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ediko5:
He's a toast to your award as a seeeemp.
🥂 🥂 to more award

Nairaland has always been a leveler, so I don't always blame you and your ilks who ordinarily can never have the privilege of lacing one's shoes, talk more of competing effectively with one in any important sphere of life in reality, capping nonsense.

givedemwotowoto:
Why the bitterness about it though? Marry who meets your standards, that’s all, no need to rant about it.

Abii o, just do it already!!!

If you're the prize, go for someone within your standard.
I don't understand the bitterness!!!

femi4:
While you are looking at physical broke vs poor

It's more important that you consider mental poverty/ brokenness

Mental brokeness exist in broke people,you canot be broke and think rich,only rich people think rich ,act rich and do things rich people do.Broke people go to shops Rich people go only to window shope why rich people actually shop.I come from a family of 4 sisters none of them is broke.They all earn thier way in life.They aint so rich but certainly aint broke.I dont think you realize there is a big devide btw rich and poor.If you earn N400k in todays Nigeria you are poor but not broke.

erico2k2:
Mental brokeness exist in broke people,you canot be broke and think rich,only rich people think rich ,act rich and do things rich people do.Broke people go to shops Rich people go only to window shope why rich people actually shop.I come from a family of 4 sisters none of them is broke.They all earn thier way in life.They aint so rich but certainly aint broke.I dont think you realize there is a big devide btw rich and poor.If you earn N400k in todays Nigeria you are poor but not broke.

You must be living in stone age
There was a post here on fp where both partner work yet only the man shoulder their monthly expenditure

The fact that she's financially ok doesn't mean you ll have access to her money. Women are wired differently

femi4:
You must be living in stone age
There was a post here on fp where both partner work yet only the man shoulder their monthly expenditure

The fact that she's financially ok doesn't mean you ll have access to her money. Women are wired differently

No I do not live in stone age, I actually live in N8 a civilised area far from what you can attain in Nigeria.You see, when you are married or dating your standard, no one feels they owe anybody, you are equals in the relationship when it comes to the physical and you plan together,worktogether to acieve the same goals,Joint mortgage is quicker than single mortgage. If you check some basic application form in the west, they have updated some of thier enquiry like, did you grow up with both parents? Did your both parents work? did they own thier own home etc.they use these to judge your character. A broke girl will not work, she relies on Men to provide her every needs, she is 1st to show your low life if things ever goes wrong finicially.Every broke girl already has a bad character by default.you have to pay for thier hair nails, clothes, health everything if you dont you are sharing her with a next man.It is better to go for a girl who can hold her own and then you add your own value to her life,These are the ways of a great man.

Kidoi123:
I totally disagree with you sir, don't call this an advice for singles. I pity any man that will follow this advice

Expirience they say is the best teachers.There is a big difference and reason between living with Mum and Dad till you grow up and living with relatives when mum and Dad are still alive till you grow up.Who feels it knows it.

chibuikejohn:
Well, let me correct you

Unfortunately money doesn't determine the value of a woman. A good and intelligent woman from a poor background is valued more than the daughter of a rich man with poor character and less intelligent.

However, men came to the world with zero value and has to build his value as he progresses in life. that value includes money, personality, properties, name etc.

Do you think even a woman will agree with the first line of this your responce?if you like get PHD and be a pastorn if you are broke no well to do woman will settle down with you.But once you make money , oh yez, mama and papa is sure.

erico2k2:
No I do not live in stone age, I actually live in N8 a civilised area far from what you can attain in Nigeria.You see, when you are married or dating your standard, no one feels they owe anybody, you are equals in the relationship when it comes to the physical and you plan together,worktogether to acieve the same goals,Joint mortgage is quicker than single mortgage. If you check some basic application form in the west, they have updated some of thier enquiry like, did you grow up with both parents? Did your both parents work? did they own thier own home etc.they use these to judge your character. A broke girl will not work, she relies on Men to provide her every needs, she is 1st to show your low life if things ever goes wrong finicially.Every broke girl already has a bad character by default.you have to pay for thier hair nails, clothes, health everything if you dont you are sharing her with a next man.It is better to go for a girl who can hold her own and then you add your own value to her life,These are the ways of a great man.

lolz..The situation I highlighted in the previous post happened in the Uk

femi4:
lolz..The situation I highlighted in the previous post happened in the Uk

There is a proverb in warri we always say,Stick wey You don see already nor fit shuck your eye.Be wise bross.The broke girls in todays world are fewer than the girls who actually go out ,earn thier own money and pay thier way.She oes not have to be rich but at least she got something going.

But how would a man who has fulfilled most of his aspirations go and settle for less with a woman who don't even have a name? That's foolishness and lack of self esteem.

Creditalerts:
i have my own house and my personal car also a good job,I am dating one now but she is broke and a student from an average family,but I am confused. I don't want to look like a savior to her family. I'm planning to settle her if I see a better option 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️


Na the broke girls just full everywhere chai😢

Guy,dump that broke ass woman and date a woman within your financial status.And don't even try to give her any money in the name of settling her,did she serve you that you want to settle her?

PheelzAlmighty:
Women are amazing creatures. They bring so much color to your life❤️

Lies

reubenobi:
Self! Self! Self! How sure are you that the one you will settle for is the one GOD wants for you?

That's where you got it wrong, it's not in God's hand to give someone a partner,you choose your partner if she meets all or most of what you need in your woman.

IamHonourable1:
That's where you got it wrong, it's not in God's hand to give someone a partner,you choose your partner if she meets all or most of what you need in your woman.

Well, I am talking from the kingdom angle and not from a worldly perspective.

DMCA:
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CandidLady
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Goodlady
MadamVanessa


When?

Leave me alone I can't date you. Na by force?

Goodlady:
Leave me alone I can't date you. Na by force?

With diamond junction why will i think of a date?

yemmit90:
Things doesn't always works that way. Women usually go for someone higher than them in everything. A man on the other hands don't look at women financial capabilities because he is well positioning by nature to be a provider and protector of his family.

A man enjoy peace by marrying a girl who is intelligent and hardworking from responsible family than marrying a rich girl from irresponsible family.

Spear me this sermons

What happens to gender equality?

A sensible man must either marry a rich girl or a girl from a very rich family.

Dude have you seen any politician son getting married to a broke girl? Nor a politician daughter getting married to a broke Guy? It will never happen. They marry for connections, influence and status, so why on earth would I marry a broke girl after making it in life? When I am not m@.d?

You can do that for yourself, certainly not for a sane guy

Goo0dHardDick:
Spear me this sermons

What happens to gender equality?

A sensible man must either marry a rich girl or a girl from a very rich family.

Dude have you seen any politician son getting married to a broke girl? Nor a politician daughter getting married to a broke Guy? It will never happen. They marry for connections, influence and status, so why on earth would I marry a broke girl after making it in life? When I am not m@.d?

You can do that for yourself, certainly not for a sane guy

You don't reap my post with proper understanding before jumping into conclusions. When did I said a rich man should marry from poor home?

I said, it is better to marry an intelligent hardworking girl from responsible home than marrying a rich girl from irresponsible home.

If you like, go and marry useless girl because she is rich or came from rich home, na your wahala be that.

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

At the end of the day if he see one broke girl wey dey sell amala with jiggly butts, e go still fall for her.

Men are wired that way, so all this one na just lamba, na hin type dey fall mugu pass for wife iyawo adugbo