19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children - Romance (3) - Nairaland
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| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by thorpido(m): 7:23pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
What is God's concern with God decided to make it official? They decided to live together outside of God and now bringing God into it. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Belurved1(m): 7:40pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
The woman don deliver, so husband self don confirm before wedding. No more story and fear. Or what else do you think the man want again? |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by SAMBARRY: 7:45pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
pocohantas:how will she feel impressed after she gave herself out without making the man put a ring on it 1st.i am sure she go don beg and pressurised the man taya before this could even happen Na wetin pickmesha eye dey see be that A man hasn't officially made you his wife you're living in his house to the extent of popping out children for him.make them continue doing pickmesha dey go |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Belurved1(m): 7:48pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
O kay o. Oga do quick o, so that she can get rest of mind o. Na everyday she dey calculate o, only you can activate the countdown botton. Dzzzz: |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Offpoint1: 7:49pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Dzzzz:I wish most people could be like us wey dey stick to one bae forever 😂 All these people breaking up yearly dem dey try |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Offpoint1: 7:53pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Ishilove:Una just dey use that nonsense word "Cohabiting"... Natural marriage has happened the day both people consented to be together and their both families accepted them. Bride price is a crime against nature |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Starz825(m): 8:02pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
DeAnonymousGuy:You don't have any right to slam them You don't...no matter how holy you are |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 8:03pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
UniQue84:What nonsensical gobbledegook of a retort is this for Pete's sake? 😩😩😩😩 |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 8:04pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Starz825:na una way.... with one side, una go claim he dey holy, but the next, drag him under with the unholy.... Christianity ehn! ![]() |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 8:11pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Belurved1:Baba I no run and if she run then no wahala..We Dey together.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 8:13pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Offpoint1:Baba na so ooo..My friend done marry 2 ladies within 4yrs.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Talismann: 8:35pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Akinboboz:bride price na 1metre minimum for south-south and south-east girls now. Dey play |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by lexy2014: 8:39pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
pocohantas:Are you mistaking wedding for marriage? they have done very well having kids and being together this long. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by BiGVEEN58(m): 8:41pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Marriage is a dumb concept... It shouldn't come first in your relationship with someone. It comes last. Kindness and respect comes first amongst other traits. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Ex0rrcist: 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Dzzzz:Same here too, 6 years and some months. My own no even complain say I go marry another person, she' just keep reminding about our wedding. And nah she I go marry too. I love her so much. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Ex0rrcist: 9:18pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Offpoint1:I swear bro, having 1 is tá kí g enough not to talk of having 2-3 women. I no get that kain strength abeg, |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Lamanii22(f): 9:46pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
brain54:This is how mine would be too, would walk the aisle after my kids are grown |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Bimpe29(m): 9:51pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
13 years of illegal relationship eventually translated into legal relationship. Allahu Samad! Happy married life. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Vision101(m): 9:57pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fully tested before payment. The man is sure and the woman is sure. End of discussion. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Mosco100(m): 9:57pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Congrats to them; the days of sin and shame are ended, and now are they in honour. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by brain54(m): 10:00pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Lamanii22:Lol your kids would form the bridal train... But why would you want that. You are female right? |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Belurved1(m): 10:38pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
I said 'no problem' but if they want problem then I'll reply them 'no problem' 50cent Dzzzz: |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 10:42pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Bimpe29:Cohabitaton is not illegal even in Nigeria! ![]() |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by DeAnonymousGuy(m): 10:56pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Starz825:I never said i was holy or holier than them. Neither was i slamming them. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 11:53pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Ex0rrcist:Baba courtship no get expiry date..Many rush enter marriage and then rush come outside.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 11:55pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Dzzzz:You never see couples wey cohabit/court for over 20 years only to go their separate ways not long after that? Abi, you wan do courtship until death? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 11:58pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Baba na only that one you see?..You know see others wey court and wed under 1yr and they separated just months after marriage?..As e Dey for negative naso e Dey for positive.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kobojunkie: 12:03am On Jun 21, 2025 |
Dzzzz:I see both the ones who court for 3 months and the ones who court for 25 years before eventually going their separate ways. Yeah, they are all over the place, meaning it does not matter the length of the courtship at all... something you have been dizzyingly attempting to argue for a while there. ![]() 2. Length of marriage does not depend on the length of the courtship... that's how it is. This couple wey dey celebrate today fit split up tomorrow. Na so e dey take happen. If you are so afraid of divorce, may I suggest you completely avoid marriage altogether then. ![]() |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 12:13am On Jun 21, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Who Dey argue anything with you bros…What I’m saying is life has its ups and downs..Why I go argue with you?..Abi na you wan ordain my marriage?..Alaye if you like court or no marry that one na anybody business.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Danielomisco(m): 12:56am On Jun 21, 2025 |
Now if them carry one person piikin gv u for the 3 you go vex sey women |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by dontrulee: 1:05am On Jun 21, 2025 |
The girl I'm currently cohabiting with made this suggestion. I met her a virgin, she's extremely loyal, willing to bear my kids, doesn't want a fanciful wedding, not the fashionista type, feminine and dutiful. Infact, she's already doing wife duties without me marrying her yet and she claims she loves me so much. We've been together for a year now. The funny thing is I don't really feel a thing for her, I've made her understand that I can't marry her and one of the reasons is that she attends white garment church and she's extremely territorial. But overall she's a good person. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by GenFunction: 3:30am On Jun 21, 2025 |
LagosG:lol. Seun abeg na this ur 40 character mark na gbese o |
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