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He only said the disadvantage and not the benefit

Blitzerz:
No worry prepare money for DNA tests when time reach

Lol. Don't mind all these wayward people who are always trying to find solace in message like this.

girl can be 21 with 2 kids while another one can be 18 with 3 abortions but the society will judge the 21 year old simply because her decisions are visible[right][/right]

For me, it has always been Virgin or no walking down the aIsle.

Thank you for understanding.

PastorKosi:
Marrying a virgin doesn't automatically mean you married well as a man." - Pst Kosi Ebirim

Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.
Many men focus on purity and miss the deeper values that sustain a marriage—like peace, respect, emotional intelligence, humility, and the fear of God.

A woman can be a virgin and still be:

Disrespectful

Argumentative

Ungrateful

Immature

Emotionally manipulative

What truly makes a marriage work is not just sexual purity but relational maturity.

Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.

N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.

Virginity is not the most important indices of purity.

YourMaleCrush:
This subject is not talked about much sha! It doesn't guarantee nothing! Some of them have very horrible characters. I have met 2.

Now I am with one who wasn't a virgin and I have utmost peace. I meet her online funny enough and she brought me to Leeds, UK.

Maybe because they can easily manipulate you.

All the non virgin s I met have bad characters. The two virgins I have have good characters.

When I said good, I don't mean they are gentle or simp. Na, they speak their mind, get angry when necessary, but never beyond their limit or I realistic.

They are disciplined too.

Infact, if I see a confused unrealistic lady, I automatically know she has been with multiple men.

Sonnobax15:

Your own opinion..

As for me, if she ain't a virgin, please count me out

Your Opinion As well ... But Make sure say Na Real Virgin ooo , Tight Pussy , After Being Dis virgined Dey well well , Even if U want Blood , It will Come ..

But Wait , You are Looking for Virgin .. Are U a Virgin yourself , Chai ! After you have Slept with so Many Ladies , Even Dis virgin Some and now Na Virgin U dey Look for ... Fear god ooo. To Marry a Virgin U too Mustn't have Slept with any Lady ..

You can pander to your female followers without all these. Of course, every man with at least two brain cells knows that virginity doesn't guarantee a good wife. However, virgins can exist with good character and good home training. Your wife must come with virginity as well as good character. Abi na only nonvirgins dey get good character?

In the age of promiscuity, men don't even see the sense in insisting on virginity and the potential baggages they avoid by rejecting nonvirgins. Well, what do I know? They are even foolish enough to assume a woman's body count and even go as far as convincing themselves that they have reliable techniques to estimate a woman's body count. Men will not kee me with foolishness.

"But some virgins have done blowjôbs, anal sex, etc. without penetration"
Yeah, right. If virgins can do that, imagine what nonvirgins would have done. Are nonvirgins less nastier than virgins? Are you even dumb enough to expect things to be this way? Besides, why bother yourself at what you can't measure or spot? The one you can spot which is a virgin pusśy, you refuse to do so because you are trying to mix virgins and nonvirgins together.

"Virginity doesn't matter blah blah." Continue with this foolishness. This is how men marry former hookup babes without knowing or start competing with the works and damage of unknown exes. There many more things that can be avoid by leaving nonvirgins alone.


"She has only three body count"
"What if she just did it once?" (As if you know for certain like her guardian angel )
"Her body count isn't that much" Na you be dis 👇

A virgin with all the above problems you have mentioned is still better than a non virgin FOR ME.


I will never settle for less
I will never pay for a used product not even okrika
I will never buy a community cow
I will never personalise a public property
I will never keep a public trash can in my house

A virgin is a sign that at least a descent life was spent, good or bad character can swing either ways. U fit get thousands body count still get stinkingly character. There are many prostitutes with good character. u can as well settle with one

Virginity is not a recipe for a good marriage. It only protect you from unwanted pregnancy and diseases.

Watcharena:
A virgin with all the above problems you have mentioned is still better than a non virgin FOR ME.


