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In this honest and emotional video, we explore why so many men feel love fading after marriage. From emotional disconnect to lack of respect, constant nagging, unmet expectations, and financial pressure—men are silently suffering, and few are talking about it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JyFKGuSPH60

💔 Is it the woman's fault? The man's fault? Or is marriage simply not built for modern times?
This video dives into the real reasons why love dies in marriages and why many men begin to feel like strangers in their own homes.

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The pleasure of the kill is in the chase.

See finish is part of the reason. Imagine ur partner thay u have to dress well nd put nice perfume b4 u go see. After marriage u will end up using the toilet in his/her presence nd the whole room will be smelling.

True love can't die.
I think the best answer is that couples change or tend to care less about their looks and the opinions of their better half.

A quiet, loving lady you 'chased' while single turned to nagging and abusive wife after marriage.. won't the man lose interest?

Same way a caring man that turned abusive and disrespectful to his wife after marriage will cause the lady to lose interest.

Love doesn’t die. Love is a DECISION.
What bothers me is that 90% of the responses on various topics are extremely shallow.
I always try to give a thoughtful, quality answer.

Now, back to the topic.
There is infatuation, and there is love.
You fall into infatuation easily and spontaneously. But infatuation doesn’t last long. It’s intense, full of passion, but it’s not love.
Infatuation lasts about three years. After that, it fades on its own. And then comes either the end—or love.

Love is a conscious decision to care for someone, to respect them, to take responsibility for them.
That’s why love doesn’t have an end—until the moment you decide you no longer want to love the person next to you. That they no longer deserve your love, your attention, your care, your tenderness.

That’s it.



(Written by a white man.)

Marriage is not a bed of roses! It has its roses and thorns, this generation lacks wisdom and that's why the divorce cases are high.

Who get time for marriage

Marriage is not a bed of roses, but it was a bed of roses when you people were dating and fuckin, now you got married automatically it ain't a bed of roses anymore confused generations

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goran3310:
Love doesn’t die. Love is a DECISION.
What bothers me is that 90% of the responses on various topics are extremely shallow.
I always try to give a thoughtful, quality answer.

Now, back to the topic.
There is infatuation, and there is love.
You fall into infatuation easily and spontaneously. But infatuation doesn’t last long. It’s intense, full of passion, but it’s not love.
Infatuation lasts about three years. After that, it fades on its own. And then comes either the end—or love.

Love is a conscious decision to care for someone, to respect them, to take responsibility for them.
That’s why love doesn’t have an end—until the moment you decide you no longer want to love the person next to you. That they no longer deserve your love, your attention, your care, your tenderness.

That’s it.



(Written by a white man.)

Jibberish.


Romantic love is a fallacy because true love have no reason or condition.


True love is unconventional but all romantic love come with some conditions.


That woman you fell romantically in love with, was it not because she is physically attractive to you? Was it not because of something about her; her looks, character, demeanor, personality? Those are conditions and once those conditions change, your so called love changes too, that is why romantic love is a fallacy.


The only true love is the love between a mother and her child, it comes with no conditions.


Every other love humans claim for each other is condition based and therefore can change when the conditions changes or disappears

Interest wanes after the big conquest...

Tot I would be tired of marriage but my eyes just dey see many things..

Love dies after marriage because the two couples ,changes focus.

The man is now aware that he needs to feed the family, the woman suddenly realize that the kids needs her more than the man.

franchasng:
Jibberish.


Romantic love is a fallacy because true love have no reason or condition.


True love is unconventional but all romantic love come with some conditions.


That woman you fell romantically in love with, was it not because she is physically attractive to you? Was it not because of something about her; her looks, character, demeanor, personality? Those are conditions and once those conditions change, your so called love changes too, that is why romantic love is a fallacy.


The only true love is the love between a mother and her child, it comes with no conditions.


Every other love humans claim for each other is condition based and therefore can change when the conditions changes or disappears

So, a man loses an arm or a leg in a car accident and the woman stops loving him? A man gets sick and the woman stops loving him? A woman gets old and the man stops loving her? A woman gains weight after three pregnancies and the man stops loving her?
Interesting.

goran3310:
So, a man loses an arm or a leg in a car accident and the woman stops loving him? A man gets sick and the woman stops loving him? A woman gets old and the man stops loving her? A woman gains weight after three pregnancies and the man stops loving her?
Interesting.

I don't want to believe you didn't know all this before

thesicilian:
The pleasure of the kill is in the chase.

For a playboy.


Not for a man who wants stability.

Mariangeles:
For a playboy.


Not for a man who wants stability.

Yeah, you're not wrong though