₦airaland Forum

JustcallmeFavou:
In some cases as a lady, you can buy the
garri, the groundnut, sugar, coconut, milk, cold water, and add fish ontop. Yet, an ungrateful man will still leave you when he becomes better. This goes both ways too!

JayEdm:
Som of us did all that,bought the garri,gave money,motivated , encouraged...basically everything. Guess what I got afterwards...." After all,I never forced you to help me"....just pray not to meet an ingrate who's also entitled.

Ofekongsk:
Mehn even if she helped you get on your feet, leave her so that she can go help another brother.

Dpsychologist:
Seems you a fan of Future

Dpsychologist:
Yen yen yen
In which cases... How many ladies have even done that

Mariangeles:
What was she gaining when the guy didn't have much to offer in the first place? Waste of time?



Thankfully, sensible ladies don't do that.
They just patiently wait for y'all to blow, then come for them, while they build themselves in the meantime.
And come for them, you all will eventually.
You have no choice.

Kudos to the ones that are holding fort though.

JayEdm:
I did all the above...was loyal,gave money,advice, everything I had. Would even share money people dashed me with him. I was so open. Helped him apply for jobs,talked to pple on his behalf,prayed for him etc...what did I get after he started seeing small cash (which is still as a result of my effort o). He said and I quote " I never forced you to help me". This life ,never help an ingrate who is also e titled.

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Dpsychologist:
Yen yen yen
In which cases... How many ladies have even done that

tunnyl:
What she meant was, “When so many peoples left you when you were drinking Garri i was there with you”

“When you were drinking Garri I could have gone to date other men and left you but i stayed, not to buy the Garri o but to watch you drink the garri and maybe drink out of it too.”

Women too get sense!

Helpout12345:
That was how one was telling me she was with me when I was living in a self contained apartment. The way I washed her d0wn eh, she never tried that rubbish with me again.

This was a lady that was homeless, pulling up with friends, was working a 10k naira monthly salary job, dating a market errand boy when I met her.

Me on the other hand had finished all my suffering. I had been working with number 1 oil company in the world for 6 months earning more than a university professor then, have travelled 2 times to Europe, I bought my first car same month I met her. The so called self contained was a first class apartment.

Mariangeles:
And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather support, than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

dkidd:
I hope U know there's a whole lot to gain from someone asides material things...

Speaking of those waiting for guys to blow lol.. I even prefer not to be indebted to anyone woman cos Una wahala na premium. You will never rest from the "I made U who U are" just because she managed to come through a few times forgetting all U have done for her too. But then if she's worth it like she doesn't remind me at the slightest or tries to take advantage of my lowly situation at the time, any man will move mountains for that woman who really sacrificed for him and believed in him when no one did .

Mariangeles:
What was she gaining when the guy didn't have much to offer in the first place? Waste of time?

Thankfully, sensible ladies don't do that.
They just patiently wait for y'all to blow, then come for them, while they build themselves in the meantime.
And come for them, you all will eventually.
You have no choice.

Kudos to the ones that are holding fort though.

maasoap:
They don't understand that majority of the men don't forget.

dkidd:
Never

Mistersolar:
wait ooo, you married for sex even if shes illetrate, dirty and insulting

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

Mariangeles:
And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather support, than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

dkidd:
At all... If ur eyes are truly open U will see the real reason and motive behind her staying there. She was definitely gaining a lot but U probably didn't know what it was. Most women are users and will use U even when U are at Ur lowest and some of us men think they're being loyal staying when no one else was available lol baba check am well the real reason for her staying isn't to ur benefit but hers

JustcallmeFavou:
Yen, yen, yen, unless you want to pretend that there are no such women.

Well, such good women still do exist, but are rare.

maasoap:
Some of them could really smell potentials in men which they themselves are lacking. All what they need to do is to patiently wait for few years to see you transform. It is a prediction game

FORWARDEVERLY:
Hope you didn't marry her ?? Or you are not dating her anylonger ??
Cos that girl na better manipulator o

Mariangeles:
And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather support, than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsuTlts rain on me.

africandictator:
They gave you their Nigerian kpekus when you were broke. Hahahaha that's the garri they bought

Helpout12345:
You see their mentality. They cannot do zero of what they expect from a man.

You are asking if she is the man's mother?? But you expect men to carry all your liabilities in life. Is he your father too

And NO, IT IS MEN THAT ARE BECOMING WISER. Women have been users of men from time immemorial.

Dpsychologist:
But you expect a man to bring down the world for you.

You can't even handle what you dish out. Double standards

DixseenMktPlace:
You have a point ❤️
Personally I’m not comfortable with my woman bringing what we shall eat or drink to the table.

Na knacks I marry you for, if children come during the knacks it’s fine but no disappoint for the knacks wey I marry you for.