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Marrying a virgin doesn't automatically mean you married well as a man." - Pst Kosi Ebirim

Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.
Many men focus on purity and miss the deeper values that sustain a marriage—like peace, respect, emotional intelligence, humility, and the fear of God.

A woman can be a virgin and still be:

Disrespectful

Argumentative

Ungrateful

Immature

Emotionally manipulative

What truly makes a marriage work is not just sexual purity but relational maturity.

Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.

N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.

God bless you for this piece. Infact. If I meet a lady I love and she says she's a virgin. I will automatically end the relationship.

All those men looking for virgin to marry I see them as those that can eat parboiled rice 😁😁

Being a virgin is just one percent of what keeps a marriage.

This thing is over hyped by the society, although it's a virtue but it doesn't guarantee a good and happy marriage.

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Celestialsword:
Being a virgin is just one percent of what keeps a marriage.

This thing is over hyped by the society

Lending money to a company with good record doesn't automatically mean the loan will turn out well and the company will pay in full plus interest...... But that's what all banks do because its called managing risk properly....

But hey!!...this is not about banks and loans

Virginity is good and desirable, but it doesn't even equate to sexual purity. I have seen many "virgins" who have done every sexual act (such as oral, anal, etc) except for actual vaginal penetration.
Sometimes you even marry a virgin and she goes haywire sexually after marriage

Very valid point
So valid
Thank you for your contribution

thesicilian:
Virginity is good and desirable, but it doesn't even equate to sexual purity. I have seen many "virgins" who have done every sexual act (such as oral, anal, etc) except for actual vaginal penetration.
Sometimes you even marry a virgin and she goes haywire sexually after marriage

naijapikin2:
God bless you for this piece. Infact. If I meet a lady I love and she says she's a virgin. I will automatically end the relationship.

All those men looking for virgin to marry I see them as those that can eat parboiled rice 😁😁

I support u. "U fit marry ashawo sef as she go get experience" as she's seen it all.

Your own opinion..

As for me, if she ain't a virgin, please count me out

naijapikin2:
God bless you for this piece. Infact. If I meet a lady I love and she says she's a virgin. I will automatically end the relationship.

All those men looking for virgin to marry I see them as those that can eat parboiled rice 😁😁

Little boy, you know nothing... Have you gone for your post utme?

And marrying a borehole automatically makes the marriage successful?

PastorKosi:
Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.

N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.

Myopic to think that abstinence from premarital sex is not a good character.

Is virgin the opposite of peace and purpose?

Some of you just mix English with ogiri okpeyi to market your ulterior motive.

It’s because you come from a country where fornication is a daily routine that’s why you don’t know the value of a virgin..If you were in Arab countries you will know the value of marrying a Virgin..A Virgin girl who is well reserved and does not fornicate up and down is 100x better than whatever is your thoughts..Go to other African countries and see the value of virgin girls and they don’t fornicate like our own girls..

suckprick:
Little boy, you know nothing... Have you gone for your post utme?

He knows nothing my brother..All these people talking trash are the ones who have the idea that all girls are olosho..You go to Rwanda and other countries even Arab countries and see the value of a virgin compared to borehole ladies..

You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?

Dzzzz:
It’s because you come from a country where fornication is a daily routine that’s why you don’t know the value of a virgin..If you were in Arab countries you will know the value of marrying a Virgin..A Virgin girl who is well reserved and does not fornicate up and down is 100x better than whatever is your thoughts..Go to other African countries and see the value of virgin girls and they don’t fornicate like our own girls..

suckprick:
Little boy, you know nothing... Have you gone for your post utme?

C'mon keep quiet there😠😠😠😠

FYI... I am in the process of an ongoing divorce.. check any of my comments for reference.

What I wonder is why you would want to marry a Virgin. You think she is timid and calm now. Bros na for your house she go learn work come graduate. As soon as my divorce is concluded I'll search, and trust me: I'm not going for a virgin.

I wish you good luck o... But don't say I didn't warn you 😎

nobilie:
I support u. "U fit marry ashawo sef as she go get experience" as she's seen it all.

I know that there are girls that are neither ashawo, not virgins... I'll go for such... But if I have to pick between ex ashawo and virgin, trust me I'll go for an ex ashy.

All these small girls sef, no fit withstand my stamina wallahi

naijapikin2:
I know that there are girls that are neither ashawo, not virgins... I'll go for such... But if I have to pick between ex ashawo and virgin, trust me I'll go for an ex ashy.

All these small girls sef, no fit withstand my stamina wallahi

Enter brothel and pick one. It's not rocket science..

jmoore:
Enter brothel and pick one. It's not rocket science..

And you seeking for virgin like aguba... Go to israel. Or better still go to Pluto... The virgins are not on the earth... And hey...


THAT'S ROCKET SCIENCE 😎

naijapikin2:
And you seeking for virgin like aguba... Go to israel. Or better still go to Pluto... The virgins are not on the earth... And hey...


THAT'S ROCKET SCIENCE 😎

Not everyone has converted their private part into public part. So go and choose your Tenth hand in peace and those that want brand-new will get theirs.

PastorKosi:
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?

I'm okay with whatever I have..When you score a virgin that will never cheat on you then you will know the value..

Lol. You'll be shocked that all these guys shouting "Virgin or nothing" will actually end up commiting fornication with the lady they met as a virgin before marrying her. So at the end you didn't marry a virgin and you failed in your mission to marry one, because you yourself were not.

Yeah so does marrying a non virgin or girl with a body count longer than a crypto wallet address. U guys should keep Ur opinions to Ur selves and let everyone live their lives how they please

The sense of entailment by some virgins will almost reck the marriage.

It rules out a lot of negative things and has a higher prospect of a wife that listens to you with no distractions from her exes or sexual satisfaction.

Lol. See simps. Brand new car na brand new car. Wether im go get accident or not.


Me i have standards. I can only marry something I opened myself.