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Should we tell him? Ok those kids are definitely not yours they belong to her ex

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

I hope you are not Odafe360 That fellow used this same pattern of yours to gather pity party and launched a scam campaign afterwards.

Nice 👍 one from you, God bless you richly,is your house help looking good.

Courtesy demands U call her people to inform them of the new development and that Ur decision is firm.

Do a DNA test on all the kids

Do a general health check on urself

Near God very well.

Never take her back no matter what

You will make it

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Baba right step in the right direction but you have not done anything.

Call her parents that you're coming with your people to collect your money back (it's just a scare tactics) since your daughter is now with them.

InLaw she's not here ooo ok call her because of anything happens to her it's her and her cousin I know she's staying with her.

This will help you lift a full burden off your shoulder

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

you did not handle it well. You should not have told her to pack her things. You should have told her that you people are going home to see her people. When you reach there, you tell her your decision and tell her parents that you have brought back their daughter. Leave her there.
Then go back to your base and pack her things by yourself and send to her.

olawaleatanda:
bad advise

If the wife is being killed by armed men

The OP go explain tire

Is the wife not under his care

sorry abeg u go first explain wetin the man wan explain make I fit understand your point.

Juliearth:
I hope you are not Odafe360 That fellow used this same pattern of yours to gather pity party and launched a scam campaign afterwards.

did Odafe360 scam you

If yes I think he's the OP

osazsky:
Should we tell him? Ok those kids are definitely not yours they belong to her ex

definitely you might his wife ex

To be continued later

Okeytech:
Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

You need sanity and you married a Nigerian woman?

olawaleatanda:
did Odafe360 scam you

If yes I think he's the OP

Please stop dragging or mixing my person with another. Did you see anything related to scam in my post? I'm a well known web designer. Please if you don't have anything meaningful to comment then you move.

Okeytech:
Please stop dragging or mixing my person with another. Did you see anything related to scam in my post? I'm a well known web designer. Please if you don't have anything meaningful to comment then you move.

well known web designer on which platform

Have anyone on nairaland work with you before

Kobicove:
It is better for you to inform her family that she has left your house cos if anything happens to her where she is they will accuse of using her for money-making ritual or something

You're right but how about making a police report about her leaving so that I'll be on a safe side?

Okeytech:
You're right but how about making a police report about her leaving so that I'll be on a safe side?

My candid advise is even if you wanna make a police report, make sure you call her parent first because even if you go to report to the police they'll still ask if you've informed her parent and if you say no, they'll still advise or force you to inform her parent because that's the right thing to do...Shalom!!!

Meektunz:
My candid advise is even if you wanna make a police report, make sure you call her parent first because even if you go to report to the police they'll still ask if you've informed her parent and if you say no, they'll still advise or force you to inform her parent because that's the right thing to do...Shalom!!!

Thanks alot, I really appreciate your advise.

Juliearth:
I hope you are not Odafe360 That fellow used this same pattern of yours to gather pity party and launched a scam campaign afterwards.

Oga or Madam, I don't know if it's a man or a woman behind this account but did you see anything related to scam in my post? Many of you have succeeded in making the internet so toxic for people to even express themselves.

Instead of OP to rush do DNA test, him dey drag spaghetti and palm Oil

KnowledgePower7:
Wrong
If anything happens to her
It is her cousin that will be responsible.

For her and her cousin to conspire and not tell their parents the truth. So if anything happens
Op will say she travelled to her Cousin place🤷

It is not Op job to call her parents
It is her job to inform her parents but She decided to not inform them. .

What is she hiding from them.
I won't be surprised if her side guy start visiting her in her cousin place.
More room and space for them to Tatatata.

Don't mind that boy who is playing hard like a man!

What if her parent is dead, would the man go to their grave to resurrect them so that he can report their daughter to them?

As long as her elders or sibling who are more older than her are aware of her misconduct, then the guy has nothing to fear again. I would advice that he report the entire incidence to the police as "report" and have audio record of all the conversations just to be on the safe side tomorrow.

Striking the body will put you in debt to the person you struck. She has had as many experiences perhaps as you and even if not some may have been superior. You are now due to striking her----you are of the same righteousness as her. Plus you may have damaged her. You wronged the state. Righteousness doesn't need you to help it alongs

Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Bro make it official for security purposes.. call her parents and let them know her whereabouts..

When you got married her parents handover to you! Not her cousins! So respect them and call them now

This OP is dumb beyond belief!

