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Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jun 29, 2025
Ladies in the house, I'm curious why parents sent most of their female children to school.

Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Celestialsword: 1:57pm On Jun 29, 2025
It is biblical, woman is no matter her status must depends on her husband.

If she does otherwise,she becomes a societal misfits and mockery
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by pocohantas(f): 2:05pm On Jun 29, 2025
This guy...
Zukwanuike😂😂😂


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Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina: 2:07pm On Jun 29, 2025
If we check now this guy may have nothing to his name. Na them dey shout pass grin cheesy
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 29, 2025
Celestialsword:
It is biblical, woman is no matter her status must depends on her husband.

If she does otherwise,she becomes a societal misfits and mockery
Off topic answer.
Anyway, how about people who aren't Christians ?
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Jun 29, 2025
Proserpina:
If we check now this guy may have nothing to his name. Na them dey shout pass grin cheesy
A proud lady who's making progress in her career or life won't find a topic like this annoying. From their comment, we know them
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Celestialsword: 2:14pm On Jun 29, 2025
ediko5:
Off topic answer.
Anyway, how about people who aren't Christians ?
It's universal,it cut's across all religious divide
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina:
ediko5:
A proud lady who's making progress in her career or life won't find a topic like this annoying. From their comment, we know them
Lol you are delusional to think your outbursts worth my reaction . It is the frequency at which they come is what I find amusing and ponder on. grin grin grin

Like you literally discuss women on all threads grin . What's going on? No more over 30 single ladies to monitor offline anymore? grin grin grin
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody:
Proserpina:
Lol you are delusional to think your outbursts worth my reaction . It is the frequency at which they come is what I find amusing and ponder on. grin grin grin

Like you literally discuss women on all threads grin . What's going on? No more over 30 single ladies to monitor offline anymore? grin grin grin

I too like woman
Me I no dey gboran
Me I no dey gboran


I want the best for our ladies and men, my threads are all advices based on personal experiences or experiences from .... victims😁

Nlfpmod
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina: 3:26pm On Jun 29, 2025
ediko5:
I too like woman
Me I no dey gboran
Me I no dey gboran

😁
Common knowledge!

There is a saying that people who spend their time discussing women suffer from obsession for the lack of female attention in their lives. You just proved that.

I think you should pay a little more attention to yourself. You should really take care of yourself.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by AutoConsult: 3:33pm On Jun 29, 2025
Peer pressure, lack of contentment - failed parenting, environmental influence... The list goes on and on
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Kobojunkie: 3:59pm On Jun 29, 2025
Celestialsword:
It is biblical, woman is no matter her status must depends on her husband. If she does otherwise,she becomes a societal misfits and mockery
Stop telling lies! Most of you have never actually read the content of that book. 🥱
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jun 29, 2025
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Proserpina:
Common knowledge!

There is a saying that people who spend their time discussing women suffer from obsession for the lack of female attention in their lives. You just proved that.

I think you should pay a little more attention to yourself. You should really take care of yourself.
Yeah, I'm taking very good care of myself and also investing in myself instead of a liability lady and that's one of the major reason I evangelize the RedPill gospel messages to other men.

As for the bolded, is only an organic SIMP man that will have the mentality that women are scarce in Naija. The cheapest commodity to purchase currently are 'liability street girls' and I believe you are part of 'em (you guys are only big and slay-queens on social media - no levels in real life) so that's why it always baffle me when I see men SIMPing for ladies we get with just a clap of 2 fingers.

The concept of my Gospel messages on Nairaland are clear and simple:

The intent of my message is not to attack 'well-meaning ladies' but to expose the manipulative strategies of women to innocent men.

Example:

If you were a lady jumping around on the street during your prime age doing olo - sho work, dating married men, dating your father's age mates, dating Yahoo boys and the likes them you finally wake up in your 30s to look for a young, handsome and successful man, please kindly meet one of your past clients to marry you and leave the innocent men for the ladies who were building themselves.

Don't go to church to deceive innocent men into marriage under the disguise of born again after your escapades. These are the major areas my threads targets and I'm so happy the RedPill Gospel is gaining weight in Nigeria as lots of simp men have been liberated from the bondage of SIMPing.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jun 29, 2025
AutoConsult:
Peer pressure, lack of contentment - failed parenting, environmental influence... The list goes on and on
Baba this list is the 'reason ladies not being productive after school' 😁

What I asked is why their parent sent them to school when they knew they'll need to depend on a man for all their needs for the rest of their life
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by fyneboi79(m): 5:07pm On Jun 29, 2025
Nigerian women are just plain lazy and entitled
Control your sexual urge around women as a man and you will find out theres nothing to gain in a relationship with Nigerian woman because most have nothing upstairs even after getting a university degree..
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by EmperorIsaac(m): 5:11pm On Jun 29, 2025
A very honest question. But because they lack accountability, and are possessed with selfishness and greed, they will never look inwards! Their education truly profits no man, but for a few.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by fyneboi79(m): 5:13pm On Jun 29, 2025
Proserpina:
If we check now this guy may have nothing to his name. Na them dey shout pass grin cheesy
you want to broke shame him into silence? Who get the money? We are all struggling everyday to survive so cut blackmail out...
What he raised is a valid concern and you should think about it constructively .
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by fyneboi79(m): 5:18pm On Jun 29, 2025
Celestialsword:
It is biblical, woman is no matter her status must depends on her husband.