I will never settle for less
I will never pay for a used product not even okrika
I will never buy a community cow
I will never personalise a public property
I will never keep a public trash can in my house

They are using style to act like injecting peñis into a woman endows her with good character and reliability. Pastorpreneur dey disguise.

Blitzerz:
No worry prepare money for DNA tests when time reach

Understand that virgin sef dey cheat o.

When she has tasted and found out you're not her match she may look at other options.. by this I mean other d***cks😃😃😃

You people should leave virgin girls alone, no be them send una make you dey hop different gbola up and down.
He who finds a virgin is lucky and should embrace her and give her the best treatment… it takes discipline Afro a girl to keep herself in this age of distractions

Kudos to the virgin girls! They deserve the world

Sonnobax15:

Your own opinion..

As for me, if she ain't a virgin, please count me out

Leave them...

Let the world derail morals and decency in the name of whatever the lust and immorality they believe in…

I'll stick to GOD'S standard.

PastorKosi:
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?

Women of lower status what men of higher status. Your post is like saying a woman should not desire a man of higher status. There is nothing wrong in wanting from the opposite gender certain things you don't have. In fact, due to gender differences, there are certain things that are valued in one gender and not so much in the other.

Perish this nonsense.

PastorKosi:
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?
You want a virgin right? Are you a Virgin?

I wonder ooo



Someone that has spent his life frolicking about is now looking for a virgin to marry.

See double standards

What makes a woman a good wife material is her fear for/intimacy with God... virginity is a sign of good character but imcomplete without the God factor.

All I see is moral decadence….. smh

I don’t think I need more characters to explain that Seun

Not automatically but it is a PRIDE to the Bride family in the first stage of marriage.

Sonnobax15:

Your own opinion..

As for me, if she ain't a virgin, please count me out

A virgin lady doesn't guarantee you happy marriage certificate

Martinez39s:
They are using style to act like injecting peñis into a woman endows her with good character and reliability. Pastorpreneur dey disguise.

they can never receive us ,we know what we want. They should continue enjoying their penizz around, we are not complaining

Sonnobax15:

Your own opinion..

As for me, if she ain't a virgin, please count me out

Guy they no they tell person na there you go sleep,

Nobody consciously marries a bad wife. Nobody is that desperate. For men who virginity trumps any other characteristic, they are free to settle for these. Sane men have many options.

PastorKosi:
Marrying a virgin doesn't automatically mean you married well as a man." - Pst Kosi Ebirim

Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.

is that why young boys should be marrying women wey dun sleep with as much as 4 different men/boys in their short life
this guy dey give hope to babes wey dun sacrifice their virginity to Tall Dark and Handsome

you go marry girl finish, u go dey fear to go gathering wey her ex fit dey,anytime u see her ex, weytin go dey ur mind na that time wey dem dey nack wey d penis slip out and ur own wife use her hand slot it back inside herself

-some of these girls even get liver, person wey im body count reach 4, go start relationship with u tell u say na platonic relationship e wan run.
u dun open legs for men wey no ready to wife u, men wey no rate you, u wan come give honourable man condition

PastorKosi:
Marrying a virgin doesn't automatically mean you married well as a man." - Pst Kosi Ebirim

Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.
Many men focus on purity and miss the deeper values that sustain a marriage—like peace, respect, emotional intelligence, humility, and the fear of God.

A woman can be a virgin and still be:

Disrespectful

Argumentative

Ungrateful

Immature

Emotionally manipulative

What truly makes a marriage work is not just sexual purity but relational maturity.

Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.

N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.

Marrying a virgin is a great honor to the parent and the husband.
Character can be corrected but virginity gone can never be corrected.
A woman can only argue when the husband too argues.
A woman can be disrespectful when the husband doesn't earn her respect
A woman can be ungrateful when the man don't know how to satisfy needs. Buy cars or building house for a woman is not the necessary thing a woman needs no woman will ever be ungrateful to a man that gives her his attention and understanding
A woman can only mature to the extent of the maturity of the husband
A woman can only manipulate a manipulative husband