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No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

1. Your deepest fears. She might comfort you today… and weaponize it tomorrow.

2. Your exact bank balance. Mystery = power. Full disclosure = leverage.

3. Your past body count. It never helps. It only haunts.

4. Your doubts about her. Handle them like a king....observe, decide, act. Silence is strategy.

5. Your darkest trauma. She’s not your therapist. Heal in private, rule in public.

6. Your next move. A man’s vision dies when too many ears hear it.

7. Your family’s weak points. Protect the house. She’s not entitled to every crack in the wall.

8. Your emotional breakdowns. Cry if you must—but not in her arms. In the shadows, then rise.

I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

In an ideal situation cum marriage the above listed scenarios shouldn't be an issue or a future clog in the relationship. But with the kind of bannies available for marriage today, those listed secrets instead of being a leveller becomes a handy weapon that will be used (not could be used) to destroy a man.
My own advice is man know thy wife because some women are God sent and should be treated accordingly but some bannies with their witchy manifestations,please when dealing with them be practical and not emotional.

Lol…talk is cheap…awon motivational speaker isonu

Brazino:
No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

I doubt if you know that, some wives are better than ur own mummy, daddy, pastor or anybody. "Some men are successful today, only because of kind of women, they married".

Though, many wives are devil incarnates, but stop generalising situation.

Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

not surprised...men over there are sissies, only thing they are good at is jealousy and xenophobic acts on our drug-lords hardworking brothers 🥱

What are you even hiding. Trust will be gone when she finds out

Ths one na cult no be marriage.






Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.

Hunger is a reality, the secret is financial buoyancy in a man, Dem no dey hide that one .if he dey he dey if he no dey no be by mouth

Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

You only know what he wants you to know.
Always have it at the back of your mind.

Even women themselves are controlled by very powerful hormones especially those ones that come with their monthly circle.

The major one listed above is your deep nuclear family secret which she will taunt you with when you have a fight.

Be wise Men !

SifonAbasi:
Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

The Op is right. A man is suppose to lead and you can't do that being a weakling.
Why should I share my bank account balance with you?
Stick to yours, I'm not even interested in whatever you have there.
Just mind your balance while I mind mine.

autoez:
What are you even hiding. Trust will be gone when she finds out

Exactly.
Keeping secrets destroys than cheating

No. 8 should be written in gold


Never cry in a woman's arms... It happened at birth, it should never again...

Whatever you do keep your net worth secret especially liquid financial assets

It does not necessarily mean that you do not trust your spouse but it's better not to tell her everything about your finances especially if you're the type of person that likes to keep a low profile

Brazino:
No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

Let me add "NEVER DISCLOSE YOUR FULL INCOME"
nNever ever try it. Thank me later

Men no fit even cry in peace? Now they need to rent a new apartment because they want to cry and be emotional?

Simply put. Don't let her know everything about you.

Kingosytex:
The Op is right. A man is suppose to lead and you can't do that being a weakling.
Why should I share my bank account balance with you?
Stick to yours, I'm not even interested in whatever you have there.
Just mind your balance while I mind mine.

How does revealing your secrets to your partner a symbol of weakness?

Hmm. God bless you. Nice one.

I don't know how women are wired to often seek how to control a man by any means possible.

Most don't rest until to get hold to your weakest point.

We live like endangered species beside them.

Even our lovely mothers as much as they love us, may still exhibit many of these strange traits at few times.

It's so hard to trust a woman. Because they can change status at any time. It's beyond them. Just be wise.

I hate social media. See someone who knows no 2 cents about relationship or marriage giving advise.

It's a terrible thing.

Only licensed counselors should provide advise when it comes to relationship or marriage.

There are systems that work in each relationship and marriage and then there are universal principles you must follow if you want to succeed. All the 8 are against those principles. Now, you are advising people to follow principles that will surely lead to failed relationship. TERRIBLE!


If you want to succeed in your relationship,

Read 7 principles of how to make marriage work(apply to both married and single)

For men
The way of the superior man
Hold on to your nuts

And learn lessons from people who will give you life practical and spiritually guidance and not all these hulllabullu

Lol you don forget to add...


You don't share the conversation or the problem your friends Confide in u only to later transmit it to ur wife....



There are some sissy men that there's nothing they can't tell dere wife all in the name of gossip....

Anijay1212:
I never read the article yet,na space i dey book so.

40 characters on the spot... How u take know... Abi u dey count am..?

Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

Then it's not ryt yet...my wife knows my exact bank account.. infact she manages my account..yet we ve been cool over 15yrs..

Avoid manipulating women and save yoursel this stress

SifonAbasi:
Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

This is not true.

There are some sensitive info you do not need to tell your spouse

SifonAbasi:
Exactly.
Keeping secrets destroys than cheating

You be woman na
What else will you say Lol
The fastest way for a man to die is to trust a woman (apart from his mother)

Oga your business
I go tell her everything
If another woman kiss or touch me anyhow I go tell my wife
If you tell me something not to tell my wife I go tell her......
My I go dey tell u everything

Brazino:
No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

Just pray for a good wife....
A good wife should have no problem ...
Knowing all these things...
We all hope not to be incapacitated with disease...
as the father of the house..
Even family members go abandon U....
U will have to depend on her ...
to carry you and attend to even your personal needs...