errm..how do I start?

Ok..

I met this beautiful young lady few years ago. I had the intention of lick her honey pot .No more no else.

She however told me outright that she is already with a man and she loves him...I can only be a friend. Chaiii that hurts

You know how guys play na, I accepted the friendship proposal with the hope that opportunity might presents itself later. After all, I have dated a girl like that that friend-zoned me and after some years called me to come and chop . (I still don't understand how their so called friendzoning works. Its a misery).

So, we got so close to the extent that she now looks like a blood sister to me, whenever she is with me, I don't have sexu.al urge for her (may be its because I zeroed my mind). She will come to my house, do all sorts of things..my mind wont even go there..(to be candid, guy instinct kicks in at times, but my body doesn't move cuz I didnt want to disappoint her ...

rewind back to late 2012, she had a fight with her man, they broke up few months, I was the one for her, guiding her on how to handle the situation and making sure her relationship works.

2013...May, they did this so called "yoruba family Introduction". She didnt inform me, I dont know why, I only saw her pictures on BBM..We quarreled and later settled it. Things continue normal.

July 2013, she lost her immediate brother to a terminal disease. The following week, her sister told her she heard a rumor that her man impregnated one IT girl in his office. She didnt know what to do, she came rushing to me on this faithful day crying. I calm her down, I made her realize its a rumor, she should find a way to confront her man and it should be systematic. She asked how she is gonna go about it.
I told her to ask her if he is hiding any secret from her. She should tell him she will forgive any secret or misdeed no matter how grave it is. I just gave her many hints and approaches.

I dont know if my formulas worked or not, she just called me one afternoon, crying and sobbing, "I am finished", "nothing left again", "this is a curse". "why me".
So the rumor was true. I didnt know what to do too, I nearly cried for her. It was 2 blows at a time. I consoled her, stayed with her. She will come to my house sleep, I cook for her.

So I advised the girl to still stay with him so far they have done "introduction" and have picked their wedding month (both family agreed already). I said she should still go ahead and forgive him, thats how God will have it.

The shocker came to me last in November when the guy called her and said he can no longer continue again. He wants to marry his baby mama to be. There is no point marrying someone else when a lady is pregnant for him.

My girl nearly committed suicide. It was a huge task for me. It was like baby sitting. She will just come to my house crying all day. But I make sure I keep her happy.

So, now, throughout all her trying times, she will cry on my arms, I will pet her to sleep right on the same bed. And I made sure not to open her legs. Cuz I knew ladies are fragile in that situation.

We went to church for cross-over night on 31, when we were about heading towards our different destinations, she said "I love you, I have loved you for a long time, Its just circumstance...I miss u", she then hugged me in a way she has never done before looking into my eye ball. I wanted to kiss her. But I told her, "we need to talk about this, go and rest first"..

The problem here is, she is not my wify taste. She is too flashy for my liking. I can't marry someone like that. What I am interested in is her boooobs and honey pot. You can't even walk with her on the street without guys shifting all attention to you. Naaa I dont want that.
I dont know how to handle the situation now. I want to lick that honey..And she is looking for husband..I can play along just to get what I want, but she has passed through a lot, If I add my own again. This saying "men are wicked". But not all men are wicked.

You can crucify me all you like. Guys know what they want. i know what I want

Pardon all grammatical blunders. I will come and correct them later. I am in a rush

You no get conscience

Abeg all guys are wicked oooo.

It is in our blood and genes to be wicked. We are only good for causing harm and hurt and nothing else.

Boys and their evil intentions...

iceberylin:
You no get conscience

Must I marry every girls that come my way ?

hotwax:


Must I marry every girls that come my way ?

Your on your own

If she is the same girl that friend zoned u enough to make u see her as ur sister...na wah for u o if konji dey do u find elsewhere put am better remain just good friends with her than mess her up she trusts u why fck it all up cos of just punny? No one knows tomorrow even if u don't feel the kind of love she has for u just tell her gently that u are not ready for any relationship but don't tell her she is not ur type might be too hard on her & u know what she's been thru..let her know u value her friendship...she may not even love u it might just be a phase and its up to u as a true friend not to take advantage...don't do it

Mynd44:
Abeg am wicked oooo.

It is in ij blood and genes to be wicked. I am only good for causing harm and hurt and nothing else.

Fixed

iceberylin:

Fixed

Waiting for those PMs right? Okay

runnazz:
If she is the same girl that friend zoned u enough to make u see her as ur sister...na wah for u o if konji dey do u find elsewhere put am better remain just good friends with her than mess her up she trusts u why fck it all up cos of just punny? No one knows tomorrow even if u don't feel the kind of love she has for u just tell her gently that u are not ready for any relationship but don't tell her she is not ur type might be too hard on her & u know what she's been thru..let her know u value her friendship...she may not even love u it might just be a phase and its up to u as a true friend not to take advantage...don't do it

Ok noted..10ks

Mynd44:

Waiting for those PMs right? Okay

Them dh carry am collect money from bank

hotwax:


Must I marry every girls that come my way ?

