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As a guy there are times when you feel so horney and want to knack ur babe.
But she will decline and give excuse.
This happened to me recently.

Anytime I want sex, she declines
Or she brings up one flimsy excuse.
To the point I most time go toilet go soapy.

Now it happened last night.
This time it was her
She was all in the mood, I was angry cuz of a deal that went wrong.
So I declined her sex that night.
The first time I have declined her sex.

Do you know this girl vex like say I steal all her money. See vex!!
She literally pounce on me and was forcefully kissing me as I kept telling her to stop.
I then pushed her off, told her No Sex. She kept quiet till morning.

She left my place by 11am and since then she refuse to reply my texts on WhatsApp.

This is a woman that if I ask for sex
She will shut it down immediately
And will only agree if she is mood
Many times she refuse me sex and I didn't make a scene or cause problem.
Now I decline her sex for first time
She acting as if I broke up with her
No longer replying my messages

Why are these women so greedy

Sometimes I try to understand what kind of creature women are??

She see nothing wrong with denying me sex.
But the moment I deny her sex
Everywhere go burst. WW3 go start.

U deny me puna U dey smile
I deny you back. You wan die.
Wahala for who no understand women

men get confused when they take take too seriously a creature the gods made solely for help and pleasure.

Women DON'T LOVE, they LOVE HOW YOU LOVE THEM...... they calculate differently and choose men they can manipulate easily, if they can't manipulate you, they'll call you toxic or narcissistic.

So relax, its not worth your stress, remove your focus from her and continue making your life work.

She'll either be back or you will get someone who truly values you.

ChizzyBuna:
Sometimes I try to understand what kind of creature women are??

She see nothing wrong with denying me sex.
But the moment I deny her sex
Everywhere go burst. WW3 go start.

U deny me puna U dey smile
I deny you back. You wan die.
Wahala for who no understand women

Ok, let's analyze. If she agrees to sex, while you're doing it is when she'll finally get aroused, then after all that trouble she probably won't climax because most times they don't, plus you'll traumatize her insides and she could possibly catch an infection from bacteria being pushed in, plus mess up her hair and make-up, plus she could get pregnant, etc. While you, all you do is stick your dick in, have your fun and climax. That's it. Women are slow to get in the mood so when she's already in the mood, maybe she's already near climax, you ought accommodate her.
So you see, it's not equal. She has a right to be angry if you refuse even once just as you have a right to be angry if she refuses too many times!

If you no Bleep , you no go die, wonder why even the devil himself don't have a girlfriend, those creatures are something else,that's why Dem dey bleed blood without accident

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Just let her go op,she doesn't deserve you

Just give her space and if she want to go let her go, Don't fall for her manipulation

Most women are so full of themselves they think they are this goddesses because of the attention men give them so whenever a man act in a way that say they are not the shit, It hurt their ego a lot and they find it hard to accept.

Most women have low self esteem and inferiority complex the only way they combat it is by over inflating their value, ego and self esteem but it also make rejection a bigger blow to them.

Always know her mood before asking for sex.

[just have it in mind that 90% of women can't take what they dish out,

ChizzyBuna:
As a guy there are times when you feel so horney and want to knack ur babe.
But she will decline and give excuse.
This happened to me recently.

Anytime I want sex, she declines
Or she brings up one flimsy excuse.
To the point I most time go toilet go soapy.

Now it happened last night.
This time it was her
She was all in the mood, I was angry cuz of a deal that went wrong.
So I declined her sex that night.
The first time I have declined her sex.

Do you know this girl vex like say I steal all her money. See vex!!
She literally pounce on me and was forcefully kissing me as I kept telling her to stop.
I then pushed her off, told her No Sex. She kept quiet till morning.

She left my place by 11am and since then she refuse to reply my texts on WhatsApp.

This is a woman that if I ask for sex
She will shut it down immediately
And will only agree if she is mood
Many times she refuse me sex and I didn't make a scene or cause problem.
Now I decline her sex for first time
She acting as if I broke up with her
No longer replying my messages

Why are these women so greedy

She's your babe try talk to her and try to limit sex if she's not your fiancee or wife... If she should continue to do so try test her and if you don't you can handle it you can tell her to move on.

FreeIgboho:
Ok, let's analyze. If she agrees to sex, while you're doing it is when she'll finally get aroused, then after all that trouble she probably won't climax because most times they don't, plus you'll traumatize her insides and she could possibly catch an infection from bacteria being pushed in, plus mess up her hair and make-up, plus she could get pregnant, etc. While you, all you do is stick your dick in, have your fun and climax. That's it. Women are slow to get in the mood so when she's already in the mood, maybe she's already near climax, you ought accommodate her.
So you see, it's not equal. She has a right to be angry if you refuse even once just as you have a right to be angry if she refuses too many times!

so me I don't have right to be angry too. Abeg keep it shut. U don't know what you're saying

Jozilinn:
She's your babe try talk to her and try to limit sex if she's not your fiancee or wife... If she should continue to do so try test her and if you don't you can handle it you can tell her to move on.

Very dumb advice. Nope. Try again harder next time

Don't mind her, break up with her for your sanity, she wants to manipulate you.

Love800:
Always know her mood before asking for sex.

Why doesn't she know my own mood before sex?

Couldn't she see that I was angry and not in the mood. Yet she force herself on me... I don't blame you bloody simps. Na me come ask una for advice. What sort of rubbish advice is this??

Person say e wan knack
She say NOOOO. I move jejely
E reach her turn
I say NOOO. She wan tear me apart.

Does this double standard make any sense to you simps with your yeye advice??

kakaaa77:
[just have it in mind that 90% of women can't take what they dish out,

And people expect me tolerate this disgusting behaviour??
Just look at the simps telling me to sit her down and talk bla bla bla.

blackpanthar:
men get confused when they take take too seriously a creature the gods made solely for help and pleasure.

