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MissOpe:
I am into him and I love him, but I'm just a very free , open minded person, you guys say men are polygamous in nature and that one woman is not meant for a man, but marriage laws limited men and they have to stick to one wife by fire by force (even though some men cheat), but I say nooooo, men aren't made for rules but rules for men..
They should be given the opportunity to explore their fantasies as far as it doesn't cause bodily harm to their partners.....
So I say again, my husband is free to have a side chick that tickles his fantasies, I have my money he has his, the only thing is if he's sleeping with them he can protect himself except he's sure she doesn't have STDs..

Life is short, let everyone chop Their lives before life chop them.....

MissOpe:
Did anyone say I must be sexing every day for 365 days...?
I said I enjoy quality sex and I do it at least 3/4 times per month...

Did I say it's a sexless marriage?

He wants more sex and I can't compromise that, knowing that it's a lot of chore and pain for me ...

At this point I must confess that all oloshos and ashewos dey try oooo, cos what

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

MissOpe:
My guy, if I ever live this marriage for any reason.
Just know for a fact that I'll marry myself and if I have to marry or get In a relationship with anyone, just be sure that both of us will never ever stay together ....laye

Babangidapikin:
She is obviously a side chick advocating for her type.

Tohsynetita1:
Until you contract a disease that can’t be cured, you will know the gravity of your statement.
Or if those side chicks kill you, you will know the the trash you are spewing

MissOpe:
Why would they have to kill me, when indeed I adviced him to take her as a side chic...

If she kill me make she no die again...

Life is not hard...humans made it so

Chilipepper:
He should cheat and have fun that way our marriage can last" - Nigerian lady shares the kind of husband she wants.



https://x.com/LuchiAnnabel/status/1939240210002595899?t=bAPo8GUGv3b4wh-n9UjF4w&s=19[/quote]this might sound a lil weird but she is accepting her faith from the beginning in case the worst happens and d husband cheats..

MissOpe:
I think that's why he doesn't agree to my wishes for him, but he knows me that I cannot and never cheat, I was a virgin so what's the need to sleep around, me I just want peace for and my mental health, whatever rocks his boat let him do, I have me and my children to focus on, not another man's problem...
Life is very simple if we allow ourselves to enjoy the simplicity of life

MissOpe:
Did anyone say I must be sexing every day for 365 days...?
I said I enjoy quality sex and I do it at least 3/4 times per month...

Did I say it's a sexless marriage?

He wants more sex and I can't compromise that, knowing that it's a lot of chore and pain for me ...

At this point I must confess that all oloshos and ashewos dey try oooo, cos what

Marc3500:
u remind me of my ex

Tbh u aren't attracted to him
Please u guys should divorce oo

Marc3500:
madam u are a weirdo and u need to check urself it's obvious u don't really love him or u have lost interest in the marriage

Marriage is not for you coz that kind of mentality doesn't work in that confinement

There is possibility u have cheated on ur husband

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

MissOpe:
I am into him and I love him, but I'm just a very free , open minded person, you guys say men are polygamous in nature and that one woman is not meant for a man, but marriage laws limited men and they have to stick to one wife by fire by force (even though some men cheat), but I say nooooo, men aren't made for rules but rules for men..
They should be given the opportunity to explore their fantasies as far as it doesn't cause bodily harm to their partners.....
So I say again, my husband is free to have a side chick that tickles his fantasies, I have my money he has his, the only thing is if he's sleeping with them he can protect himself except he's sure she doesn't have STDs..

Life is short, let everyone chop Their lives before life chop them.....

CaptainJune:
MissOpe, I hope I don't come across to you as having a judgmental tone. Only wanted to probe further into the reason for your stance in your marriage. It is well.

bayelsaowei:
are you sure you're not a man behind this handle?



Because how manage?

CaptainJune:
You give the impression you were forced into the marriage. Why did you marry in the first place if you won't yield your body to him on demand?

MissOpe:
No you're not...
I understand people have different perspectives as regards a subject matter,most times (this is not gender based) when people don't agree with each others perspectives, they resort to throwing tantrums, insults,argue and fight just to stroke the other person's ego ......
This isn't only limited to marriage but to all relationships in general....people form ideas on belief systems passed down from ancestral generations, some do from religious point of views and once someone doesn't believe nor agreee to it, there's always an issue, that exactly is what play out btw partners, btw countries, btw govt and the masses.....It is what it is...
Everyone will be fine

MissOpe:
Why did he marry me in the first place, when he won't provide all my needs on demand?

MissOpe:
Lol...
A man?

Do u want proof?

I'm a mother of three beautiful children ..

No cap bro

almarthins:
Huh!

U sure say that one na woman?

Women wey me I sabi no dey gree. Well, may be this one like to share. Na animashaun.

MissOpe:
Did anyone say I must be sexing every day for 365 days...?
I said I enjoy quality sex and I do it at least 3/4 times per month...

Did I say it's a sexless marriage?

He wants more sex and I can't compromise that, knowing that it's a lot of chore and pain for me ...

At this point I must confess that all oloshos and ashewos dey try oooo, cos what