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Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by comradee1248(op): 12:04pm On Jul 05, 2025
Some Cultures (In the case of Nigeria) most especially Those from the Hausa Royal families marry their first Cousins so that they won't bring in a foreign blood to the royal family... Can you do that?

According to some quarters that Culture is mostly practice in the Middle East (Islamic Tradition)

South Asia countries like India, Pakistan and Bangledesh

Sub Saharan Africa

And some US States

So can you Marry your first Cousin?
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by columbus007(m): 12:17pm On Jul 05, 2025
This question is making me wanna throw up🤮🤮, wtf you wrote this.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Samantha125(f): 12:45pm On Jul 05, 2025
Why not? It's not a taboo in my tribe... If I was single and him and I didn't grow up close, then I'd definitely do marry him.

It'd only be gross if we were raised as siblings.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Talkisneeded(m): 12:48pm On Jul 05, 2025
As long as it’s not taboo,but it’s a taboo here in my culture,so it’s a no…


But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by marlow1962(m): 12:58pm On Jul 05, 2025
Nah I can't even imagine that, let alone doing it. That's a messed up doings.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Kobicove(m): 1:57pm On Jul 05, 2025
Samantha125:
Why not? It's not a taboo in my tribe... If I was single and him and I didn't grow up close, then I'd definitely do marry him.

It'd only be gross if we were raised as siblings.
You mean it's allowed for you to marry your blood uncle/aunt's child?
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Samantha125(f): 2:11pm On Jul 05, 2025
Yep, it's allowed for us to get married to our cousins... My maternal aunt is married to her cousin.

Kobicove:
You mean it's allowed for you to marry your blood uncle/aunt's child?
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Odafe360: 2:16pm On Jul 05, 2025
It's not bad at all.... Once your culture permits it then you can. Besides to hell with any culture because there is nothing bad in marrying your cousin.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:18pm On Jul 05, 2025
columbus007:
This question is making me wanna throw up🤮🤮, wtf you wrote this.
You see the rubbish eh. See abomination. He wants to in sex his own cousin and deliberately too. Hellfire is waiting for a lot of people
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Kobicove(m): 4:28pm On Jul 05, 2025
Samantha125:
Yep, it's allowed for us to get married to our cousins... My maternal aunt is married to her cousin.
Yuck!

I can't even imagine myself having sex with any of my female cousins
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Samantha125(f): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2025
Even if it happens that you guys weren't raised as siblings?
Kobicove:
Yuck!

I can't even imagine myself having sex with any of my female cousins
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Kobicove(m): 5:35pm On Jul 05, 2025
Samantha125:
Even if it happens that you guys weren't raised as siblings?
Whether we were raised as siblings or not is irrelevant.

Once I'm connected by blood with a person I can never have anything sexual with her!
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by DeathParade: 5:39pm On Jul 05, 2025
comradee1248:
Some Cultures (In the case of Nigeria) most especially Those from the Hausa Royal families marry their first Cousins so that they won't bring in a foreign blood to the royal family... Can you do that?

According to some quarters that Culture is mostly practice in the Middle East (Islamic Tradition)

South Asia countries like India, Pakistan and Bangledesh

Sub Saharan Africa

And some US States

So can you Marry your first Cousin?
Nonsense. First cousin marriages are outlawed in India (as per the a Hindu marriage act that governs marriages of not just Hindus but also Buddhists, Sikhs and Jains. Only Christians and Muslims have a separate marriage law.)

Only Muslims in India might marry their cousins.

Marrying any cousins no matter how distant, forget first cousins, is taboo in most of India.

Some states in the south India do practise marrying second cross cousins i.e. when there is no inbreeding as a result. But even there its not very prevalent.

India has had ancient methods and traditions to ensure that no marriages occur between same family lines for next seven generations. That is strictly enforced in the clans. More strictly than even the caste system. As a result, cousin marriages have been largely impossible in India for thousands of years. Its incredibly insulting to lump India together with the likes of Pakistan on the subject of inbreeding.

Folks really need to stop hyphenating India with Pakistan. These two are very different nations.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Samantha125(f): 6:25pm On Jul 05, 2025
Okay, it's understandable, we all have different cultural practices.
Kobicove:
Whether we were raised as siblings or not is irrelevant.

Once I'm connected by blood with a person I can never have anything sexual with her!
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by comradee1248(op): 10:53pm On Jul 05, 2025
DeathParade:
Nonsense. First cousin marriages are outlawed in India (as per the a Hindu marriage act that governs marriages of not just Hindus but also Buddhists, Sikhs and Jains. Only Christians and Muslims have a separate marriage law.)

