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2cribz:
Easy with the lies bro.pls dont reply me

I understand your predicament bro. You can't see beyond your background.

Br quiet pauper. People wey get money no dey make noise. Go back to the matress u sleeping on.pauper

Whiteshield:
I understand your predicament bro. You can't see beyond your background.

ojuu4u:
Billing has nothing to do with rich or poor girls, it's just mentality/ideology.....any girl who doesn't have such mentality won't bill you.

I have dated couple of ladies who are poor or averagely ok, in which they don't use to ask money from me. Though, it doesn't stop me not to give them.

You are right. Billing isn't about being poor or rich , but the person's attitude towards life.
I know a very broke and struggling girl then who never asked me for a penny.
I just give her money as I deemed fit .

ednut1:
Yes they do: i remember when i used to give babes 10k-15k for hair. I con date rich babe . She bill me 180k for human hair. I ran for my life over 12 years ago 😂

Lol, that's how one local government chairman daughter did to my brother o, all him Street money Na d girl body e enter, picked 20k dolls one month e don finish, always billing him huge amount every weekend on frivolities till my brother give am belle. Still cared for her till after delivery, because of the baby she's scared of losing my brother now, that one nor even send am again, Na she come dey spend heavily on my brother now. Na so him ask her to touch the sky. They are over pampered by thier parents...money wey e for reach am build house, he spent it on her within a year, only a child came out of it, my brother was even Lucky. Men should understand women are generally hypergmous in nature. Rich girls want richer guys, as simple as that!

No they don't unless rich runs girls.

God no go allow us jam

Gbadugbakun:
Na dem de bill pass. And their billing no be 2k. It's always from 500k upwards. And it's usually for rubbish.

Baby I saw wig of 1m buy it for me as a gift. And the poor man would enter depression straight.

Whiteshield:
What is the lie there? What is special in my post?
Nothing.

Dont mind him. He simply cant conceive it. What a pity.

Rich, poor, ugly, beautiful, sexy, hookup, religious,

All women are same… they are want a man’s money!

2cribz:
Easy with ypur lies,

What’s the big deal about what he said ??

Na wa for some of you ooo

Na mentality.

Dated Oyinbo girls or Naija girls with Oyinbo mentality and na dem wan kee me with gifts...

Phone, Laptop, Perfume, Clothes, food...

I avoid broke girls or those with poverty mentality.

They are a curse!

Zee0007:
Do men who date rich get billed. If you have experienced one please can you let us know how it went or going.

They won't bill you directly like the broke ones but the things you will need to do to make them happy will cost you fortunes, that's the problem

AllBlack:
shey na one like that been dey bill BURNA for one LAMBO.

lol

That’s a provocative and popular question—and the short answer is: not necessarily. Whether a woman (rich or not) “bills” a man she’s dating depends more on character, values, and mindset than her bank account.

Do Rich Girls Bill Men?
Some do. Many don’t. Here’s why:

✅ Why Some Don’t Bill:
Financial Independence – Rich girls are often raised to value self-reliance. If she already has access to money, she may not feel the need to demand it from a partner.

Class & Upbringing – In many cases, wealth comes with a certain etiquette. Asking for money in a dating relationship might be seen as tacky or unnecessary.

Power Balance – Rich women often prefer relationships where they are not dependent. They may even be wary of men thinking they’re “buying” affection.

True Partnership – When someone is secure (emotionally and financially), they often seek emotional connection, not financial gain.

❌ Why Some Do Bill:
Entitlement Culture – Wealth doesn't automatically mean humility. Some use their status to justify high demands or expectations.

Testing Generosity – Some wealthy women still want to see effort from men—not because they need the money, but to test attention, commitment, or generosity.

Transactional Mindset – Some relationships (rich or poor) operate with an unspoken "you give, I give" logic.

Luxury Lifestyle Maintenance – If she’s used to a certain standard, she might expect you to keep up—even if she can fund it herself.

