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Why Relationship Is A Scam by NaijaMutant(f): 8:41am On Apr 14
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace. cool

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by NaijaMutant(f): 1:04pm On Apr 14
Agreed or disagreed ?

I'd like to hear what a dissenting opinion has to say about this.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by nigeriagospel(m): 1:11pm On Apr 14
You're wise OP, nothing like love, selfish interest is the order of the day.

If it's does not favour us, we don't love it.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 14
Lol. Agreed!
Wow, I didn't know that I had this sexy PawPaw untill I saw it now, now I'm already eating it, it's so sweet. kiss
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Youngpo413: 2:28pm On Apr 14
NaijaMutant:
Agreed or disagreed ?


Lalasticlala
Agreed!

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by IceDune: 3:24pm On Apr 14
It's called symbiosis

It's a way of life of animals and we are all animals

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by senetorjboss(m): 3:31pm On Apr 14
Most relationships is a scam cus we have so many immature people in it

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by planetx13: 4:10pm On Apr 14
NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace. cool

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

Or his dreams

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by FalseProphet1(m): 4:44pm On Apr 14
Youths of these days love any discussion involving sex or relationship, I see this thread exceeding 5 pages. This I have seen.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Simplebeauty: 4:44pm On Apr 14
lipsrsealed



Let the prophet above prophesy
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by NaijaMutant(f): 4:44pm On Apr 14
I'm officially a content writer cool

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Dalil8: 4:45pm On Apr 14
I quite agree.

And it's human nature to be selfish

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by punisha: 4:45pm On Apr 14
this your talk self be somehow.

I dey broke when I marry my wife that year.
Now i am blessed beyond measure.

she is beautiful, Intelligent (I no sabi anything)

how many years later, her beauty is now pronounced and enhanced. she's also a career woman.

she married me in my wowo state. like i had nothing to offer.

Relationship no be always scam.

for those quoting me and saying rubbish, sorry but not sorry if my happiness is your headache.


ps, whomever broke ur heart needs to be stoned.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 14
Big scam. Everyone loves u when there is money.
When the chips are down, No love.
This applies to both male and females.

Please, check my signature

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by ezanafe(m): 4:45pm On Apr 14
The next person has something to say.
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by kponkedenge(m): 4:46pm On Apr 14
Relationships has always been a scam.... In most cases, both parties cheat on each other, but tend to feel betrayed when one of them find out about the cheating.

On Sunday, a friend was telling me how he sent his gf money to come to Lagos and spend a few days with him.... According to him, after he sent the money, she said she couldn't make it again because of one thing or the other..... Only for him to later discover she actually came and went to another guys place.....as he was telling me that, I was just laughing.

Finding someone loyal in a relationship is like finding a needle in a haystack.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Fiscus105: 4:46pm On Apr 14
the issue is that guys will never go and meet ladies that they want to Bleep, since sex is seen as dirty, but guys would rather hide under relationship .....say I love u I want relationship but deep inside man is to just suck and throw the reminant .....and for the ladies, they see their body as sacred and they believe man can't do without it, as a result ladies put premium on their body, ......did you think I'm a prostitute? yet deep inside them they want good money after going out with guys and not necessarily committed relationship , but they too hide under relationship blablah.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by jaxxy(m): 4:46pm On Apr 14
What U described is not a Realationship it is a business arrangement or even a Scam. More like an escort service. Money for company/companionship or relationship... I can’t call that a relationship and it never feels like a relationship nor does it have the characteristics of a real relationship.

A real relationship is built on the right yardsticks, and values after knowing each other that translates or transforms into love or Smtn close.


There is Smtn called contentment in relationships. Be happy with who u choose unless u did not really choose that person or they lied to u or deceived u. There will always be sm1 better than ur partner and u don’t have to leave them because u want sm1 better that’s wrong, why not make ur partner a better person instead. It just means u will also leave that new person when u see sm1 else better aswell. That’s not a “Real”antionship.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by lordkrato(m): 4:46pm On Apr 14
The headline does not deserve such a basic-thought out article.

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by kendrick93(m): 4:46pm On Apr 14
Damn,
Ain't reading this
No time at all...
Someone should summarize
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by sammysmiles(m): 4:46pm On Apr 14
I think it's better for a man to focus on his financial life first before relationship...

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by shegzhkn: 4:46pm On Apr 14
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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by saphiere(f): 4:46pm On Apr 14
NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace. cool

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by NaijaMutant(f): 4:47pm On Apr 14
planetx13:


Or his dreams

Correction well noted.
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by prince2pac(m): 4:47pm On Apr 14
I don't even know what relationship feels like.. life killed my emotions and I don't really know how to show love... no sexual feelings... just live my life tryna be happy, make everyone around happy...

maybe one day I will have to experience it

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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by PCG001: 4:47pm On Apr 14
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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by PHPdeveloper200: 4:47pm On Apr 14
That is the world we find ourselves in. A relationship should be a conscious decision to stick with a person irrespective of the circumstances, not because she/he is the most beautiful or handsome you can ever find but because you have made a conscious decision to be together
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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by abobote: 4:47pm On Apr 14
Hh
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 14
uncircumcised generation!!
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by BarrElChapo(m): 4:48pm On Apr 14
I heard the Egyptian government seized the Evergreen vessel and is asking for $1billion in compensation lipsrsealed

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