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Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by davidtemi(m): 8:50pm On Jun 18, 2025
For u to know that then u actually know what you are doing. No be by car alone, your own dey your body ni. Na ego
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by ednut1(m): 8:50pm On Jun 18, 2025
Women and double standards ehn. I see why most civilizations refused to empower women. Once they touch small money they become Hypergamous
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by hardelehye14: 8:50pm On Jun 18, 2025
dermmy:
Don't worry you will see a man without a car in Shiloh soon.
No be meme at all
May we not jam agbako
grin grin grin
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by bluefilm: 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2025
What kind of nonsense statement is that?

Anyways, I blame men who are always willing to upgrade these women

It goes to show that when a man makes money, he looks for a woman to help but when a woman makes money, she starts saying that she doesn't need a man
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by BRATISLAVA: 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2025
advanceDNA:
so what will happen after marriage and the guy loses his job and doesn't have a car anymore....?? She should leave naaa....and go marry her standard..... Y'all just base standard on temporary superficial nonsens£...that's why marriages don't last more than 2 minutes these days
When you talk about women being liabilities or being hypergamous, why don't you ever see this type of scenario? Why do you say women have nothing to offer, yet you can make all manner of excuses for men who have nothing to offer, and sound like women need to accommodate what men loudly condemn all over social spaces?

Misogyny and fantasy about scenarios that never will happen!
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by BreakingNews21: 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2025
My fave NL 'Pretty Lady' of all time. cheesy


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Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by thesicilian: 8:53pm On Jun 18, 2025
If you check well now it's either a man that really bought her that car or she got it through her OS transactions with men
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by silibaba: 8:53pm On Jun 18, 2025
suckprick:
If only men can return this energy, more than 90% of ladies will remain single. Nonsense and ingredient.
How many men dey marry again?

When last you see *just wedded*?
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by icon91(m): 8:58pm On Jun 18, 2025
It's not your fault, that's how nature wired females, to look for mates higher & better than her in almost all fields of life, that's why females mainly date up & males mostly date down

This is your natural hard wired HYPERGAMOUS nature kicking in, the sad reality you'll face is the more wealth you amass as a single lady, the narrower your dating circle meaning you'll keep looking for men higher & better than you & men in that range mostly want to date down too naturally

Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by correctyourself(m): 8:58pm On Jun 18, 2025
From understanding about this lady she's being truthful, open, have sense of humor and been realistic.

What she needs is somebody with humility and doesn't really bother about what the lady has, with obvious opportunities to upgrade any moment. Can as well convince her that what we has is for both us while moving the relationship forward.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by CHAQUR: 8:58pm On Jun 18, 2025
Las las... Na two options you go get.
1. Either your mechanic start repairing you & your car or
2. A man with no personal car but with access to many cars...eg. A fake car dealer boy, one big man's driver, or another man driving his wife or friend's car. I just feel like say e no go end well. Keep praying...!
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by valentineuwakwe(m): 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2025
Wen you reach 45yrs na never marry
.then you go drop the car begin go prayer houses for husband cheesy


For now enjoy the car, na your husband for now be that oo
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Elusive001: 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2025
advanceDNA:
so what will happen after marriage and the guy loses his job and doesn't have a car anymore....?? She should leave naaa....and go marry her standard..... Y'all just base standard on temporary superficial nonsens£...that's why marriages don't last more than 2 minutes these days
While, I agree with you completely, some folks do not worth the time. Folks like the one you just dissected with this your response.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2025
suckprick:
If only men can return this energy, more than 90% of ladies will remain single. Nonsense and ingredient.
Nobody is stopping you guys.

ednut1:
Women and double standards ehn. I see why most civilizations refused to empower women. Once they touch small money they become Hypergamous
I fail to see double standards. Men marry down for youthfulness, submissiveness and ego. Not like they are nice people.🙌

You don't need to refuse to empower women. Money is out there to be made by everyone. Men are not God, thankfully.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by JetApartment: 9:00pm On Jun 18, 2025
Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/
I came to check the Pretty lady the op said said this, only to be dissappointed. op need glasses.

Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Bluffly: 9:02pm On Jun 18, 2025
Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/
So because you have a car you cannot hop public transport. Shaking my head. Average person forming lord luggard
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by adams123: 9:02pm On Jun 18, 2025
Where's your boy friend before you bought the car?
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pansophist(m):
Car is even too much.

Me I have an iphone 16 pro max and cant date a girl that doesnt use at least an iphone 12
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jun 18, 2025
suckprick:
If only men can return this energy, more than 90% of ladies will remain single. Nonsense and ingredient.
I like it when ladies make such post even though her car isn't really a big deal.

Man will go from the 10th floor all the way down to the ground floor to look for a wife meanwhile a lady sees a little car she own as a big flex
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by ednut1(m): 9:04pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Nobody ia stopping you guys.



I fail to see double standards. Men marry down for youthfulness, submissiveness and ego. Not like they are nice people.🙌

You don't need to refuse to empower women. Money is out there to be made by everyone. Men are not God, thankfully.
🤔 why is my mind telling me you are the lady in the article lol.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 9:05pm On Jun 18, 2025
ediko5:
I like it when ladies make such post even though her car isn't really a big deal.

Man will go from the 10th floor all the way down to the ground floor to look for a wife meanwhile a lady sees a little car she own as a big flex
Nobody sent men message.
They do it for reasons we all know.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by benardtotti(m): 9:05pm On Jun 18, 2025
Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/
Don't worry dear , you will park that car in Shiloh pretty soon to ask God for a man who will help you drive that car as your husband 😉
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2025
ednut1:
🤔 why is my mind telling me you are the lady in the article lol.
I am not the lady and even if I am, I am entitled to my opinion. If a man typed that, you won't call it hypergamy.

benardtotti:
Don't worry dear , you will park that car in Shiloh pretty soon to ask God for a man who will help you drive that car as your husband 😉
The reasoning of men women are to submit to.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by OnyeObowo1: 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2025
columbus007:
This is so and very simple, once you ready to settle down? You marry your car that's it. Since you are beginning to be to obsessed with it.
See as she rise like local made rice from abakiliki. Who go accept extra luggage
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pansophist(m): 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2025
Car is a status thing in Nigeria, not a necessity.

The first babe I dated had a car and I didn't have one. It never occurred to us that me not having a car was an obstacle.

This is just wrong.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Ouchbabe(f): 9:07pm On Jun 18, 2025
TBT if I were a man, I won't be comfortable dating a lady with a car while I'm a legedizbenz.
My ego will be bruised. We are Africans. A man should be at the front while her woman follows behind
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