Women DON'T LOVE, they LOVE HOW YOU LOVE THEM...... they calculate differently and choose men they can manipulate easily, if they can't manipulate you, they'll call you toxic or narcissistic.

So relax, its not worth your stress, remove your focus from her and continue making your life work.

She'll either be back or you will get someone who truly values you.

Do you know how humiliating it feels to beg your babe for Sex??
And she refuse.

But when she horney she go just grab me like that and start kissing and doing all stuff and expect me to leave everything I'm doing to focus on her. Very selfish creatures

Oga na 50/50. If you do me, I go do you why you come dey vex?

ChizzyBuna:
so me I don't have right to be angry too. Abeg keep it shut. U don't know what you're saying

Did you read? I said you have a right to be angry if she says "I have a headache" too many times.
Sometimes put yourself in the other person's shoes. Say you just chilling, minding your business, then a woman comes and gets you aroused to have sex then messes you up inside and quickly climaxes and stops just when you're getting into it. It'd have been better for you if she left you alone. Remember, sex happens inside the woman unlike the man

Jozilinn:
She's your babe try talk to her and try to limit sex if she's not your fiancee or wife... If she should continue to do so try test her and if you don't you can handle it you can tell her to move on.

So you think you will have more sex with your wife or fiancee? and that because it's your wife or fiancee that's what will make your entitled to sex from women? You are naive

GoodSpirit:
So you think you will have more sex with your wife or fiancee? and that because it's your wife or fiancee that's what will make your entitled to sex from women? You are naive

it is usually the ones with zero experience in marriage that will come and be giving advice like guru
That guy fit be one jss2 student with his android giving advice on NL like someone with 40 years marriage experience.

Baronthecelebri:
Don't mind her, break up with her for your sanity, she wants to manipulate you.

. why be say for nairaland everything na just break up?. Una no fit give advice wey no be break up. Most everything be break up with her?. So, some matter like this na make him walk away because she kill person or she cheat .......shmmm

I don't give sexual intimacy advice to unmarried people because it's simply a waste of time. Get married and I'll have better advice to give you. Until then, collect whatever they give you. There are no rules to the situationship.

Two of you fornicating now can decide to fornicate with the next person now out of anger or horniness, they have no rules to their desires as they are not strong enough to be in committed relationships that have rules and regulations.

ChizzyBuna:
As a guy there are times when you feel so horney and want to knack ur babe.
But she will decline and give excuse.
This happened to me recently.

Anytime I want sex, she declines
Or she brings up one flimsy excuse.
To the point I most time go toilet go soapy.

Now it happened last night.
This time it was her
She was all in the mood, I was angry cuz of a deal that went wrong.
So I declined her sex that night.
The first time I have declined her sex.

Do you know this girl vex like say I steal all her money. See vex!!
She literally pounce on me and was forcefully kissing me as I kept telling her to stop.
I then pushed her off, told her No Sex. She kept quiet till morning.

She left my place by 11am and since then she refuse to reply my texts on WhatsApp.

This is a woman that if I ask for sex
She will shut it down immediately
And will only agree if she is mood
Many times she refuse me sex and I didn't make a scene or cause problem.
Now I decline her sex for first time
She acting as if I broke up with her
No longer replying my messages

Why are these women so greedy

Guy dont be a simp because of sex, you are the one that should tell her to come, open, turn, raise etc....not the other way round.....



I can never ever be in such relationship...cos i Order not beg them

You need to be smart as a man.

Is not everytime you burst out your emotions!

Women are never straight and they do these things subconsciously in other to test you.

You just need to be calm when addressing these things!

Na you sabi. Na my best advice be dat!

ChizzyBuna:
Why doesn't she know my own mood before sex?

Couldn't she see that I was angry and not in the mood. Yet she force herself on me... I don't blame you bloody simps. Na me come ask una for advice. What sort of rubbish advice is this??

Person say e wan knack
She say NOOOO. I move jejely
E reach her turn
I say NOOO. She wan tear me apart.

Does this double standard make any sense to you simps with your yeye advice??

She felt the rejection and didn't like it.

Her weapon (controlling access to sex) was turned on her and she couldn't handle it.

Don't beg.

To multiply the effect, stop asking her for sex starting immediately.

Observe what happens.

ChizzyBuna:
As a guy there are times when you feel so horney and want to knack ur babe.
But she will decline and give excuse.
This happened to me recently.

Anytime I want sex, she declines
Or she brings up one flimsy excuse.
To the point I most time go toilet go soapy.

Now it happened last night.
This time it was her
She was all in the mood, I was angry cuz of a deal that went wrong.
So I declined her sex that night.
The first time I have declined her sex.

Do you know this girl vex like say I steal all her money. See vex!!
She literally pounce on me and was forcefully kissing me as I kept telling her to stop.
I then pushed her off, told her No Sex. She kept quiet till morning.

She left my place by 11am and since then she refuse to reply my texts on WhatsApp.

This is a woman that if I ask for sex
She will shut it down immediately
And will only agree if she is mood
Many times she refuse me sex and I didn't make a scene or cause problem.
Now I decline her sex for first time
She acting as if I broke up with her
No longer replying my messages

Why are these women so greedy

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Once a man can control himself from getting sex, he gains control.

When a man can control himself from giving sex, game over!

Sex is power to most ladies, so when a man outrightly rejects them, they doubt themselves.


No

lowkeybahdguy:
............. Man is an animal and thus, must fulfill his animal desires and responsibility.

What a way to reason!

Iamsane:
Keywords right here... Getting sex, giving sex. Madt o.

You're wise