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brotherhood is proud, never settle for someone that have never made or seen 1m her whole life.

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

Very correct mindset. Men AND women are well advised to try their best to own some assets before marriage, hopefully men by 35 years old should have something tangible or a business. Then make sure to have an iron clad prenuptial agreement.

Does Nigeria allow prenuptial agreements? Hmmm, that's interesting to think about.

Good Luck to Nigerians

The funny thing and sad reality is there are hardly women out there who will choose you for you. In almost all cases you are being chosen for something you possesed.

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

This is what singles say until they are married .After marriage, we can talk because I will ask you, " Bro, afar?"

See guys talking like this....what's the guarantee that the rich family and the rich girl you are dating or even married wouldn't be expecting much from you. Some families are wealthy but will still expects you to do so much especially knowing fully well that you are wealthy also....how about if the lady, your wife ain't give fucking concern about sharing financial responsibilities with you but left to you alone, also if she spends and buy things on debt in your name despite that she's has her money and everything.......forget it guys...."With Women, You Can Never Know". That's a Novel by James Hardly Chase.....

Strategic thinking. That's what it is. I before others.

It not a matter of if they are using you to cash out or not, it a matter of if truly you love the partner or not plus you doing your homework on her if she is worth to live ur life and raise children with her, it's why you need take a time and do this things before marriage.

As a married man my advice for single men is this; never ever marry a poor girl or a girl from a poor home. No matter how beautiful, sexy and educated she is. They are very useless. Never ever make that mistake in your life. The way woman love to marry rich men, the same way you should marry someone that has something to offer financially.

No do that mistake guys. You will forever regret it

PheelzAlmighty:
Women are amazing creatures. They bring so much color to your life❤️

Metcheew, I guess you are newly married and love is still shacking you. By the time them show you hand, eye go clear. 😅

Well it's your opinion, but how many rich girls that will humble themselves to stay under a man? Very few I tell you. marriage is more than having a fellow rich pattern, there are other values that's worth more than money. For me I bless God for the wife he gave to me. She's just the best.

moneyissweet:
As a married man my advice for single men is this; never ever marry a poor girl or a girl from a poor home. No matter how beautiful, sexy and educated she is. They are very useless. Never ever make that mistake in your life. The way woman love to marry rich men, the same way you should marry someone that has something to offer financially.

No do that mistake guys. You will forever
regret it

I totally disagree with you sir, don't call this an advice for singles. I pity any man that will follow this advice

how do you guys make the money?
thats my main concern in life now because brokeness is trying hard to send me to my early grave

It is good for him as long as he doesn't expect any unnecessary respect or humility from the partner coz most made women don't have time for 'Head of the house' ego.

Beauty is the asset of woman. Let this dude set his eyes on a super beautiful damsel who lives in the ghetto and he will change his standard

Why focus on broke girls? If you're not going to settle with broke girls why even have them up for discussion in a conversation? This is a typical example of someone having plenty money and still poor. All the money he has now but still can't find a rich wife..... because rich women see him as poor. Man with many houses but no home.... losing out on the essence of life.

"Money flows easily to those who solve real problems."
→ Focus on adding value, and wealth will follow.

moneyissweet:
As a married man my advice for single men is this; never ever marry a poor girl or a girl from a poor home. No matter how beautiful, sexy and educated she is. They are very useless. Never ever make that mistake in your life. The way woman love to marry rich men, the same way you should marry someone that has something to offer financially.

No do that mistake guys. You will forever regret it

Pablo Richie... which kind advice be this nitori olorun?

Advice isonu.

Pocohantas
CandidLady
TheGreatIyaebe
Goodlady
MadamVanessa


When?

Why women sees marriage as an escape route from poverty

highchief1:
their Toto wey dem don use charge their phone for their nebo house.do women who aren’t virgins desrve good things?

Please all women should follow this link to go watch this video. Not sure why the mods keep banning the topic. It will free you totally.

https://www.youtube.com/live/7mwr9A16pNg?si=iLKdkHmJvmG2I7Jf

It is the epitome of " Woman Thou art loosed".

Goo0dHardDick:
Only foolish men settles for less after making it in life 🧬

Your gf is only with you now because you're the best option available at her disposal. Let her see another guy who's more sophisticated, richer and doper than you, Ur guess is as good as mine 👍 she'll dump u ASAP.

Why settle for less when you can get a rich girl or a girl from a rich family to marry?

Understand that a broke girl will never choose u if you were broke and haven't made it. So why on earth would you settle for such?

Things doesn't always works that way. Women usually go for someone higher than them in everything. A man on the other hands don't look at women financial capabilities because he is well positioning by nature to be a provider and protector of his family.

A man enjoy peace by marrying a girl who is intelligent and hardworking from responsible family than marrying a rich girl from irresponsible family.

If all men should operate and implement your mindset, I bet you, about 80% of marriages today will not be possible thereby reducing the rate of married women to less than 15%.

Creditalerts:
i have my own house and my personal car also a good job,I am dating one now but she is broke and a student from an average family,but I am confused. I don't want to look like a savior to her family. I'm planning to settle her if I see a better option 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

You don't owe her anything like settlement (no matter the circumstance) if you want another (better) partner for you. You should be selfish when it comes to choosing a partner.

And then marrying someone when you think you could have married someone better is wickedness enough to the one you marry and it's a disservice to yourself.

But know that there is always another better woman out there, even after marriage...

That is why marriage is tagged "settling down"... It means you choose and you stay true to your choice irrespective of any other.

Creditalerts:
i have my own house and my personal car also a good job,I am dating one now but she is broke and a student from an average family,but I am confused. I don't want to look like a savior to her family. I'm planning to settle her if I see a better option 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Student? What course is she studying first? What level is she in school?Most female students can demand for Africa.

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

First marry uncle.

Have u heard of man proposes and God disposes.

If God uses u to elevate ur wife's people there is nothing bad about it honestly.

U see that thing called billing,it is every where.

reubenobi:
Self! Self! Self! How sure are you that the one you will settle for is the one GOD wants for you?

God does not choose a wife for someone. He only directs.

PheelzAlmighty:
Women are amazing creatures. They bring so much color to your life❤️

so what the current color of your life now?? Ehen fyn boy.

spencekat:
God does not choose a wife for someone. He only directs.

Are we not saying the same thing? Him directing you means that's what HE wants for you.

mightyhaze:
Ok..but he should also get a lady his age mate too..not sb 10 yrs younger

Why should he get his age mate ....why force him to take a woman his age ?? Women will have their standards when it comes to age...how many women will date their age mates when at 21 or 22 ...when money men in their 30s and 40s in their prime are on their matter... a woman's prime ends after her 20s ... a man's prime begins in his 30s or 40s