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Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says - Romance (4) - Nairaland

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Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 9:53pm On Jun 18, 2025
babat89:
Daft Nigerian women.

I have been with few oyinbo girls and they don't care!
Marry the oyinbo women.
I wonder why you "have been" with them.
When you should still be with one.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by fabuloz1(m): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2025
McLizbae:
I don't think that is abnormal or the lady is abnormal. As a man, one of the fine ways to provide a necessary comfort to your lady is to drive her in your car if you have one. But siting beside her when she drives her own car is somehow not dignifying.

I think it's okay for a woman to potentially dignity her future man by setting standards, and setting them at her level or above hers.
So what if men return the energy back? Settling high level standards for themselves. These ladies won't survive
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Manculated: 9:59pm On Jun 18, 2025
babat89:
Daft Nigerian women.

I have been with few oyinbo girls and they don't care!

One of them even drove me more than 4hrs to go pack some of my things to my new house.

...and it doesn't have to be oyinbo girls alone.
My last Nigerian girlfriend, although she grew up abroad was earning 5times my salary when we met.
Get driver and chef sef...

Did she care how much I earned?
Nope!

Same me wey no get car that year, now get 2.

Anyway, most Nigerians are still bottom of the Maslow heirachy of need, so they still have poverty stricken mindsets.
Chief, Kindly tune down the volume of your JBL Speaker. It's too loud.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Adonko(m): 9:59pm On Jun 18, 2025
yemmit90:
It is normal for women not to go below their standard, it is never their fault but the way nature made it to be.

Women regarded men as head and superior beings that ought to protect them.
I see we are the only ones that is fit to compromise or without standard..Men should be anything goes...its your lot that make ladies feel entitled thinking they are the price.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Advancedman(m): 10:01pm On Jun 18, 2025
Cabu cabu owner should be good for you.
Or at least keke rider
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by meobizy(m): 10:01pm On Jun 18, 2025
Who cares?

Not enough original content? Lol.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by ShoeMarket: 10:02pm On Jun 18, 2025
Not a big issue, just make sure you are dating your car.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by advanceDNA:
yemmit90:
It is normal for women not to go below their standard, it is never their fault but the way nature made it to be.

Women regarded men as head and superior beings that ought to protect them.
Nature ddnt make anything......some pple are just greedy pple, who see marriage as a means to live bills free at the expense of another person....
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by jojothaiv(m): 10:07pm On Jun 18, 2025
I don't have a car, I'm not a real and intentional man so she win.

Next case please.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by advanceDNA: 10:15pm On Jun 18, 2025
BRATISLAVA:
Seems the new settings have rubbished your one letter response. So, whatever, k.
Guy.....what are u driving at exactly..... Earlier you mentioned me on what I never said ......you are here again saying another thing...

as in...is everything okay with you??
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by aribisala0(m): 10:19pm On Jun 18, 2025
pansophist:
Car is even too much.

Me I have an iphone 16 pro mac and cant date a girl that doesnt use at least an iphone 12
Where did you buy a ProMac? I have never heard of that one
Date is too far
Personally I cannot even talk to anyone that is not calling me with a ProMax 19 If you call me with any other phone my phone will just block you
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by feedthenation(m): 10:26pm On Jun 18, 2025
---Emotional reasoning over an immaterial item---relationship is more important than a vehicle---
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by benardtotti(m): 10:26pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
I am not the lady and even if I am, I am entitled to my opinion. If a man typed that, you won't call it hypergamy.



