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Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house then i replied her that it's good. So i went to work and after some time my mind was telling to close earlier than usual and I closed from work and headed home. Immediately I got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then I quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and I told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now I got to find out through my niece who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay, so as it is nobody from her family knows she has left my house. Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating that I've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

oga both of your stories no clear jare

But still seun will move it to frontpage for his own selfishness

Get her parents involved immediately. She is still under your care let nothing untoward happen to her or you will explain tire.

It's unfortunate thing to deal with these modern day women. You did the right thing fam

KnowledgePower7:
It's unfortunate thing to deal with these modern day women. You did the right thing fam

bad advise

If the wife is being killed by armed men

The OP go explain tire

Is the wife not under his care

olawaleatanda:
oga both of your stories no clear jare

But still seun will move it to frontpage for his own selfishness

Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

olawaleatanda:
bad advise

If the wife is being killed by armed men

The OP go explain tire

Is the wife not under his care

Wrong
If anything happens to her
It is her cousin that will be responsible.

For her and her cousin to conspire and not tell their parents the truth. So if anything happens
Op will say she travelled to her Cousin place🤷

It is not Op job to call her parents
It is her job to inform her parents but She decided to not inform them. .

What is she hiding from them.
I won't be surprised if her side guy start visiting her in her cousin place.
More room and space for them to Tatatata.

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Please call her family ( especially her parents) to intimate them she's no longer in your place. Change the keys to the apartment and don't accept her back no matter the pleading from family members.

We rise by lifting others

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Inform her people she is no longer with you.

KnowledgePower7:
Wrong
If anything happens to her
It is her cousin that will be responsible.

For her and her cousin to conspire and not tell their parents the truth. So if anything happens
Op will say she travelled to her Cousin place🤷

It is not Op job to call her parents
It is her job to inform her parents but She decided to not inform them. .

What is she hiding from them.
I won't be surprised if her side guy start visiting her in her cousin place.
More room and space for them to Tatatata.

You got it wrong, the Op should call the parents immediately and tell them she's no longer in his house( she's with her cousin).


We rise by lifting others

AkhereOkaka:
You got it wrong, the Op should call the parents immediately and tell them she's no longer in his house( she's with her cousin).


We rise by lifting others

Op should call her elder ones. Not her parents

OP is very calm guy. If na me I go call Channels, Arise, Got,CNN,BBC,aljezera, NTA with all their microphones. I will tell the whole world how she cheated and ran away from my house without telling her parents.

By the time I finish
Her parents Phone will be buzzing with missed calls from their neighbors, family friends and church members. They will discover the hard way.

Op don't call her parents.
Highest you can do is call her elder siblings and inform them she ran away to her cousin.
They will decide to tell their parents themselves

You don't have marital experience. The OP should immediately inform the woman's parents that their daughter has left his house.

KnowledgePower7:
Wrong
If anything happens to her
It is her cousin that will be responsible.

For her and her cousin to conspire and not tell their parents the truth. So if anything happens
Op will say she travelled to her Cousin place🤷

It is not Op job to call her parents
It is her job to inform her parents but She decided to not inform them. .

What is she hiding from them.
I won't be surprised if her side guy start visiting her in her cousin place.
More room and space for them to Tatatata.

KnowledgePower7:
Op should call her elder ones. Not her parents

OP is very calm guy. If na me I go call Channels, Arise, Got,CNN,BBC,aljezera, NTA with all their microphones. I will tell the whole world how she cheated and ran away from my house without telling her parents.

By the time I finish
Her parents Phone will be buzzing with missed calls from their neighbors, family friends and church members. They will discover the hard way.

Op don't call her parents.
Highest you can do is call her elder siblings and inform them she ran away to her cousin.
They will decide to tell their parents themselves

keep shut brr

You don't know anything about marriage

Let the married man on this forum advise him

I see her coming back to beg. It's a lie, she has no money to rent an apartment, why pack food stuffs from the house?

When hunger wire her she will return.

But the choice is yours bro!

She just told you that she was even planning to rent an apartment and that she has money just to spite you but in reality she doesn't have any money bro... She is most definitely coming back, trust me. When reality dawn on her. Hmmmm. No matter what never take her back.

Okeytech:
Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

It is better for you to inform her family that she has left your house cos if anything happens to her where she is they will accuse of using her for money-making ritual or something

KnowledgePower7:
Op should call her elder ones. Not her parents

OP is very calm guy. If na me I go call Channels, Arise, Got,CNN,BBC,aljezera, NTA with all their microphones. I will tell the whole world how she cheated and ran away from my house without telling her parents.

By the time I finish
Her parents Phone will be buzzing with missed calls from their neighbors, family friends and church members. They will discover the hard way.

Op don't call her parents.
Highest you can do is call her elder siblings and inform them she ran away to her cousin.
They will decide to tell their parents themselves

Was it the older siblings that handed the lady over to him in marriage?

Cheating wife.........


Once a good wife has gone bad, she is gone forever.......

Try and retrieve the brideprice you paid on her.......cos you ve not been talking about it

OP can you please give a brief description of your wife let me be sure she's not one of my married girlfriends

Okeytech:
Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

You need sanity? yet you are coming to Nairaland to discuss your family issues.

Without be told you are the reason for the problem in your home, since you are not man enough to keep your business in the family but looking for public support against your wife.

Hopez456:
I see her coming back to beg. It's a lie, she has no money to rent an apartment, why pack food stuffs from the house?

When hunger wire her she will return.

But the choice is yours bro!

Don't worry about her, there is plenty of food for her to eat in my house

The issue with your wife is, she doesn't have that home training, there she misses it.

Let her parents know that you guys are no longer together and she has left your house.


Because she is still under your care, if anything happens to her they won't listen to this your story.

Again if something happens to her her cousin might deny the fact she came to her place. And the blame will be pushed to you.

Since you only heard and not verified.

Last thing don't take her back, she will come but don't. It will only mess your life if you do

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Your maid will tell you more about your wife 🤷🏿, no b kill Jesus, stay on guard.

Okeytech:
Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

Don't take her back 📌
Don't take her back 📌
Don't take her back 📌
Don't take her back 📌

@ overdrive 's comment makes sense

Kindly follow

No be wife you marry o.
First go do DNA for those your kids..

I hope you won't be fullish to take her back later,cux I know she will come begging when reality is dond on her.

She will at some point want to use the kids to manipulate you,no fall again o. Cux one day she might just decide to add rat poison to eliminate you,so that she can continue her cheating adventure. Be careful.... I repeat ,be careful

Glory to God! Inform her family that she had left your house to avoid another story.

Oga leave all this things and move on.
Be human, be a Christian, be Divine.

Life is just life. Let people enjoy the deep part of themselves.
Forgive and stay alone. Or stay with them still, and completely forgive. Completely!
Life is life. Life is complex
!

olawaleatanda:
bad advise

If the wife is being killed by armed men

The OP go explain tire

Is the wife not under his care

As women are children or what? When she was going to get her Toto pounded, she didn’t remember she’s under someone’s care?

You people want to treat women as children and adult at the same time

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Call her people and let them know she has moved out.