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"I never wooed my woman also. Anytime she asks abt when I would propose, I smile.

In May, I asked if they sold wedding rings in Abk. She said yes. Asked her to go there. Told me the price, & I sent it, she bought it herself and fixed it. Got married last Thursday. It only works when the woman genuinely desires you. You'd regret it if you try it with a woman who doesn't and that's a positive regret".

COMRADES are speechless at this dude, this is the method I will also apply when getting marry, I no get time for any so-called white wedding spending/ elaborative wedding.

How old is she?


Evening newspapers can be so desperate

Even King Solomon once said " There is nothing new under the sun"

Wonders again they say shall never end..

A narcissistic is speaking. Hope this marriage will last. He feels like he's doing her a favour by marrying her.

Very very old gist!

Why do nairaland always come late to the party

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No body cares how you bought the god damn ring. Just get married and feed the family well.

E no matter, na your wife now, you will be her husband for life woo or no woo, she don gab you. There are many ways to kill a rat.

An evening newspaper desperate to acquire a new home.

This has been overflogged and cannot be overemphasized.

But trust the captains save them and the white knights in their shiny armors to always do what they know how to do best🤣

What's new here?

Funny enough, Na these kind marriages dey last sef.

Now wey him don carry am come social media... Problem go start...

Manculated:
This has been overflogged and cannot be overemphasized.

But trust the captains save them and the knights in their shiny armors to always do what they know how to do best🤣

One don even show face.

Make I go hustle garri for the night, e be things sha

Marriage topics so much on front page this days… We are getting old… and Reality is setting in…

Nobody want to remain lonely ..hahaha

Na mumu dey follow trend .
Na mumu dey follow trend .

Me too, I gave my wife the money to buy the ring herself. No time.
When she brought it, I collected it and put it in her hand.
Wetin concern me, and I always remind her that marriage favors women most. So if you do anyhow you go see anyhow.

Nothing wrong with this

Nothing wrong with buying the ring for her after she had seen it and wearing it on her finger either

The error is to buy a ring she hasn't seen

Women go shock you

The fact she asked when will you proposed means she's fast becoming an evening newspaper and she knows it. Time wasn't on her side either

As a man, take your time before getting married. Don't allow any lady to rush you or pressure you into marriage

Foolishness! Getting married for knacking in this economy? O'l Boy reason am well oooo.

The day he doesn't have the money or she makes her own money he will start to act paranoid.

Thundafireseun:
This two people neither love themselves nor respect themselves…

The guy is obviously rich and the girl is obviously desperate….

Meanwhile nah dem sabi

Kikikikiki😂😂😂😂

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Denalarian:
No body cares how you bought the god damn ring. Just get married and feed the family well.

Gbamsolutely💯💯💯

One thing still makes me wonder, people who are married, are rushing to run out of the marriage, na people wey never marry they rush to enter marriage. Ọmọ mehn, this matter tire boda Matthias ooo😂😂😂

I met my wife right here on Nairaland. We dated for about 6 months. One random afternoon during my break at work, I invited her out for lunch at a buka.
In between amala and cold Coke, I brought out a ring and told her, “Start preparing for marriage.” No long talk, no kneeling, just straight to the point.
She smiled, wore it, and the rest is history.
We've been married for 6 years now.
When she’s your person, you don’t need plenty drama. It just flows.

This response below is to someone's comment.
A proposal isn’t defined by where it happens or how dramatic it looks.
It’s about two people agreeing to build life together, in whatever style fits them best.

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless at this dude, this is the method I will also apply when getting marry, I no get time for any so-called white wedding spending/ elaborative wedding.

get her pregnant. Pay small dowry and enjoy her. No let anyone pressure you.

jaxxy:
The day he doesn't have the koney or she make her own money he will start to act paranoid.

a lady pack out of her marraige here because she start getting small money from tiktok. This generation of women ehn.

skultrick:
A narcissistic is speaking. Hope this marriage will last. He feels like he's doing her a favour by marrying her.

Yes he is. How loud should I increase my volume.?

Hhh

I blame the girl for this, must be low self esteem that made her accept such a ridiculous proposal.

njokuuche77:
I met my wife right here on Nairaland. We dated for about 6 months. One random afternoon during my break at work, I invited her out for lunch at a buka .
In between amala and cold Coke, I brought out a ring and told her, “Start preparing for marriage.” No long talk, no kneeling, just straight to the point.
She smiled, wore it, and the rest is history.
We've been married for 6 years now.
When she’s your person, you don’t need plenty drama. It just flows.

this wasn't exactly what you said, don't ridicule your wife online.

that's no respectful way to propose.

So much ado about proposals.

I see ignorant people talking about desperation, meanwhile this proposal things is a western construct. If after a month of dating you don't have a clear direction of where this relationship is headed then I don't see why are on a relationship. Most of these so-called relationships are just opportunities for people to fornicate. When two people have a common goal, there is no need for this so called proposal. A simple "when can I come see your people" is proposal. No need for all these nonsense drama about rings and "will you marry me?" If you won't marry him then what are you doing with him?

Omoapena:
this wasn't exactly what you said, don't ridicule your wife online.

that's no respectful way to propose.

Does kneeling to propose guarantee a successful marriage? Or would it feed children in the future? You people that are so obsessed with social media trends and irrelevant stuff. Una nor dey tire?