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Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by lavylilly: 4:09pm On Jan 15, 2020
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jan 15, 2020
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by donbachi(m): 4:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:48pm On Jan 15, 2020
I’ve never dated a man who is deficient in any of those 10 areas.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by BadRadio: 4:52pm On Jan 15, 2020
after settling-up whoring her cunt to the world, the little bitch decides to settle-down.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by BadRadio: 4:53pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
u dated loafers. y??

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Danzysb(m): 4:54pm On Jan 15, 2020
Ok ooo
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by BadRadio: 4:55pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
ladies with over 1 million body counts are forming prudent preference list. smh

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by viyon02: 5:28pm On Jan 15, 2020
OK now, make sure this and make that:By the time you are 40 all this rules will no longer matter. a wise woman will always find a way to her husband heart. Sarah did it and she succeeded.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by OnPointMan(m): 5:55pm On Jan 15, 2020
Funniest thing is, OP might still be single grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Small080(m): 7:47pm On Jan 15, 2020
Make sure you learn how to respect your husband, his friends and the family members

Make sure you know how to support him physically and financially..

Make sure you can fight for him when he is there or not

Make sure you're brilliant, no man need a fool as a wife

Make sure you're good on bed.... Men need sex doll at times grin grin

Make sure you don't marry him because of his pocket

Make sure his real food is clean that p***y

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Amumaigwe: 7:59pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Where is the man?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Amumaigwe: 8:00pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

And you are still single?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by simplepee(f): 8:15pm On Jan 15, 2020
Make sure you settle for a man who doesn't cum in 20 seconds----very important something.


Make sure you settle for a man who is not always broke-----‐It's 'importanter'.

Don't settle for a man who will calculate and drag change with you for the money he gave for pot of soup.

Don't settle for a man who will be asking for his share from the money they gifted you.

Most importantly, don't settle down with a lazy Nigerian youth or a yahoo boy.

And pleeeeaaasse make sure you settle for a MAN not a BOY...

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by IdioticNLmods: 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
Funny thing is that every lady wants the perfect man while most of them are horrible.
Ogbeni go get a clay and mould your prince charming. Yeye undecided

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Dupalmer: 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by 9jamag(m): 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
and that man is JESUS CHRIST grin grin grin


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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by SouthSouth1914: 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

So you want to keep dating until you fall into the one who doesn’t fall into this category? Aunty shift abeg..

Most ladies be bringing list as if they have anything to offer other than their bodies and empty brain!

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by PrinxArthur1(m): 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
Gerarahia with Una unrealistic ideals.......mtchew

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by asatemple(f): 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2020
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by GlassDoctor1: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
This is an interesting thread and I believe the readers have learnt their lessons from the author's point of view. I myself I have learnt my my own lesson too. But which lesson can ever be better than the one below this comment you just read right now? Huh?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Agricaddict(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
Make sure you marry a man who has bigdik

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

it has always been. If you think about it.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Prec1ous(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
Find red sand and create your own!

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by phr0nesis(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
So what made you leave them

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Poorboy: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
Marry a man that can screw very well

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by sunnywhyt007: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
I’m here

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Smellingrillmea: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
Forget all that, there is no perfect man or woman just go with the flow and remember it's not do and die in btw avoid religeous fanatics and very possessive people

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by WowSweetGuy(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
When she is in...she should make sure she doesn't get fat too quick and fill up my sitting room everywhere

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by LesbianBoy(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Kuku stay your papa house! Rubbish! angry

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