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19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by geoworldedu: 5:57pm On Jun 20, 2025
So what should we do about it? Should we fry shiit? undecided
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by tiswell(m): 6:00pm On Jun 20, 2025
pocohantas:
She doesn't seem impressed.
The thrill of the "marriage" is long gone.
knowing the drill and yet single is a theory yet unravelled sad
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by advanceDNA: 6:01pm On Jun 20, 2025
Avedonn:
If she's truly a muslim, those 3 children are illegitimate and they can't inherit anything from their father.
You are human first before religionist....

U seff...think....how does religion nullify their right to their father's things... U for kukuma say he's not their father
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by being(m): 6:03pm On Jun 20, 2025
5 years! For what? Just get married already..
A problem is guys dont know that men are different from women on these emotional matters. Due to this, it is quite unfair to keep a lady in courtship for 5 whole yrs except u guys are still in ur early 20s!
Dzzzz:
Congratulations and jubilations to you..I and my babe still Dey 5yrs courtship and she Dey complain say,I fit go marry another person😂..To be honest na still her I go marry..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by gloryman91(m): 6:04pm On Jun 20, 2025
This is not Nikkah just Walimah(Party to feed and entertain guests).

Married already.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by pocohantas(f): 6:04pm On Jun 20, 2025
tiswell:
knowing the drill and yet single is a theory yet unravelled sad
Assuming you know such about a stranger who you cannot pick out of a crowd is denseness, bro.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Babangidapikin: 6:06pm On Jun 20, 2025
She is looking beautiful... Oya husband should pay dowry before that becomes another issue, it is funny women keep records of stuffs like this ...
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 6:12pm On Jun 20, 2025
being:
5 years! For what? Just get married already..
A problem is guys dont know that men are different from women on these emotional matters. Due to this, it is quite unfair to keep a lady in courtship for 5 whole yrs except u guys are still in ur early 20s!
Where was it written,that it’s bad to court for 5yrs?..In all things just pray for a happy marriage..I’ve seen courtship of 2months and marriage going over 10yrs and the other was courtship of 4yrs and marriage ending in just 1yr..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by id4sho(m): 6:13pm On Jun 20, 2025
Dzzzz:
Congratulations and jubilations to you..I and my babe still Dey 5yrs courtship and she Dey complain say,I fit go marry another person😂..To be honest na still her I go marry..
My own left oOoOO, married to someone else
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Greattha: 6:16pm On Jun 20, 2025
Kilodehuh Ntori Olorun. Na wa o. 19 years

DyshApp:
A Nigerian woman celebrates as she finally marries her partner after 19 years of courtship and 13 years living together with 3 children.

The woman @teekay_babe shared a video from their Nikkah wedding ceremony, which took place a month ago, making their union official before family and friends.

She expressed her excitement, saying that netizens shouldn’t act selfishly, but they should congratulate her.

Despite her husband not paying her a dowry, the caption claims that she and her husband dated for 19 years and lived together as husband and wife for 13 of those years.

Their 13 years of living together produced three children.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Proserpina: 6:19pm On Jun 20, 2025
God decided to make it official bawo?

Angel Michael you still get that horsewhip? undecided
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 6:26pm On Jun 20, 2025
Yetttymama:
God or you decided to make it official??
Abi.... the Christian God dey bless so many things wey the same Christian mouths dey also claim say him no dey allow. 😏
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by flexyrule(m): 6:27pm On Jun 20, 2025
Inside that 19 years, I know of a couple that went to Dubai to do a talk-of-the-town wedding that didn't last 3 years.

Plus many other unions that didn't last even 5 years.

Which of the two situations would she prefer?
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by harbarzzy(m): 6:36pm On Jun 20, 2025
DyshApp:
A Nigerian woman celebrates as she finally marries her partner after 19 years of courtship and 13 years living together with 3 children.

The woman @teekay_babe shared a video from their Nikkah wedding ceremony, which took place a month ago, making their union official before family and friends.

She expressed her excitement, saying that netizens shouldn’t act selfishly, but they should congratulate her.

Despite her husband not paying her a dowry, the caption claims that she and her husband dated for 19 years and lived together as husband and wife for 13 of those years.

