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Fekumzi123:
➜Don't you have a wife or girlfriend? Sponsor her business and come back and give us testimony

vision202020:
Can you give me the business idea if I can try it with my wife over here?

Tightpussy2024:
You asked if I will borrow him money if he asked.i said yes.

Love starts with attraction then blossoms into love.most men love start from sexual attraction and lust.so why shame me if my love started from attraction of his pocket?

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advanceDNA:
Haaaaaa!!!

As in....una be strong men oooo....how do you guys live with a person that clearly makes life more difficult than it is??

Kaido:
Living with a woman requires tolerating and patience.

The day a man gets married is the day he signs up for sweet wahala 😁

GoodSpirit:
For doing exactly what? Then she dates another man and wants to be settled, is she an apprentice? Na men dey cause this entitled mentality from women

ediko5:
Nairaland bot dey make me vex with unnecessary ban even without any toxic word I dey try response to one bra-in - less guy.

Back to the topic, the fact is you guys have failed to understand the poster from the side of love, sympathy, compassion and human feeling.

A man is also a human for heaven's sake and deserve show of love and compassion. The young man said he opened the business and also gave her almost 90% of her existing customers, so what's wrong if the lady render a 'lending' help to man in times of emergency need? Ladies should quit this mentality of thinking it's only a man that's should help a woman financially. If a lady can do this during courtship or dating then what will she do during marriage? Anyway, the guy should be wise to see the red flag that the lady doesn't want him.

Back to your diss, you said I'm being revengeful, 😁😁 funny enough I lady have never used me before in my life. I'm not a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend kinda guy. I started dating at 28 and before then I've already learned the street OTs about women. My post comes from the happenings and true life stories around me

I knew this two orientation before I entered the dating game and it's what have helped me be on top of the game:

1. As a young man, the greatest way to impress a lady is to build and develop yourself. You will attract ladies without spending much to prove points when you invest in yourself. That's what happened to me - I don't date liability ladies.

2. As a young man, never give a girl the impression that she's all over your head, never give a girl the impression that she's your last hope and you can't get another girl, never invest in a girl, never place a girl above you etc.

Gerrard59:
You na strong woman o

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I'm curious, like other women, what do you spend the money you earn on? How do you spend the money if the man is meant to spend his money entirely on the family?

Drsnives:
Honestly am Lucky..
I trained my gf.. I only did introduction then.
Now she has federal job and earns way higher Dan me, yet she still remains faithful a d let me know before taking any decision. I married her Feb this year

Tightpussy2024:
You are the traditional man because you are too poor to afford it .let small change enter your hand you will take a woman to chicken republic .

These redpill and street smart Una go dey form ,na poverty dey cause am

ediko5:
Lolz, despite the fact you claimed to marry Oyigbo, that low-life poverty mentality still gum your body.

I believe you be Igbo lady?

Na only simp dey prove give to - to say him get money be throwing money anyhow.

Red-piller movement doesn't mean you shouldn't give a lady money but it makes you define boundary for certain ladies.

It makes you define boundary and know how to keep what belong to the streets on the street, it teaches you not to domesticate or convert a public property to your personal property.

Red-pillers don't date a liability lady, they don't date left overs, they don't date damaged ladies, they don't marry single mothers (but they are allowed to pipe all of the above and swipe)

Tightpussy2024:
Redpillers don't date because no woman accepts them.you know the truth.this is the sole reason.shikena!
der the guise of giving advice) that are vengeful and sore towards women
ndards of a poor man serious.

So make money first at ediko5 , then we will talk.

@gerrar.d59

Gerrard59:
I am genuinely curious, what do you have against financially struggling men? We know the state of the Nigerian economy for the past decade, and also the level of insecurity. Why antagonise these men simply because of their economic conditions? No one likes being poor or broke or struggling financially. Most men don't like it. So why deride and mock them with that?

Gerrard59:
I am genuinely curious, what do you have against financially struggling men? We know the state of the Nigerian economy for the past decade, and also the level of insecurity. Why antagonise these men simply because of their economic conditions? No one likes being poor or broke or struggling financially. Most men don't like it. So why deride and mock them with that?

shibyc:
Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.

I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.

Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.

Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.

She forgets one thing:
The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.

Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.

So now I’m asking you all:

Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?

I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.

What do you all think?

shibyc:
Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.

I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.

Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.

Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.

She forgets one thing:
The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.

Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.

So now I’m asking you all:

Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?

I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.

What do you all think?