And must u Bleep everyone that comes your way?
Dude, if this shit is true and you Bleep that gurl and she places a curse on you out of anger, trust me, lucifer will be around the corner to torment your life, possibly send you to your early grave, somethings are not to happen, you are free to Bleep other girls, but situations like this, caution is needed. I hate advising people, I love seeing them doomed! Anyway, you can still lick the honey pot if you like.

Linqsz:
Boys and their evil intentions...

Pot calling kettle..

Allureoftheseas:


And must u Bleep everyone that comes your way?
Dude, if this shit is true and you Bleep that gurl and she places a curse on you out of anger, trust me, lucifer will be around the corner to torment your life, possibly send you to your early grave, somethings are not to happen, you are free to Bleep other girls, but situations like this, caution is needed. I hate advising people, I love seeing them doomed! Anyway, you can still lick the honey pot if you like.

Why na? Somebody offend you before or just this post ?

Mynd44:
Abeg all guys are wicked oooo.

It is in our blood and genes to be wicked. We are only good for causing harm and hurt and nothing else.

fallacious

hotwax:


Must I marry every girls that come my way ?

must yhu bleep every gurl dhat comes yhur way?

Guy, chop am!!!

Cutehector4u:
Guy, chop am!!!

Badz guy...afterall, girls no dey pity us too.

U no sewioux ......she loves u nah ....u ve been dere for her ...take the bold step and get married to her ..trust me wen una marry u wuld lick d so called "honey pot" tire buh do not disappoint her cause she trusts u

hotwax:


Badz guy...afterall, girls no dey pity us too.

as in eh. Here is a guy who has been frndzoned and been dyin in silence for a long tym. Yes, she said d I love him word. Jackpot. Go and collect ur prize bro. Chop and clean mouth..

Did you seriously come here to seek advice on that?

I thought she was your 'friend.'
Do you have no idea what the word 'friendship' entails?

apparentlylaw:
U no sewioux ......she loves u nah ....u ve been dere for her ...take the bold step and get married to her ..trust me wen una marry u wuld lick d so called "honey pot" tire buh do not disappoint her cause she trusts u

Lets just say...I dont see myself marrying her type.

MzNelly:
Did you seriously come here to seek advice on that?

I thought she was your 'friend.'
Do you have no idea what the word 'friendship' entails?

But she bridged that gap already. We are already dating. She had the hope of marrying me. And I dont know how to tell her...the explosive word

hotwax:


But she bridged that gap already. We are already dating. She had the hope of marrying me. And I dont know how to tell her...the explosive word

Ok, you don't want to marry her?

You want to sleep with her and leave?

Considering all she's being through plus how close you've been?

If your conscience lets you do that, go right on

Mynd44:
Abeg all guys are wicked oooo.

It is in our blood and genes to be wicked. We are only good for causing harm and hurt and nothing else.

really?

you better come back and correct all the grammatical blunders , man is now "her" in all your anecdote!

but why do you want to lick her honeypot, if you're not attracted to her? do not cause her more pain! unless God will punish you , go and look for someone who is willing to give you her honeypot for free

MzNelly:


Ok, you don't want to marry her?

You want to sleep with her and leave?

Considering all she's being through plus how close you've been?

If your conscience lets you do that, go right on

My conscience is the problem now. If I dont have any, I would have done it since.

The most complicated of it all is, she thought she has met her man. I have many reasons not to want to marry. I have decided in life not to be any lady's "plan B".

[size=14pt]No I am nobody's "Plan B"[/size]

Nneka123:
you better come back and correct all the grammatical blunders , man is now "her" in all your anecdote!

but why do you want to lick her honeypot, if you're not attracted to her? do not cause her more pain! unless God will punish you , go and look for someone who is willing to give you her honeypot for free

Kindly point to that paragraph. I dont want to believe you need an optical enhancement.

On the free honeypot, r u game?

hotwax:


My conscience is the problem now. If I dont have any, I would have done it since.

The most complicated of it all is, she thought she has met her man. I have many reasons not to want to marry. I have decided in life not to be any lady's "plan B".

[size=14pt]No I am nobody's "Plan B"[/size]

Sweetheart, your conscience doesn't want that. Don't deaden your conscience by doing such.

Just kindly but firmly tell her it won't work.

MzNelly:
Did you seriously come here to seek advice on that?

I thought she was your 'friend.'
Do you have no idea what the word 'friendship' entails?

mznelly oh please. She told him she loves him. Is dat not enough sign she is so depresssed and she wants sex?

Cutehector4u:
mznelly oh please. She told him she loves him. Is dat not enough sign she is so depresssed and she wants sex?

Depressed? Yes.
Wants sex? Perhaps.
Wants to be taken advantage of? I doubt!

The very minute he sleeps with her and all that oxytocin is produced; and she even begins to trip for him, trust me, leaving her after that could very well kill her. (considering all she's been through).

Just don't come back here later when she's pregnant and start saying she's into a convenant or possessed... like your twin brother on another thread.
She lost a close relationship...have a heart.