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I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

Coooloooo:
I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

you have never made any mistakes. Revive your finances and stand right. Meanwhile you can still be chatting with her

My guy , fixing your finances is a powerful step but love isn’t tied to your wallet.

Let’s be real: if she were truly better off financially, she wouldn’t be asking you for something as small as a data subscription. Don’t hustle just to impress! make moves for you, not to win approval. You deserve someone who wants you, not just what you provide.

The fact that you can’t offer a data plan shouldn’t ever make her question your love. If that’s a deal-breaker, maybe she’s in it for the gains, not the genuine connection.

Love yourself first ! Hustle for yourself !

harqinhola:
My guy , fixing your finances is a powerful step but love isn’t tied to your wallet.

Let’s be real: if she were truly better off financially, she wouldn’t be asking you for something as small as a data subscription. Don’t hustle just to impress! make moves for you, not to win approval. You deserve someone who wants you, not just what you provide.

The fact that you can’t offer a data plan shouldn’t ever make her question your love. If that’s a deal-breaker, maybe she’s in it for the gains, not the genuine connection.

Love yourself first ! Hustle for yourself !

Love yourself first! Hustle for yourself ! ..... Sharp

Coooloooo:
I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

I am happy for you that she left you. She doesn't deserve you. If a lady understands the man she's dating, it would be okay. You didn't make any mistake. A Rome wasn't built in a day. Success starts as a gradual process. Move on Bro and God will give you your own better half

Someone who can't understand or trust you when you are broke is not the right person for you

You shouldn't be feeling guilty about something you are sincere about

Na so. Tales by moonlight.

...............

Ur relationship didn't end cos u can't buy data.
Maybe u have a low self esteem or she never loved u.
When u see wife material, na she go even send u card

Coooloooo:
I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

You never had a girlfriend, you were catering for an orphan.

Your finance shouldn’t have anything to do with your love life except she is in for the money, if she is there is no difference between her and a prostitute you pay

harqinhola:
My guy , fixing your finances is a powerful step but love isn’t tied to your wallet.

Let’s be real: if she were truly better off financially, she wouldn’t be asking you for something as small as a data subscription. Don’t hustle just to impress! make moves for you, not to win approval. You deserve someone who wants you, not just what you provide.

The fact that you can’t offer a data plan shouldn’t ever make her question your love. If that’s a deal-breaker, maybe she’s in it for the gains, not the genuine connection.

Love yourself first ! Hustle for yourself !

Thank you for this.
I really appreciate this input.
I have been thinking. This lady actually comes across has a good Christian lady.
This has been what's making think if I had made a mistake in letting go of a good lady which is very rare in the world today

Coooloooo:
I love this girl seriously.

I have known her for years.
But we just got in relationship early this year.
It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.

I was really broke then.

She was already doubting if I loved her.
I actually do love

But I couldn't assist her.

Now the relationship has ended.

I am thinking I made a mistake

I need to make my finances better.

Coooloooo!! Wetin be your problem sev?

You get financial problem as you talk ham.. still dey do relationship join

Guy! You dey make mistake oo

You should have been patient before ending it

Ki11YurSev:
Coooloooo!! Wetin be your problem sev?

You get financial problem as you talk ham.. still dey do relationship join

Guy! You dey make mistake oo

Lol na big mistake him make.

Thats a red banner from the lady.

In Nigeria of TODAY, if you are broke to the extent of being unable to afford about 1k-2k or borrow it to subscribe data for a new girlfriend that make such demand for the first time, then you are not yet ready to have a girlfriend .
FIRST IMPRESSION LAST LONGER.

adelafe2019:
In Nigeria of TODAY, if you are broke to the extent of being unable to afford about 1k-2k or borrow it to subscribe data for a new girlfriend that make such demand for the first time, then you are not yet ready to have a girlfriend .
FIRST IMPRESSION LAST LONGER.

Hmmm. This lady in question can afford it.

She has millions in her savings

Hmmmm…
She was never into you as a prospective lover. Anybody can possibly be financially broke at anytime. It shows she didn’t see any quality more to you, than a meagre request of data at the start of a relationship. Then she concluded you can’t afford it, and ended the relationship.

There are more qualities to a man than what he can provide financially at the moment. She never saw any quality.

sabbiboi:
Hmmmm…
She was never into you as a prospective lover. Anybody can possibly be financially broke at anytime. It shows she didn’t see any quality more to you, than a meagre request of data at the start of a relationship. Then she concluded you can’t afford it, and ended the relationship.

There are more qualities to a man than what he can provide financially at the moment. She never saw any quality.

The girl in question actually made me get into her.

She practically asked me out herself.

And I don't know why I have now been feeling so heartbroken ever since

Have you heard this before?

Women are always in business, while men are in love.

Helpout12345:
Have you heard this before?

Women are always in business, while men are in love.

Hmmm... Never thought it's like this.
It really amazes me

Coooloooo:
Hmmm... Never thought it's like this.
It really amazes me

You are learning. We were all in that stage with women before we fully understood them and their nature.

Women cannot love any man apart from their biological son, brother and father. They love their biological son 100pct, their brother 60 to 70pct, their father 50pct. Any other man in this world, they cannot love him. They only follow you for what they can benefit.

Helpout12345:
You are learning. We were all in that stage with women before we fully understood them and their nature.

Women cannot love any man apart from their biological son, brother and father. They love their biological son 100pct, their brother 60 to 70pct, their father 50pct. Any other man in this world, they cannot love him. They only follow you for what they can benefit.

Well I have not had a good long lasting relationship with a woman

I would advise you call the lady and apologise to her