If she does otherwise,she becomes a societal misfits and mockery
why are you people always quoting the Bible like its not man made? Please rather quote a social research journal or something of more repute than the Bible.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Jun 29, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
A very honest question. But because they lack accountability, and are possessed with selfishness and greed, they will never look inwards! Their education truly profits no man, but for a few.
...
ediko5:
Yeah, I'm taking very good care of myself and also investing in myself instead of a liability lady and that's one of the major reason I evangelize the RedPill gospel messages to other men.
As for the bolded, is only an organic SIMP man that will have the mentality that women are scare in Naija. The cheapest commodity to purchase currently are 'liability street girls' and I believe you are part of 'em (you guys are only big and slay-queens on social media - no levels in real life) so that's why it always baffle me when I see men SIMPing for ladies we get with just a clap of 2 fingers....
1. Demand & Supply concept insidts that Supply follow after Demand otherwise it is meaningless/valueless The market exists because there are men willing and ready to purchase their services. Why are you attacking the supplies when the fault lies with the men who, without a gun to their heads, seek out and engage the services of these particular women? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
...1. Demand & Supply concept insidts that Supply follow after Demand otherwise it is meaningless/valueless The market exists because there are men willing and ready to purchase their services. Why are you attacking the supplies when the fault lies with the men who, without a gun to their heads, seek out and engage the services of these particular women? 🥱🥱🥱
Your question is a big diversion from the topic.

Z
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Jun 29, 2025
ediko5:
➜Your question is a big diversion from the topic.
Demand and supply is the simple answer to your original question. My question, however, is directed at the fact that your other comment there, which I responded to, seems to lay blame at the feet of the suppliers and not the source of the demand that fuels the supply. 😏
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by GoodSpirit: 7:41pm On Jun 29, 2025
Celestialsword:
It is biblical, woman is no matter her status must depends on her husband.

If she does otherwise,she becomes a societal misfits and mockery
Which biblical? Which verse of the Bible states this? Lets discuss
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by GoodSpirit: 7:50pm On Jun 29, 2025
Proserpina:
If we check now this guy may have nothing to his name. Na them dey shout pass grin cheesy
Answer his question and stop this nonsense narrative, he is asking a pertinent questions answer it.

Some people advocate for the education of the girl child and after this education takes place she sits back and starts begging her then classmates (males) for survival then the question arises why then was she sent to be educated in the first place?
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by GoodSpirit: 7:51pm On Jun 29, 2025
ediko5:
Off topic answer.
Anyway, how about people who aren't Christians ?
No where in the Bible supports his narrative.

Seun
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 29, 2025
fyneboi79:
Nigerian women are just plain lazy and entitled
Control your sexual urge around women as a man and you will find out theres nothing to gain in a relationship with Nigerian woman because most have nothing upstairs even after getting a university degree..
Exactly my brother, that's why when simple and challenging questions like this and 'what can you bring to the table' are asked, they respond with insults and abuses.

I blame the simp men that bankroll them for survival.

EmperorIsaac:
A very honest question. But because they lack accountability, and are possessed with selfishness and greed, they will never look inwards! Their education truly profits no man, but for a few.

This question came into my mind this morning when I listened to a sermon and I thought to myself, we both attended nursery, primary, secondary and tertiary schools and one person have the mentality that she shouldn't bring anything to the table because of her gender ?
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jun 29, 2025
fyneboi79:
why are you people always quoting the Bible like its not man made? Please rather quote a social research journal or something of more repute than the Bible.
A very brilliant question here.
Using Bible to support folly lifestyle
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jun 29, 2025
GoodSpirit:
Answer his question and stop this nonsense narrative, he is asking a pertinent questions answer it.

Some people advocate for the education of the girl child and after this education takes place she sits back and starts begging her then classmates (males) for survival then the question arises why then was she sent to be educated in the first place?
The question is very difficult for her to produce a response hence her resort abuses because like you said people like her can't boldly account to the kind of lifestyle they live.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Love800(m): 9:45pm On Jun 29, 2025
Let it dont look as if they were left out, that is why women are also trained in schools!

The society is both for male and female. I think, with early days innovations and lifestyles, it was thought upon to integrate women too into work forces or opportunities!
That is why when you look at our world today, you see women in schools, banks, hospitals, engineering, manufacturing, police, military etc. Even in reality when we know that their presence in these various departments holds no real value, but yes we need to accord dem some respect and life fulfillment!
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by NairaLikes: 11:53pm On Jun 29, 2025
Our African fore fathers answered this question hundreds of years ago. Most of the Women are supposed to be trained on how to raise responsible family only.
Most African women are not built genetically to add anything to the economy. That is why after 16 years in school most of them still depend on a man.
As long as we continue to follow western culture and ways of life we Africans will keep on rotating in one axis.
Take a look at Saudi women and Islam, they have similarities with ancient African tradition. Women over there and in Islam know their place in the society and no too much divorce.

I am not saying women should not be trained but whats the use spending all that money for 16 years on them and after, no contribution to the economy or any innovation. Its waste of time and resources.
The ones with high IQ should be trained while others should be trained on special school on how to raise responsible family. Then married off.
Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Celestialsword: 3:09pm On Jun 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
why are you people always quoting the Bible like its not man made? Please rather quote a social research journal or something of more repute than the Bible.
please can you mention a book of repute than the bible,I am learning
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