The reasoning of men women are to submit to.
You may not like it , you can defend your gender all you want ,but the honest truth is there is a reason thousands of ladies above 30 are single and it has nothing to do with a man trying to dominate the woman or seeking validation through her submission. This particular lady in this Op is a valid candidate for shiloh ,
When I was young I had a parish pastor in rccg who always declined praying for single ladies , instead he will ask them to leave their sentiments aside and give the young men around them an opportunity to prove themselves without any terms and conditions, I saw his strategy work several times , he had the least number of single ladies in that parish during his tenure .
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Prince1759(m): 10:27pm On Jun 18, 2025
Las las you go marry that car when men stop to dey reason you. Misplaced priority people dem.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 10:32pm On Jun 18, 2025
benardtotti:
You may not like it , you can defend your gender all you want ,but the honest truth is there is a reason thousands of ladies above 30 are single and it has nothing to do with a man trying to dominate the woman or seeking validation through her submission. This particular lady in this Op is a valid candidate for shiloh ,
When I was young I had a parish pastor in rccg who always declined praying for single ladies , instead he will ask them to leave their sentiments aside and give the young men around them an opportunity to prove themselves without any terms and conditions, I saw his strategy work several times , he had the least number of single ladies in that parish during his tenure .
Leave chochocho, Have you married any of the ones without a car?
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by benardtotti(m): 10:37pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Leave chochocho, Have you married any of the ones without a car?
My babe doesn't have a car yet and we doing just fine .
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by yemmit90: 10:37pm On Jun 18, 2025
harjay1986:
The same women you mentioned here want the same equality to men
Women knows that men are far more superior with leadership quality in their subconscious minds, they only demand equality when they notice you are not capable enough. Being an head in the family is more than just to be a provider. Your dynamism, courage and ability to command goes a long way to put women in their place.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by cardoctor(m): 10:41pm On Jun 18, 2025
If you come buy house nko what will you do?
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 10:41pm On Jun 18, 2025
benardtotti:
My babe doesn't have a car yet and we doing just fine .
In a nutshell you are yet to marry her despite not having a car?
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by benardtotti(m): 10:45pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
In a nutshell you are yet to marry her despite not having a car?
We are getting married December, been out of the country for over a year.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Rybnyk(m): 10:47pm On Jun 18, 2025
Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/
🙄The word "pretty" has been over bastardised...
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by yemmit90: 10:49pm On Jun 18, 2025
Adonko:
I see we are the only ones that is fit to compromise or without standard..Men should be anything goes...its your lot that make ladies feel entitled thinking they are the price.
You are getting it all wrong, men are actually the price that women are afraid not to have in their lives.

Women by nature are more inclined towards getting a biggest price to themselves. An average natural woman knows she is biologically inferior to male, hence, she want protection, in which she can only guarantee through men that are above her league.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
Nobody sent men message.
They do it for reasons we all know.
I'm yet the know the reason they do that.
The only reason I can think of is that those men have inferiority complex and low self esteem.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Majesty33(m): 10:50pm On Jun 18, 2025
To be candid, a lady with this kind of shape is a no no for me. I wouldn't even say hello as I detest ladies with this kind of shape undecided
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 10:51pm On Jun 18, 2025
benardtotti:
We are getting married December, been out of the country for over a year.
Okay, until December she is just like the lady in this post. Single...🤝
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 10:52pm On Jun 18, 2025
ediko5:
I'm yet the know the reason they do that.
The only reason I can think of is that those men have inferiority complex and low self esteem.
No man marries a broke woman because of inferiority complex and low selfesteem and I am sure you know that.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Ofekongsk(m): 10:53pm On Jun 18, 2025
But before you buy car, na guys wey get car dey give you lift make you no Waka from one hook-up to another under sun
Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Emeskhalifa(m): 11:28pm On Jun 18, 2025
columbus007:
This is so and very simple, once you ready to settle down? You marry your car that's it. Since you are beginning to be to obsessed with it.
As a man, shame no go catch you to go dey date woman wey get car while u don't have one?

She will be driving, and u will be sitting beside her??
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jun 18, 2025
pocohantas:
No man marries a broke woman because of inferiority complex and low selfesteem and I am sure you know that.
Nope, that's the major reason.

I know where you're heading (they marry broke women so they can control 'em).
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by Chief2410: 11:48pm On Jun 18, 2025
That is female nature for you. They don't date below,know this and know peace. Men should also set similar standard.
Re: Since I Bought A Car, I Find It Hard Dating A Man Without Car:Nigerian Lady Says by pocohantas(f): 11:48pm On Jun 18, 2025
ediko5:
Nope, that's the major reason.

I know where you're heading (they marry broke women so they can control 'em).
It is not the major reason. Men have been veey clear on why they marry these women.
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