Only Muslims in India might marry their cousins.

Marrying any cousins no matter how distant, forget first cousins, is taboo in most of India.

Some states in the south India do practise marrying second cross cousins i.e. when there is no inbreeding as a result. But even there its not very prevalent.

India has had ancient methods and traditions to ensure that no marriages occur between same family lines for next seven generations. That is strictly enforced in the clans. More strictly than even the caste system. As a result, cousin marriages have been largely impossible in India for thousands of years. Its incredibly insulting to lump India together with the likes of Pakistan on the subject of inbreeding.

Folks really need to stop hyphenating India with Pakistan. These two are very different nations.
Interesting! Thank you for the Information!
I can't possibly marry my cousin never, we even look alike
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Mariangeles(f): 10:59pm On Jul 05, 2025
DeathParade:
Nonsense. First cousin marriages are outlawed in India (as per the a Hindu marriage act that governs marriages of not just Hindus but also Buddhists, Sikhs and Jains. Only Christians and Muslims have a separate marriage law.)

Only Muslims in India might marry their cousins.

Marrying any cousins no matter how distant, forget first cousins, is taboo in most of India.

Some states in the south India do practise marrying second cross cousins i.e. when there is no inbreeding as a result. But even there its not very prevalent.

India has had ancient methods and traditions to ensure that no marriages occur between same family lines for next seven generations. That is strictly enforced in the clans. More strictly than even the caste system. As a result, cousin marriages have been largely impossible in India for thousands of years. Its incredibly insulting to lump India together with the likes of Pakistan on the subject of inbreeding.

Folks really need to stop hyphenating India with Pakistan. These two are very different nations.
Are you, by any chance, Indian?
You really took the matter personally.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by DoctorShomo: 12:37am On Jul 06, 2025
Medically speaking it's not a good idea for you to marry a close blood relative
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by DeathParade: 4:31am On Jul 06, 2025
Mariangeles:
Are you, by any chance, Indian?
You really took the matter personally.
Yeah. I am Indian. Obviously I take this matter very seriously. Its insulting to us Indians. Our civilization figured out the problem of inbreeding in the pre- Vedic era, around 8000 or more years ago. That is how the gotra system came into being. Marrying cousins is a sign of savagery, its barbaric behavior.

But now, because of the inbred Pakistanis and their depraved nature, we're being called the same. Pakistanis are not Indians. They are the ones who turned away from being Indians, ones who spit on the Gods of their own forefathers. This is the entire reason that Pakistan split from India during the independence movement.

Just look at the Indian immigrants in UK and those from Pakistan. Pakistani immigrants are known for grooming gangs. Indian immigrants are not. Instead the Sikhs in UK were among the first to notice the pattern and fight back against these Pakistani gangs. UK news channels have only recently started interviewing these Sikhs, check it out. GB News had one interview, I think.

India is very different from Pakistan at every level. Only Pakistani propaganda and those affected by that propaganda think that India and Pakistan are similar.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by yemre: 6:05am On Jul 06, 2025
I know that some cultures permit it (even here in Nigeria) and it's not in my place to either approve or condemn it. I once read about a former CJN who married his own first cousin and even confirmed that his own parents were cousins!

Also, there's someone I know, personally, who married his own cousin! Tho, this particular one was not intentional according to him. It's because the two of them didn't know until they've gone really far in the relationship and even had kids. Tho, he's already in his 60s now and he told me that anytime any of his children beings any potential spouse home, he would personally conduct an investigation to ensure that the child doesn't make the same mistake.

As for me, where I come from, let it be seventh or tenth cousin, it is an abomination. No family member will even allow it or even take you seriously if you ever contemplate that. I've never even had it before!
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Antwan9(m): 7:41am On Jul 06, 2025
God created only two people, a man and a woman.

This is one family. It means, God only created one family. So with which family did their offsprings reproduce with?
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Dzzzz: 8:08am On Jul 06, 2025
I’m sure some of you guys have had sex with your cousins before??
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by Demigod22: 10:14pm On Jul 06, 2025
Of course, I can marry my cousin for sure. I have beautiful cousins, great brains and extraordinary beauties, but I don't actually look at them from marriage perspective, however, I can actually marry my cousin.
Re: Can You Marry Your First Cousin? by DelilahMakinde(f): 10:03am On Jul 07, 2025
Reason why I can't marry from my anscestral town....We are all related in some weird way or the other grin
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