrough, some are also brought to be part of the process that will annihilate or destroy you.


In all, you have no influence stopping them from happening, you can’t change the outcome of the game you’re playing… the developers already knew how the game ended.

We’re only pawn
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by NaijaGoBetter2(m): 5:05pm On May 27, 2025
If the lady think am twice she should just take the money and move on, it's difficult to live in the UK as a single parent that's d reason their government always support single parent (citizen only) meanwhile this subject is not entitle to public fund... (Just 2yrs in d UK).

Though it might be difficult but she need d man to start his duty as a father....atleast d system is design to protect d women.

Lastly, if she insist in continuing her single parenting life style na her life but dt won't stop d children to take care of their fada when dey grow up
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by omoredia: 5:06pm On May 27, 2025
Any Nigerian u marry is a potentiaI deviI
Re: Man Offers Ex-wife N7.9m After Abandoning Children For Six Years by cardoctor(m): 5:06pm On May 27, 2025
Lucky woman
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