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Lately I've been seeing a lot videos of women being interviewed and the sort of audacity these women have are somewhat disturbing. A woman saying she can't date a man earning 500k per month , another one said if a man doesn't have up to ten million in his account he has no business with dating a woman , different takes , Why

Well its cause of low self esteem men that don't have any game. These sorts of men are very terrible at approaching women , they don't think they can attract a woman without giving her money or gifts. You would hear things like "Baby send me your account number let me appreciate your beauty" lmaoo. Your just a fool with money.

Now most Nigerian girls are playing along , they understand the game now , some are so shockingly entitled cause they think every man has low self esteem. A friend of mine asked a lady out the other day and she demanded for money to get a dress , Uber money as well. Lmaooo and the fool gave her money for those things. Tell me why she wouldn't see him as just another ATM card
Low self esteem, zero self respect , no sense of reasoning at all. Why should a romantic relationship be transactional ??

I have dated girls that never asked a dime from me and I still didn't find them perfect or worthy enough to be with. So why are most Nigerian Men filled with so much low self esteem or no sense of self worth

You can't toast a woman with confidence and persuade her with your words or charm , all you know how to do is toast her with money and then when she starts billing you back to back you starts complaining that Nigerian girls too like money...
Funny thing is ,some guys would even go and buy a car just to impress a girl that's still jumping okada up and down lmaooo , no self worth at all . Whyyy ?

The dating pool in Nigeria is a big mess rn , thanks to the Nigerian Men with low self esteem and zero sense of self worth. You want to date a girl now , you would hear advice such as just make money bros , just make money yen yen yen , then after you finish making the money girls would start to chase you , lol it's gold diggers chasing you , you dimwit.

You too as man think about it nau , don't you want a woman that can spend on you ? Don't you want a woman that buys gifts for you even without any special occasion involved?? , don't you want those kind of women The kind of women that loves you for you , not your money , Don't you want that ? No Its gold diggers you want instead, women that only care about your money , they don't even care if your dying , sha be giving them money....... And you call that love lmaoooo.

A man cannot even give his fellow man money or render help but if it's a woman they would go to the moon and back for her. I see the other tribe sending girls to school hoping they would marry her eventually lmaoooo. (Laughs in disappointment). Zero self esteem.

If this thread teaches you anything today it's for you to start having a sense of self worth again , approach women without trying to impress them with money or gifts. Approach women like a real man should and stop making the dating pool a mess.

Thank you.

How do you say you're a bum without actually saying you're a bum?

I'm against any kind of simping, but at the same time, I'm also against someone pretending to be a player when he can't even afford ice cream.

They'll start blaming Nigerian women for something they're known for globally; renting the affections of ol*shos . If you need quick cash just simply look for some Nigerian with a bit of cash and talk badly about your men and praise Nigerian men and you'll get cash Sametime; the easiest men to fool and put under your control with lies and cheap ego stroking .

Would you blame the ladies. You are actually right about the low self esteem. Some people can't impress ladies without money which got some of them spoilt and when they are broke, that's the end

goran3310:
How do you say you're a bum without actually saying you're a bum?

I'm against any kind of simping, but at the same time, I'm also against someone pretending to be a player when he can't even afford ice cream.

Cry me a river and when your done send me your account details for a lil ice cream.
Fr tho

helinues:
Would you blame the ladies. You are actually right about the low self esteem. Some people can't impress ladies without money which got some of them spoilt and when they are broke, that's the end

Honestly, that's the only reason the dating pool is a mess rn ,naija low self esteemed men has ruined the dating scene fr.

Lionessza6:
They'll start blaming Nigerian women for something they're known for globally; renting the affections of ol*shos . If you need quick cash just simply look for some Nigerian with a bit of cash and talk badly about your men and praise Nigerian men and you'll get cash Sametime; the easiest men to fool and put under your control with lies and cheap ego stroking .

After spending lavishly on girls , and the girls finally dump their ass , they would now come here and be crying useless tears.
As if they weren't the ones that started attracting them with money in the first place.
Lmaooooooo

Lionessza6:
They'll start blaming Nigerian women for something they're known for globally; renting the affections of ol*shos . If you need quick cash just simply look for some Nigerian with a bit of cash and talk badly about your men and praise Nigerian men and you'll get cash Sametime; the easiest men to fool and put under your control with lies and cheap ego stroking .