🔁 Now flip the script
Many middle-class or less wealthy women also bill men, and some rich men prefer to spoil their partners—it works both ways. So this isn’t really about wealth—it’s about relationship dynamics, personal expectations, and values.

In conclusion, rich girls don’t need your money. Whether they ask for it depends more on who they are as a person—not their bank balance. Want a healthy relationship? Look beyond the money talk. Focus on respect, communication, and mutual goals.

Zee0007:
Do men who date rich get billed. If you have experienced one please can you let us know how it went or going.

The only type of woman that will not bill you is a dead one...as long as she's still breathing billing must occur somehow. Billing no be bad thing as long as e no become habit.

Your story is valid—and it's one that many people can relate to. But let’s respectfully counter the generalizations and offer a broader, more balanced perspective:

🔁 One Story ≠ All Stories
What happened to your brother was unfortunate and emotionally (and financially) draining—but that doesn't mean all rich girls are the same or that hypergamy (the idea that women seek to “marry up”) is an absolute law.

Reality check: There are gold diggers in every social class. And there are kind, principled, generous women who come from wealthy homes and still value love, loyalty, and partnership—regardless of the man’s financial standing.

🔍 The Problem Isn’t Her Wealth—It’s the Character
The issue in your brother's story wasn’t that the girl was rich. It’s that she was:

Entitled

Irresponsible

Lacking in empathy

A woman from a humble background could do the same—drain him, disrespect him, and disappear. It happens every day.

What matters more than her background is:

Her values

Her upbringing

Her respect for others’ effort

💡 Men Also Need to Take Responsibility
It's also important to note that some men allow themselves to be used—trying to impress, overspending to please, or ignoring red flags. If a woman is consistently draining you and offering little in return, it’s not love—it’s exploitation.

That’s not a female thing. That’s a human weakness thing.

🧠 Hypergamy Isn’t Evil or Absolute
Yes, many women (just like men) are drawn to stability, ambition, and security. That’s not wrong—it’s biological and psychological. But hypergamy doesn’t always mean "money". It can mean:

Emotional intelligence

Vision

Drive

Leadership

A rich girl might still fall for a humble guy if he inspires her, respects her, and carries himself with confidence and clarity. It's happening every day—you just don't hear about it as much as the scandals.

🎯 Final Bullet:
Not all rich girls bill men.

Not all women are hypergamous to a toxic degree.

Men must be more discerning, not more defensive.

Let’s judge people by their character, not their class.

Honeydenz:
Lol, that's how one local government chairman daughter did to my brother o, all him Street money Na d girl body e enter, picked 20k dolls one month e don finish, always billing him huge amount every weekend on frivolities till my brother give am belle. Still cared for her till after delivery, Na so him ask her to touch the sky. They are over pampered by thier parents...money wey e for reach am build house, he spent it on her within a year, only a child came out of it, my brother was even Lucky. Men should understand women are generally hypergmous in nature. Rich girls want richer guys, as simple as that!

Eraddray:
Let the rich girls talk na...who are these people dropping comments

My brother you will wait till Jesus comes back


Rich girls don't bill directly, but the things you will do to make them happy will put a big hole in your pocket



All women, rich or poor believe their man should be spending on them or taking care of their needs for having access to their body, only very few ladies are exception but majority are like that.


Though some are reasonable with their billing while some are reckless and unreasonable with their billing and that's part of the reasons men do them chop and run.


Ladies should be reasonable with their financial demands from young men biko lolz.


And for guys that don't want ladies to bill them, just go for older ladies; they won't bill you, but so long as a girl is younger than you, whether she is rich or poor, she will bill you directly or indirectly because they will feel worthless if you don't spend on them while having access to their body lol

Highly unlikely
My woman never never never never billed me.
Resourceful men should focus on ladies with values

Greydebz:
lol…not always but yeah

Hanty, ha you hey rich girl ?

If yes please i want to date you biko.

Oyindamolah:
That’s a provocative and popular question—and the short answer is: not necessarily. Whether a woman (rich or not) “bills” a man she’s dating depends more on character, values, and mindset than her bank account.