Their 13 years of living together produced three children.
and some official already collapsed in a week.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by UniQue84: 6:38pm On Jun 20, 2025
Dzzzz:
Congratulations and jubilations to you..I and my babe still Dey 5yrs courtship and she Dey complain say,I fit go marry another person😂..To be honest na still her I go marry..
Guy kindly go and do the needful ..Engineering degree is 5years ...or let her go abeg somethings are better not said.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Ahmeduana(m): 6:40pm On Jun 20, 2025
By fire by force, TIPA TIKUKU TI MUMINI FI KIRA FUN SÀNGÓ! grin
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by UniQue84: 6:47pm On Jun 20, 2025
RevenuesBoost:
Congrats to them

Not everyone share same fate.

The ceremony isn't the real deal, living together is
No I disagree is not about ceremony is about making it legitimate...pay the bride price. Ceremony is secondary. In the Eyes of the lord they were just committing fornication.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On Jun 20, 2025
UniQue84:
➜No I disagree is not about ceremony is about making it legitimate...pay the bride price. Ceremony is secondary. In the Eyes of the lord they were just committing fornication.
So, the same lord has now transitioned them over to no longer committing fornication, abi? 😂😂😂😂😂
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by VaginaAcademic: 6:54pm On Jun 20, 2025
This kind relationship the day dem do wedding problems go start sometimes the wedding ceremony is a curse for some people especially those in Hollywood.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by UniQue84: 6:55pm On Jun 20, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So, the same lord has now transitioned them over to no longer committing fornication, abi? 😂😂😂😂😂
Do you think bride price is just physical...well I won't say much cos maybe you have limited knowledge about these things....even in the eyes of the law the man can be charged with kidnapping if something happens to that lady because no marital rites was done. You never see anything.
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Rochasstatue(f): 6:59pm On Jun 20, 2025
The real Frank Obasohan and Mirabel Ekong😀
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 6:59pm On Jun 20, 2025
UniQue84:
Guy kindly go and do the needful ..Engineering degree is 5years ...or let her go abeg somethings are better not said.
I fit give am to you..Bro one thing you don’t do,is to tell someone how to live his or her life..You should have asked for some key details but you didn’t do that bro..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by UniQue84: 7:01pm On Jun 20, 2025
Dzzzz:
I fit give am to you..Bro one thing you don’t do,is to tell someone how to live his or her life..You should have asked for some key details but you didn’t do that bro..
my bad ...I take responsibility, am sorry bro
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 7:02pm On Jun 20, 2025
id4sho:
My own left oOoOO, married to someone else
Baba nobody Dey hold anyone…Nobody go ginger person about marriage..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 7:03pm On Jun 20, 2025
UniQue84:
my bad ...I take responsibility, am sorry bro
No wahala..Even without that sef if na 10yrs then she can make her own decision..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 7:05pm On Jun 20, 2025
UniQue84:
my bad ...I take responsibility, am sorry bro
i understand your point but marriage to me,is an institution you don’t graduate from but you see this GenZ girls them wahala too much..
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Ashirioluwa: 7:11pm On Jun 20, 2025
How old was the lady when they started dating? The lady must be underage when this man started dating her
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by omooba969(m): 7:11pm On Jun 20, 2025
This is the kind of marriage that truly deserves a marriage certificate, not all those fraudulent ones where inexperienced couples are issued with the certificate before venturing into marriage. grin

This woman here is tried and tested. grin
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kingzjayzee: 7:15pm On Jun 20, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
..... grin grin grin grin............. grin grin grin grin........... grin grin grin grin...........
why yu dey open teeth na? But the matter take style funny sha
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kingzjayzee: 7:18pm On Jun 20, 2025
brain54:
It's called blessed marriage...

It's not uncommon. I know people that did this.

After many grown up kids and living together!
but why is it like that na. Abi na based on trust abi na based on say money no dey ni abi na I decisiveness?
Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by bukatyne(f): 7:20pm On Jun 20, 2025
32 years of relation/situationship/'what are we'?

I wonder how old they are now.

Congratulations to them.
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