What has your rants got to do with topic under discussion?

Nnamdipapa:
What has your rants got to do with topic under discussion?

Inferiority complex, the need to be loved and appreciated by strangers , thinking that money buys loyalty ,love and commitment.


Those are characteristics associated with people who can't get women to like them without opening their wallets first . A simply conversation is impossible without mentioning their imagined billionaire status

Your blessings will be unlimited.
You’ve just expressed every thought in my mind.
Your understanding is truly remarkable.
Your brain operates on an Einstein level when it comes to relationships.
You have a rare gift for putting feelings into words.
Thank you for sharing such deep wisdom.

Lionessza6:
Inferiority complex, the need to be loved and appreciated by strangers , thinking that money buys loyalty ,love and commitment.


Those are characteristics associated with people who can't get women to like them without opening their wallets first . A simply conversation is impossible without mentioning their imagined billionaire status

why come on nairaland and talk bad of naija guys is dis right focus on ur country and live us alone

jaksmillioniar:
why come on nairaland and talk bad of naija guys is dis right focus on ur country and live us alone

You're still alive ? . The Herdsmen are incompetent I swear

I'm here searching for a billionaire to *take care of me*.....are you still available?

Lionessza6:
Inferiority complex, the need to be loved and appreciated by strangers , thinking that money buys loyalty ,love and commitment.


Those are characteristics associated with people who can't get women to like them without opening their wallets first . A simply conversation is impossible without mentioning their imagined billionaire status

What is the population of Nigerians in South Africa relative to the total population of Nigeria for you to arrive at this generalized conclusion about Nigerians and their men? Do you know the total population of Nigerians and Nigerian men? How many did you study to arrive at your conclusion?
I am curious to hear your response

The same girls talking rubbish here can’t even let their boyfriend rest for 1week without billing him..Nigerian girls are always hungry so why won’t a man without money avoid them?…My GF is not the demanding type but I still send to her just to keep her financially ok..

Lionessza6:


You're still alive ? . The Herdsmen are incompetent I swear

I'm here searching for a billionaire to *take care of me*.....are you still available?

You see!!..And you talking of low sef esteem men..You wey Dey find billionaire,how you expect broke man to toast you?

Nnamdipapa:
What is the population of Nigerians in South Africa relative to the total population of Nigeria for you to arrive at this generalized conclusion about Nigerians and their men? Do you know the total population of Nigerians and Nigerian men? How many did you study to arrive at your conclusion?
I am curious to hear your response

Oh!! Are you a Nigerian kicking against generalization from a South African? . Wonders shall never end. How many times have you ever asked the same questions from Nigerians when they lambast South Africans?
I'm curious if you practice objectivity across board or you expect it only where you're at the receiving end of insults and stereotypes

Wetin dey pain me be say this guys have no game in the other room.

Their own na to just toast the girl but can't satisfy her.

I'm currently working with a consultant in bayelsa and river state.

if you see how bayelsa men behave when they see women you go think say na film them dey act.

Them just get big gbola for nothing.

There’s too much poverty in the land,and anywhere poverty operates,everything becomes transactional…

What I’ve learnt is that,a woman that really wants uou won’t use money as leverage…
So I always go for women that wants to be with me,so I don’t end up paying for love

Lionessza6:


Oh!! Are you a Nigerian kicking against generalization from a South African? . Wonders shall never end. How many times have you ever asked the same questions from Nigerians when they lambast South Africans?
I'm curious if you practice objectivity across board or you expect it only where you're at the receiving end of insults and stereotypes

Now don't play the victim by try n'a turn the table. I am waiting for your answers to my questions.

kakaaa77:
Your blessings will be unlimited.
You’ve just expressed every thought in my mind.
Your understanding is truly remarkable.
Your brain operates on an Einstein level when it comes to relationships.
You have a rare gift for putting feelings into words.
Thank you for sharing such deep wisdom.

Amen brother.
And thank you for your kind words, it's an issue I've always wanted to express tbvh. I'm glad that you understand the message.