So, you told a Naija woman to pack her stuff in your absence? To make matters worse, you didn't inform her parents and family members that she had left your house? You're really naive!

It's like you don't have anything going well for you in life. What if she goes missing? How would you explain it if her people demand to see their daughter? All these kids of nowadays always dicing with danger thinking it's "hardness". E be like sey you never sleep for prison before.

To further show your naivety, you even fell for the temptation of fighting a woman who has nothing to lose. She would have killed you or herself in the process. I pity you!

You asked her to pack out before you return from work? Werey even gave ultimatum. You're lucky she didn't destroy all the things you have in that house. Try that nonsense with my wife and she'll burn your certificates, land and car documents or even clothes. Las las, she go tell you sey na devil.

In summary, never understimate the daughters of Eve, they will destroy your life and shed crocodile tears afterwards. If you're ever going to divorce your wife, do it with caution & wisdom so that you wouldn't be burned in the process.

#My_Two_Cents

Okeytech:
Oga or Madam, I don't know if it's a man or a woman behind this account but did you see anything related to scam in my post? Many of you have succeeded in making the internet so toxic for people to even express themselves.

You seem triggered. All I did was ask a harmless question.

Okeytech:
Please what is not clear in what I posted before and now? Please if you don't believe me it's okay. Right now i need sanity please.

call her parents and inform them of the latest developments immediately. No do like say you dey beg sha o

KillahPriest:
call her parents and inform them of the latest developments immediately. No do like say you dey beg sha o

thank you, I'll try to do that since most comments suggest so

ravensckar:
This OP is dumb beyond belief!

So, you told a Naija woman to pack her stuff in your absence? To make matters worse, you didn't inform her parents and family members that she had left your house? You're really naive!

It's like you don't have anything going well for you in life. What if she goes missing? How would you explain it if her people demand to see their daughter? All these kids of nowadays always dicing with danger thinking it's "hardness". E be like sey you never sleep for prison before.

To further show your naivety, you even fell for the temptation of fighting a woman who has nothing to lose. She would have killed you or herself in the process. I pity you!

You asked her to pack out before you return from work? Werey even gave ultimatum. You're lucky she didn't destroy all the things you have in that house. Try that nonsense with my wife and she'll burn your certificates, land and car documents or even clothes. Las las, she go tell you sey na devil.

In summary, never understimate the daughters of Eve, they will destroy your life and shed crocodile tears afterwards. If you're ever going to divorce your wife, do it with caution & wisdom so that you wouldn't be burned in the process.

#My_Two_Cents

I fought her because you needed to see the way she jacked me, tore my native wear and slapped me. Thank God i came back before she left, she would have gone with alot of my properties.

dkidd:
Courtesy demands U call her people to inform them of the new development and that Ur decision is firm.

Do a DNA test on all the kids

Do a general health check on urself

Near God very well.

Never take her back no matter what

You will make it

I really appreciate this alot... I'll do as stated

ravensckar:
This OP is dumb beyond belief!

So, you told a Naija woman to pack her stuff in your absence? To make matters worse, you didn't inform her parents and family members that she had left your house? You're really naive!

It's like you don't have anything going well for you in life. What if she goes missing? How would you explain it if her people demand to see their daughter? All these kids of nowadays always dicing with danger thinking it's "hardness". E be like sey you never sleep for prison before.

To further show your naivety, you even fell for the temptation of fighting a woman who has nothing to lose. She would have killed you or herself in the process. I pity you!

You asked her to pack out before you return from work? Werey even gave ultimatum. You're lucky she didn't destroy all the things you have in that house. Try that nonsense with my wife and she'll burn your certificates, land and car documents or even clothes. Las las, she go tell you sey na devil.

In summary, never understimate the daughters of Eve, they will destroy your life and shed crocodile tears afterwards. If you're ever going to divorce your wife, do it with caution & wisdom so that you wouldn't be burned in the process.

#My_Two_Cents

I guess you are not with your wife?
I guess you are not with your wife?

overdrive:
Get her parents involved immediately. She is still under your care let nothing untoward happen to her or you will explain tire.

Okeytech please heed to this advise to avoid stories that touches

Hopez456:
I see her coming back to beg. It's a lie, she has no money to rent an apartment, why pack food stuffs from the house?

When hunger wire her she will return.

But the choice is yours bro!

Meektunz:
She just told you that she was even planning to rent an apartment and that she has money just to spite you but in reality she doesn't have any money bro... She is most definitely coming back, trust me. When reality dawn on her. Hmmmm. No matter what never take her back.

hahahaha very true.


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