Do Rich Girls Bill Men?
Some do. Many don’t. Here’s why:

✅ Why Some Don’t Bill:
Financial Independence – Rich girls are often raised to value self-reliance. If she already has access to money, she may not feel the need to demand it from a partner.

Class & Upbringing – In many cases, wealth comes with a certain etiquette. Asking for money in a dating relationship might be seen as tacky or unnecessary.

Power Balance – Rich women often prefer relationships where they are not dependent. They may even be wary of men thinking they’re “buying” affection.

True Partnership – When someone is secure (emotionally and financially), they often seek emotional connection, not financial gain.

❌ Why Some Do Bill:
Entitlement Culture – Wealth doesn't automatically mean humility. Some use their status to justify high demands or expectations.

Testing Generosity – Some wealthy women still want to see effort from men—not because they need the money, but to test attention, commitment, or generosity.

Transactional Mindset – Some relationships (rich or poor) operate with an unspoken "you give, I give" logic.

Luxury Lifestyle Maintenance – If she’s used to a certain standard, she might expect you to keep up—even if she can fund it herself.

🔁 Now flip the script
Many middle-class or less wealthy women also bill men, and some rich men prefer to spoil their partners—it works both ways. So this isn’t really about wealth—it’s about relationship dynamics, personal expectations, and values.

In conclusion, rich girls don’t need your money. Whether they ask for it depends more on who they are as a person—not their bank balance. Want a healthy relationship? Look beyond the money talk. Focus on respect, communication, and mutual goals.

Omorr Una worry oh, na this small question na it you bring ChatGPT.
Which rich girl dun bill ChatGPT before? Lol

Zee0007:
Do men who date rich get billed. If you have experienced one please can you let us know how it went or going.

Women will always expect their men to be providers even when rich. Well, with my own experience dating well to do ladies, it wasn’t like billing but they place you on a certain level of expectation.

I have dated two very well to do ladies and two incidents stand out. One wanted to change her complete 4 tires brand new for her SUV and was telling me over and over, I could tell she was expecting me to step in and offer to buy them, but even me I don’t change all four tires at once unless official car.

Second one was in a tight fix and just casually ask if I had 2m in my account that she needed to make a payment and will pay back by weekend. I just laugh cos na so wahala dey start. I respect myself continue to date girls below my level oo, girls that their urgent need is 50k highest that I know I can leave for them.

Zee0007:
Do men who date rich get billed. If you have experienced one please can you let us know how it went or going.

Even if na Dangote pickin so far na Naija girl she go bill you

But wia una dey even see rich girls kwanu?

lightwind:
Hanty, ha you hey rich girl ?

If yes please i want to date you biko.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you don miss road

prophetfire:
You are right. Billing isn't about being poor or rich , but the person's attitude towards life.
I know a very broke and struggling girl then who never asked me for a penny.
I just give her money as I deemed fit .

Same thing I've been telling people. Billing is mentality. I've come across some low income girls that doesn't ask penny, unless I decided to send something and I've also come across some that has made it in their own way,,(have boutique and saloon and works in Oil and gas) but their tasking no be here oh.
Is more of contentment and satisfaction than being rich or poor

Dopeboy8701:
Na rich girls bill pass

lies. There are so many wanna be's rich girls. Every lady is claiming class they don't fit into, without the help of a man. Better open your eyes.

They d worst

2cribz:
Easy with the lies bro.pls dont reply me

Bro, just shut up...

Some of us don date girls wey dey do really really well for themselves and what he is saying is the truth

Any weyrey that has the gene in her Will always manifest... I tried one sometimes ago, her own na urgent ₦2M, that she has one biz or the other to tidy up, or she been get bank issue .. emi omo ogbon... Mo japa

I ask my oga for stuff now and then even when I can afford it. There's a sense of satisfaction or fulfilment that comes with you getting stuff from your man. However, I make sure I give back in another way, it's not good enough if it's one sided. It has to be mutual.